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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 7:23:49 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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Status: offline 		I have never slept with my boss.  Though there was one older man, GC,  that I worked for that I was madly infatuated with.  When I was assigned to him, all the other assistants said "ohh no!  You don't want to work for him. He's impossible to please and he'll ruin your career."  I worked with him for over a year, and with the rave job reviews I received, I couldn't convince a soul that I didn't sleep with him.  They were all convinced I must have.  Fact is, I went into the position with a determination to do all I could to please him.  Anticipated his every possible (professional) need, and made my mission in life to be one step ahead of him.  The man sang my praises.  I think we both enjoyed the sexual tension, and it helped pass the long 7/12's (seven days a week, 12 hours a day.)

Aside from GC, there's not ever been a single Boss that I even considered it with.  I do not mix my professional and private lives.  Now, if I DID have an affair with the boss, these days, it would be along the lines of masterbation.  Hmm, guess I wasn't completely candid.  I had 'sex' with my boss just the other night.

< Message edited by WinsomeDefiance -- 10/9/2007 7:25:24 PM >

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 7:28:27 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		No, no urges for a boss or authority figure. Now, except for the owner that signs the checks (at least for as long as the place lasts) I am the boss. However, if that boss doesn't start doing his job instead of whatever it is he does in his office........I will be looking for a new boss. Or be starting my own company sooner than previously planned....

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 8:14:59 PM   
FangsNfeet


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ORIGINAL: Lashra

I am the Boss and NO I never have nor ever will sleep with any of my employees.

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Never say never. However, what about Ex Employees, who may have been fired, laid off, or quit for various reasons?

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 8:15:30 PM   
murmur


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Status: offline 		my boss is a lady who's younger then me (21 here) sooooo that's not gonna happen. I had fantaisies about teachers when i was younger, but right now, soldiers seems more appealing to me...yum!

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 8:17:02 PM   
iammachine


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I know I've always had a huge professor complex and will admit to having fantasized about almost every relatively attractive prof I've had in college and grad school.


I admit, I had the hots for a math prof of mine a few quarters ago. It wasn't so much that he was a prof.... it's that the man was gorgeous and had the most adorable Greek accent.... *drool*

I do tend to find people in positions of power to be more attractive than those that are not. I think that is more a result of my finding a lack of success (or at least lack of direction or ambition) to be rather unattractive, moreso to an overall attraction to power or success. What can I say, I'm a woman.  Whereas I don't expect anyone to provide for me, I have  no desire to carry anyone else either, so they should at least be stable themselves. :)


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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 8:28:07 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		Tigrita, when it comes to work, I go by my Grandfathers advice.

"Don't get your meat where you get your bread." After all, I don't care who says what. There are always strings attached.

As for fantasies and attarction, keeping distance and more focused on my work, gets me past each quirk.  

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 9:06:56 PM   
proudsub


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Status: offline 		Hubby is my boss and i've been sleeping with Him for 39 years.

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 9:18:32 PM   
EvilGeoff


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Status: offline 		Grandpa's First Rule Of Workplace Relationships:

Son, you best not play,
Where you get your pay!
 
A rule I took to heart at a very young age.  But yes, I _have_ fantasized about shagging the boss when I've had an attractive female supervisor.  And a couple of co-workers almost... a  l  m  o  s  t ... made me break that rule...

YIK,
- Geoff

PS:  LA - Where do you work, and how do I become a client? 

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/9/2007 9:26:57 PM   
lighthearted


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Status: offline 		if you're an authority figure in my life and not related to me, I've pretty much fantasized about fucking you.  but, I also realize that there's a big difference between fantasy and reality.  I've never actually done it with an employer/supervisor.

but then again, if you are even a weensy bit attractive, and I've actually met you in person, chances are...

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/10/2007 2:11:11 AM   
TheChastiser


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Status: offline 		i would say such fantasy should remain such. its fine while all is ok between the two, but should there be a falling out, careers etc can be affected. best to leave such things outside of the workplace.

however, i would say, as a manager, there have been times when i have wished that the disciplinary proceedure at work included crucifixion and flogging(grin).

Mike

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/10/2007 3:17:01 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		No means no.  I don't do casual sex for one thing and secondly none of them have ever appealed to me in that way. Plus these days I find myself more attracted to women and frankly, I haven't had that many women work for me. The few that do arent my type.

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/10/2007 4:50:52 AM   
GoldStallion


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lashra

I am the Boss and NO I never have nor ever will sleep with any of my employees.

~Lashra



Never say never. However, what about Ex Employees, who may have been fired, laid off, or quit for various reasons?


Like sleeping with the boss/workers?

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/10/2007 5:02:27 AM   
GoldStallion


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Status: offline 		I only slept with a boss once, I was badly hurt by the experience. She promised me a third gold star if I slept with her. I slept with her, but then she demanded more "sleeping with her"....it wasnt really sleeping with her she wanted...it was SEX!

I could hardly make another burger after that.

I am the boss now, but I dont sleep with employees - although I was once out with one for lunch. There was lots of flirtation and tension and she was cute. Then she asked me, in a fairly quiet and reasonably posh restaurant, maybe 8 other diners... "SO....DO YOU LIKE ANAL SEX?"...the whole place just went dead.

I figured discretion wouldnt be high on her list so I stuck to the adage "dont dip your pen in the company ink". Lucky I did, because a few months later she told me she had Gonorrhoea. And that folks, is a true story.

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/10/2007 9:34:33 AM   
Prinsexx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: came4U

I chased a boss once, a hot Italian hunk of man-meat
Tony? where r YOUuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu???  lol


I have been thinking about this came4u and you know....everything changes after three months with an Italian bieve me I know......HOT becomes cold and I aim't talkin gellatti....pain becomes pasta...you know those wriggly little vermicelli.....I lived there and was married to one....and the only common conversation I ever over heard was the women discussing what they did with his life insurance........

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/10/2007 10:54:04 AM   
LordVelvet


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Status: offline 		I have slept with 2 of My bosses over the years. First when I was 17, then at 22. Both were great experiences. No regrets.
LordVelvet

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/10/2007 1:18:30 PM   
rhythmboi


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Status: offline 		I'm in school again for graduate work, and while i don't fantasize about sleeping with every professor, i do find that i'm a little more prepared and on my intellectual game in the classes taught by profs whom i wouldn't mind getting it on with (i think this means i'm either a bad academic or a bad person). Of course, i'd probably completely freak out if the opportunity actually presented itself in reality.

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/10/2007 1:24:09 PM   
Tigrita


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Status: offline 		Mmmmm, I live for that smile that Prof Pasquinelli gets when someone pipes up with a really good, smart question or comment. It makes my week to get that smile from her =)

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/10/2007 3:33:36 PM   
feastie


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Status: offline 		I've had sex with the boss ...  there was no sleeping involved.    Can't say as I'd ever repeat it, but I didn't experience any problems with it when I did it.  And we did it a lot.

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/10/2007 3:41:12 PM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		I have sex with the boss on a very regular basis as i am the boss

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RE: Sleeping with the boss - 10/10/2007 3:51:39 PM   
Prinsexx


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ORIGINAL: came4U

Why do men tend to end up sucessful AFTER it is over? 


Because leaving a mark or their spunk or their piss is like marking out their territory?

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