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subtee -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/10/2007 7:06:18 PM)
Dude...please. No "humoring" going on here. This is like, woah. "Tough" market? Pffft...we'll see... You need the standard struggling, thrashing, "tossing myself about"? Or do you want the more cough intense (and let's face it) expensive "screaming banshee"-variety testing module?

feralcat -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/10/2007 7:14:55 PM)
RRafe, isn't there a rush when you see them tearing up the place? Damn I LOVE watching rook struggle hard,damn boy has popped rivets out of my cuffs.There is something about that that just turns me on. Makes me just compose a better "rook trap" hahaha...and the rings must be welded or he twists them to death. Come to think of it he has broken a lock or two as well...hmmmm..maybe it is the terrible things I do to him.[;)]

RRafe -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/10/2007 7:15:22 PM)
I like the more extreme version. (I may be kinda thinking of "the excorcist" here-have had women who got that active during scenes)But does it have to be expensive too? (and please, I do have a sense of humor, even though I fall on my face with it at times.)[;)]

RRafe -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/10/2007 7:21:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: feralcat RRafe, isn't there a rush when you see them tearing up the place? Damn I LOVE watching rook struggle hard,damn boy has popped rivets out of my cuffs.There is something about that that just turns me on. Makes me just compose a better "rook trap" hahaha...and the rings must be welded or he twists them to death. Come to think of it he has broken a lock or two as well...hmmmm..maybe it is the terrible things I do to him.[;)] I use heavy latigo leather, I use tons of double caps rivets-or solid copper rivets. Buckles are solid steel rollers. Rings are double thick welded steel. I stitch edges, I glue in pads and suede liners-also stitched. It's pretty heavy duty-serious stuff. I LIKE seeing a struggle-I'll probaby push a bottom who tries to be stoic, I see it as a challenge. And yes, I love screaming and squirming,and writhing-the struggling is a total turn on. I may give a little slack, or pull the cuffs and belts so tight on the chains that they can barely move. Makes me hot when I'm beating ass, and they curse me. I know it's not personal, they are just using it as a release. It's not a safe word.[:D]

subtee -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/10/2007 7:45:51 PM)
quote: you aren't just humoring me That's about the "humoring" thing. Pretty sure your sense of humor is in A+ quality condition. That's a different Inspector anyway, not really my arear. Now, if you want the exorcist deal, and I'm assuming this is with the entire Head Spinning Package?...Yep, that'll cost ya. The uh, crucifix portion is not included. We don't really don't that. Nope. But the rest is well worth it though, Sir. I'll work with ya Slides a sheet of paper with a number on it across the desk

RRafe -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/10/2007 7:50:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subtee quote: you aren't just humoring me That's about the "humoring" thing. Pretty sure your sense of humor is in A+ quality condition. That's a different Inspector anyway, not really my arear. Now, if you want the exorcist deal, and I'm assuming this is with the entire Head Spinning Package?...Yep, that'll cost ya. The uh, crucifix portion is not included. We don't really don't that. Nope. But the rest is well worth it though, Sir. I'll work with ya Slides a sheet of paper with a number on it across the desk Head spinning is optional........thanks![:D] check your mail.

Celeste43 -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/11/2007 5:59:07 AM)
I love being tied up. But not having been raised to be ashamed of my sexuality, I doubt that's the reason. I just relax and get aroused the moment the rope goes on, and I space easily tied up. He's just tied me up and left me there to float with a blanket on while he does stuff so that can't be about being forced when nothing was happening.

BossyShoeBitch -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/11/2007 6:12:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Tigrita I don't feel actively submissive if that makes any sense. But the only primary partner I'm be satisfied with is one stronger and more dominant than myself (and I am pretty strong and dominat myself). I do feel like my submission has to be forced to some degree in most circumstances. I don't really want to be submissive, I want to be dominated. I don't know if that makes any sense. Thank you!!! Tigrita, I don't know you, but I think I love you! With a single sentence you helped me resolve the internal conflict I have been experiencing for months since I met Michael!!!!!!

Tigrita -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/11/2007 6:42:54 AM)
Aw, jeeze, you're gonna make me blush! If you love me, can I borrow those boots on your wishlist if you get them? I should add too that once I feel strongly dominated I do become very submissive to that person. But it takes the force of feeling that strength consistently and is an expression of my respect for it.

BossyShoeBitch -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/11/2007 6:58:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Tigrita Aw, jeeze, you're gonna make me blush! If you love me, can I borrow those boots on your wishlist if you get them? Absolutely!! quote: I should add too that once I feel strongly dominated I do become very submissive to that person. But it takes the force of feeling that strength consistently and is an expression of my respect for it. That's exactly how I feel with Michael!! BTW, I just perved you and I think we were separated at birth.. (except for the Molecular Biology part.. maybe could have been a Scientist... but I'll blame that on my self diagnosed ADD...) I do have a rather freakish abilty with numbers though, does that count? lol edited to say: that..and the fact that I'm old enough to be your Mother.....

RRafe -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/11/2007 7:28:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Celeste43 I love being tied up. But not having been raised to be ashamed of my sexuality, I doubt that's the reason. I just relax and get aroused the moment the rope goes on, and I space easily tied up. He's just tied me up and left me there to float with a blanket on while he does stuff so that can't be about being forced when nothing was happening. I've noted that too. That binding girls and some touching can often help some go into sub space-no sm required. I actually enjoy that sort of thing quite a bit.

Sabella -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/11/2007 7:45:13 AM)
How curious. I never really thought about it - great posts!!! I've only been truely "tied up" a few times, eons ago. It really didn't do anything for me [:(] I like being physically forced & then held down, that is exciting, feeling hands on my wrists or thighs swoon. Bondage just made me relax, not fight it or have any desire to other than being annoyed that I couldn't touch the other person. Ok I'm weird LOL.

RRafe -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/11/2007 7:49:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sabella How curious. I never really thought about it - great posts!!! I've only been truely "tied up" a few times, eons ago. It really didn't do anything for me [:(] I like being physically forced & then held down, that is exciting, feeling hands on my wrists or thighs swoon. Bondage just made me relax, not fight it or have any desire to other than being annoyed that I couldn't touch the other person. Ok I'm weird LOL. The beauty of bondage is that I can bind as much or as little as I desire. It's quiate possible for me to tie a woman down with her hands free-but in such a way that she cannot reach the rope ends to untie hereself. Or the reverse,strip her naked-and put just her hands in padded and locking bondage mittens........rendering her helpless to do anything with her hands-but still able to move around otherwise.

seeksfemslave -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/11/2007 8:00:04 AM)
Just a thought with regard to the Devil being in people. Isn't that what Ducking Stools were invented for ? Put 'em on the stool and if they drown then they were innocent and were Devil free. If they survive then they had the Devil in them and were executed. Sounds reasonable to me.

RRafe -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/11/2007 8:34:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: seeksfemslave Just a thought with regard to the Devil being in people. Isn't that what Ducking Stools were invented for ? Put 'em on the stool and if they drown then they were innocent and were Devil free. If they survive then they had the Devil in them and were executed. Sounds reasonable to me. That's not quite the sort of scene I like.[;)]

RRafe -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/11/2007 8:44:09 AM)
Back on topic,has anyone ever been partially bound but mobile for time periods? How did that play out for you?

toservez -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/11/2007 8:52:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch quote: ORIGINAL: Tigrita I don't feel actively submissive if that makes any sense. But the only primary partner I'm be satisfied with is one stronger and more dominant than myself (and I am pretty strong and dominat myself). I do feel like my submission has to be forced to some degree in most circumstances. I don't really want to be submissive, I want to be dominated. I don't know if that makes any sense. Thank you!!! Tigrita, I don't know you, but I think I love you! With a single sentence you helped me resolve the internal conflict I have been experiencing for months since I met Michael!!!!!! I just want to echo those feelings. I am submissive by nature. In a normal relationship I can naturally do all the cooking and cleaning, dress to please my significant other, defer preferences to theirs and do things they want sexually when they want it. This is simply who I am. What gets me both emotionally and sexually high is being truly dominated by a person I care for. So when put in situation of a high level and with intimacy is simply the best situations to be in. Yes, the freedom I get from not having to make decisions and worrying about what the other is wanting is a big part, but I personally cannot stress enough that feeling of being dominated is the biggest pleasure. Have to defer to another and with the formalities of this life we often talk about is only half of the battle to this life for me. The other half is can my owner truly dominate me on many levels and the physical manifestation of that dominance is the best way to feed me that drug.

RRafe -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/11/2007 9:01:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: toservez quote: ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch quote: ORIGINAL: Tigrita I don't feel actively submissive if that makes any sense. But the only primary partner I'm be satisfied with is one stronger and more dominant than myself (and I am pretty strong and dominat myself). I do feel like my submission has to be forced to some degree in most circumstances. I don't really want to be submissive, I want to be dominated. I don't know if that makes any sense. Thank you!!! Tigrita, I don't know you, but I think I love you! With a single sentence you helped me resolve the internal conflict I have been experiencing for months since I met Michael!!!!!! I just want to echo those feelings. I am submissive by nature. In a normal relationship I can naturally do all the cooking and cleaning, dress to please my significant other, defer preferences to theirs and do things they want sexually when they want it. This is simply who I am. What gets me both emotionally and sexually high is being truly dominated by a person I care for. So when put in situation of a high level and with intimacy is simply the best situations to be in. Yes, the freedom I get from not having to make decisions and worrying about what the other is wanting is a big part, but I personally cannot stress enough that feeling of being dominated is the biggest pleasure. Have to defer to another and with the formalities of this life we often talk about is only half of the battle to this life for me. The other half is can my owner truly dominate me on many levels and the physical manifestation of that dominance is the best way to feed me that drug. How does the added control of being physically restrained add to your feelings? Can you describe it?

toservez -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/11/2007 9:31:54 AM)
quote: How does the added control of being physically restrained add to your feelings? Can you describe it? The more helpless I feel, certainly being physically restrained makes you feel helpless, the more vulnerable I am and therefore easier to feel and flat out be dominated. Physically restrained strips away another avenue of normal action a person has. The more helpless the feel will enhance the feelings as others have discussed. It becomes easier for the brain to relax and accept what is about to be done to me. It focuses me for the task at hand whether taking pain for him, just existing, or in some sexual manner it basically because the focus/lack of options makes the experience more intense. For me though personally the intensity and pleasure comes out of the feeling of being dominated and not the actual things done to me. In summary being physically restrained just helps intensify the regular feelings. Being bound lets a part of the mental discipline of doing something you do not naturally want to do get turned off on some level.

RRafe -> RE: The devil made me do it. (10/11/2007 9:39:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: toservez quote: How does the added control of being physically restrained add to your feelings? Can you describe it? The more helpless I feel, certainly being physically restrained makes you feel helpless, the more vulnerable I am and therefore easier to feel and flat out be dominated. Physically restrained strips away another avenue of normal action a person has. The more helpless the feel will enhance the feelings as others have discussed. It becomes easier for the brain to relax and accept what is about to be done to me. It focuses me for the task at hand whether taking pain for him, just existing, or in some sexual manner it basically because the focus/lack of options makes the experience more intense. For me though personally the intensity and pleasure comes out of the feeling of being dominated and not the actual things done to me. In summary being physically restrained just helps intensify the regular feelings. Being bound lets a part of the mental discipline of doing something you do not naturally want to do get turned off on some level. Agreed, it's a disconnect. This has to be one of the top reasons I enjoy being a bondage top. Seeing the shift in body language,the letting go...in expression. How much more responsive they are to sensation. I tend to do my bondage in comfortable and sustainable manners-I really like to be able to take my time. I also like talking to a bound girl in low and soothing tones...depends on what I am doing. Sometimes I do it meditatively-others for more intensity. Everyone I have played with has had both commonalities-and differences. [;)]

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