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ORIGINAL: Tigrita

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I like fighting him, feeling his strength overpower mine so I am reminded he really couldnt be stopped if he didnt want to be (and it makes me hot)
To the point.... I then remember all the time he is gentle with me, I am free to be me, to do what I chose and say what I think.
It proves my trust in him is correctly placed and I can feel safe in the knowledge that he is sweet and gentle alot of the time because he loves & respects me...

Spot on BoundDragon, makes perfect sense to me!  That totally resonates with me.