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Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/10/2007 10:38:32 PM

Gwynvyd

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On another posting about Vore this came up....

Does having sex while you ( if a woman) are on your moontime (menses) turn you on, or do you not allow it?

For guys what do you think about having sex durring a womans moontime?

Also have you ever had any blood play scenes or experiance?

A lot of people think this is one of the last great vestages of Taboo. I would like to see what you folks think.

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/10/2007 10:46:32 PM

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I've done some needles scenes that got a bit bloody afterwards. Smeared it around for fun.....but a fetish.?...not really... I was just giving a ride in a rather lazy way.

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/10/2007 10:46:49 PM

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i am horniest right before it. i don't like sex during my period, i just feel uncomfortable probably because i am a REALLY heavy bleeder.

This dom who i had been emailing for a few months and we were going to h ave a first meet dropped a bomb on me regarding menses. He said any woman who became his sub would be required to never wear undies, even during her period. When i asked what was she supposed to do regarding the blood he said sit on towels and such - deal breaker for me. i told him no can do he did a disappearing act... thank goodness. Anyone with a requirement like that is more interested in a blood fetish then meeting a partner to have an interactive relationship with.

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/10/2007 10:47:54 PM

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I have no taboo problem with it, just that it is a pain because of the mess and a bigger, more literal pain the first day or two. Just inconvinient and a bit of a kill-joy, but hormones often overcome that. Never been with a man long term who was terribly icked by it, they've felt pretty much the same way I do about it.

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/10/2007 10:48:07 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

On another posting about Vore this came up....

Does having sex while you ( if a woman) are on your moontime (menses) turn you on, or do you not allow it?

For guys what do you think about having sex durring a womans moontime?

Also have you ever had any blood play scenes or experiance?

A lot of people think this is one of the last great vestages of Taboo. I would like to see what you folks think.

Gwyn

And not all that taboo-see how fast a sub dissapears when you mention that she would look adorable in diapers.

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/10/2007 10:58:04 PM

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I don't mind sex during a woman's period. I can take a shower after. On the other hand I have found few women who are willing to do the same. My mother always said "that's why they make red towels.

Other blood play is not really my thing. We have to be careful here about marks, because of the job Phoenix has. Blood usually means a stop to play until it is stopped and cleaned up.

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/10/2007 11:07:23 PM

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My Ex spouse never touched me during that time of the month, let alone have sex ! He made me feel like a leper.
Later, after my marriage fell apart, the first man I was with, the same man who introduced me to bondage and BDSM, also "took" me during heavy flow.
We had arranged our week together over a month before, and we couldn't / wouldn't change the timing.

       I was so embarrassed, even ashamed when my flow began that week.
       He was undaunted. He convinced me that he was comfortable with it. That "IT" -- and I -- was completely natural! It came with the territory. No big deal. He said had done it before -- OFTEN -- and didn't seem squicked at all. He mentioned that he probably would NOT do oral on me, however...
      It was marvelous! I never felt so accepted. I had hated this part of being a woman. He "healed" me. As a woman, I became WHOLE, because of him.

      Bonus !
      Guess what?... No cramping. Bloating disappeared within TWO hours! My moods evened out. Tension released. What a bunch of great side effects from a good reaming!

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/10/2007 11:29:19 PM

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i like blood but not period blood.. but i do have my "redwings" .. having sex on my period isn't a problem.. its just a bit more messy..

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/10/2007 11:31:15 PM

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My Ex spouse never touched me during that time of the month, let alone have sex ! He made me feel like a leper.
Later, after my marriage fell apart, the first man I was with, the same man who introduced me to bondage and BDSM, also "took" me during heavy flow.
We had arranged our week together over a month before, and we couldn't / wouldn't change the timing.

      I was so embarrassed, even ashamed when my flow began that week.
      He was undaunted. He convinced me that he was comfortable with it. That "IT" -- and I -- was completely natural! It came with the territory. No big deal. He said had done it before -- OFTEN -- and didn't seem squicked at all. He mentioned that he probably would NOT do oral on me, however...
     It was marvelous! I never felt so accepted. I had hated this part of being a woman. He "healed" me. As a woman, I became WHOLE, because of him.

     Bonus !
     Guess what?... No cramping. Bloating disappeared within TWO hours! My moods evened out. Tension released. What a bunch of great side effects from a good reaming!

See that is what I do not understand... so many I know have had simular experiances to yours. It saddens me honestly.

I love the hell out of just pound the hell out of me, make my teeth rattle kind of sex when mine is comming on or just started up. It makes my cramps go away, and all the ickey emotional stuff hasnt a chance beacuse of the endorphins.

If you can find a copy of Sister Moon Lodge. I think it is out of print.. but I think you would really get a lot from reading that book. I know I did. It is all about the spiritual aspects of it all.

Being Cherokee my grandmother taught me that a woman is most in her power.. and Primal power durring her moon time. So many women miss out on that. What a better time then to have sex, or make love?

I am so glad you found a good guy that did not inflict any more silly notions.

Cheers,

Gwyn

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/10/2007 11:39:51 PM

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Blood and sex are yummy! Period blood...eh..not so much. I do not mind having sex on my period and will do it more than willingly. I'm also incredibly horny and sexual when I'm on my period, so that helps.

As far as blood, I adore it. I love cutting (not my self mind you) in a scene. I think it's hot to share blood as well. I can think of one scene that was just beyond yummy.

It was with a dear friend of mine, he was incredibly rough..the first thing he did to set the tone was to grab my hair and kiss me. Really, really rough kissing, enough to cut my lip. He kissed me until there was a fair amount of blood seeping from said cut. To this day, that was one if not the hottest thing I've ever had done to me.

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/11/2007 12:09:41 AM

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Oh yeah, forgot to answer the other part, blood play. I've never experienced it but I've fantasized about it, especially biting and scratching hard enough to draw blood, both towards a partner or him towards me, but I've just never let go with my agression to that level, but I'd love to. I'd love to taste his blood during that primal act.

Cutting fantasies are a real turn on for me too, the whole life-force exchange, but I've never done them. I don't want scars. But maybe very special rare occasions it could be nice... I think I just fear I'd enjoy it so much I'd want it all the time and be covered with scars! I get excited and proud if I get torn up at sports, it means I'm not holding anything back. Rock climbing -- if you don't leave blood on the mountain you aren't climbing hard enough ;)

Neala, that is sooooooo hot!

~J

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/11/2007 12:22:27 AM

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When I have my period I am still happy to have sex. If I am someones sub/slave then they can use me whenever they want to it is out of my control. In the first day of my period it can be uncomfortable but so many things in this world can be uncomfortable and discomfort is something that I have learnt is sometimes part of a slaves life, instead of retreating from it I open up and embrace it and feel much better because I do. Yes sex during my period is messy for both of us but its easy to wash a towel and have a shower and to be honest period sex in enjoyable for me becuase I also find it somewhat humilating.

Other blood play - I have not had a chance to try yet but hope that one day I will find someone who doesn't have an aversion to knife and blood play as its something that I badly want to try.

Willow

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/11/2007 1:49:53 AM

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It doesn't turn me on nor does it put me off. It just means we have to avoid staining anything important.

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/11/2007 2:30:00 AM

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I have a blood fetish, yet menstrual blood is not included in that fetish for me. I perceive it more as bloody waste. Though I am not entirely squicked out by it, I don't find it to be at all fun or desirable. I have had partners that felt differently, from simply being indifferent to the extra mess, to being turned on by the blood; which was alright with me.

I get a major case of the horns just prior to my moontime as you put it (I like that!), and have played during (various foreplay to sex and varying degrees of a mess to match), though I generally feel pretty craptacular during and am thusly not interested. The fact that my body is not entirely inclined to be accomodating (muscles tense and simply will not relax, and cramps from hell even to the point of even hygiene products causing incredible discomfort) doesn't help at all. So yeah, whereas I am not wholesale opposed, the odds of me a) being interested and b) my body cooperating regardless of said interest is another matter. While this is the norm, it isn't a hard and fast constant either. I'd consider moontime fun to be a circumstantial limit.

As for blood play scenes.... I totally need a new scalpel set.

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/11/2007 4:06:34 AM

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Not a taboo, just no interest. I get cramps and back aches and always my period starts with a bout of diarrhea. That by itself eliminates any sex drive.

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/11/2007 4:22:22 AM

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Is moontime suppose to make it sound more romantic?

We have absolutely no problem with having sex at anytime during the cycle. It can be primal, enjoyable and sensual.

As for being ont of the the last great vestages of taboo, I disagree. There are many people who support and participate in bloodplay and it rarely gets a thumbs down or the whole 'shock/horror' that other scenes or play may get, like those who use drugs during scenes, outdoor play and scat - these get far more negative reactions than any kind of blood play. Even spitting and saliva (which is a huge turn on) get far more "ewwwwwww's" than blood.

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/11/2007 4:33:31 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

For guys what do you think about having sex durring a womans moontime?

It doesn't bother me, although it doesn't turn me on either. Just put a towel under us, so we don't stain the sheets.

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/11/2007 4:53:37 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

For guys what do you think about having sex durring a womans moontime?

I can't imagne it being good for the woman with the cramps and all. Not to mention most religions forbid it. (Im not a religious person) And then there is blood poisoning, if your not careful you could end up with Hepatitus-C, and that would suck.

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/11/2007 5:25:58 AM

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Having sex during my 'moontime' was a complete no no for me, had been for years after an ex made me feel disgusting about it one time when I came on without realising during sex.

Now I look forward to it. I still get a bit icky about mess and always find my self asking him 'are you sure you dont mind' But in all honesty its one of the most intimate times when we do it. I love having sex and being fisted during that time becasue it really does help so much with cramps and also I seem to bleed more just after it but in the long run my period goes quicker. I am defiantly more sensitive at that time but he knows that and is more gentle with me. I wouldnt dream of allowing him to serve me orally at that time because well yuk I would hate to see it and just not feel comfortable myself about it but the rest hell yeah its great

An understanding boy, a great sense of humour and some wet ones and a towel on the bed and I'm set to go.
I wouldnt say it was a fetish and its certainly not more exciting because there is blood, I think it just feels so much more special becasue I can trust him during a very personal time of the month and feel comfortable enough to do it with him. Also the instant relief of cramps and pain that comes from him fisting me is very very welcomed.

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RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? - 10/11/2007 6:21:19 AM

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dont mind having sex with a woman when its that time ...grab the towels and take a shower after

my ex was very horny on her period and we had sex all the time when we were married when aunt flo was visiting

doesnt bother me at all ...oral might be a little touchy ..all depends how heavy the flo is ..ahhh the things 2 people can share with each other when you have a open -mind

have fun mal

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