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RE: anal sex - 10/12/2007 2:47:50 PM   
kashasbitch


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For this relatively "new to this all" sub...it was certainly not what I wanted .....but i consented because if
"your in for a penny, your in for a pound"...pun intended...perhaps if the scalewas used to humiliate.....
  I have noticed for the past few years...that women do appreciate a mans ass...so just why do woman love mens asses if they are not really thinking of doing something with it????
  Just the wandering of a contented subjugated male.............
  regards to you all.......pj 
 

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RE: anal sex - 10/12/2007 5:08:56 PM   
PhoenixRed


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Well, kashasbitch, I do have to admit that I love men's asses (and other parts of them as well!) but make no mistake...I am DEFINITELY going to do something with them! lol 

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RE: anal sex - 10/12/2007 6:50:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

A male's ultimate act of submission:  getting a blow job.

Yep.  Picture that delicate tube of flesh, in a mouth full of teeth that could chomp down at any second, certainly changing his life forever. 


Brings a smile to my face... much more interesting when I have my fangs in...and he is chained...knowing I have an oral fixation that extends to biting... (insert evil laugh)

To the OP,
after hearing that, a little anal sex might just not be "total" submission, but as others stated, it is a very personal thing and varies accordingly...

 
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RE: anal sex - 10/12/2007 8:25:28 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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quote:

ORIGINAL: PsyVamp

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

A male's ultimate act of submission:  getting a blow job.

Yep.  Picture that delicate tube of flesh, in a mouth full of teeth that could chomp down at any second, certainly changing his life forever. 


Brings a smile to my face... much more interesting when I have my fangs in...and he is chained...knowing I have an oral fixation that extends to biting... (insert evil laugh)



Heh.  I knew someone would get what I was driving at!

But, OP, I do enjoy strap on play, or at least dildo play, now that my back isn't what it was.  But overall, I prefer fisting, if I am going to venture into serious anal intrusion.   That's requires rather more dedication on the part of the submissive.

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RE: anal sex - 10/12/2007 9:05:47 PM   
sweetcreeangel


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hummmmmmm im not a Mistress but i would like to say it depends on who you view it,if you feel if its a total submissive act that it is if you find it humilating then it shall be i honestly feel it is all in your mind on how you choice to feel about it
be well

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RE: anal sex - 10/12/2007 9:28:49 PM   
SunnyTawse


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ORIGINAL: rup4it

is it a male subs total submissive act



No. It's just boring.

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RE: anal sex - 10/13/2007 12:52:46 PM   
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anal sex boring ? noway !! just got fisted like 5 times this week and i LOVE  it my mistress is awesome doing it and its amazing when she does once she slides into my ass with her fist she uses her strapons first to  get me to relax and open up for her ..once she thinks im ready out goes the strapon and in goes her fist  if you love strapon play try having her fist you  mal

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RE: anal sex - 10/14/2007 10:54:29 AM   
SunnyTawse


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Well, of course, I was speaking from my own point of view. No doubt the do-ee would like it if she/he likes anal play. But as the do-er... I find it boring.

And yeah, male subs do tend to love proving their submission by submitting to sexual activities they crave... they are 'willing' to give their Mistress oral whenever she wants, too. Like, wow, man. I am so impressed... 'cause you know, I just can't find hardly any men willing to do that for me... <ahem>...

I do think male submissives should occasionally post profiles here as female Dominants just to see how many unsolicited cock shots they get, how many offers of oral service, how many offers of receptive anal strap-on sex, etc., etc., etc. Boring, boring, boring.

Sunny Tawse*
* who does appreciate male submissives who are not do-me subs.

P.S. In my own personal relationship with my own personal submissive, these activities are not out of the question... but they are certainly not going to seduce me into a relationship. Guys, women get offers of sex ALL THE TIME. And if she's a Dominant women, multiply that by about 20.


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RE: anal sex - 10/14/2007 1:04:05 PM   
canupleaseme


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Lol maybe I am a switch then when I get it .  I think anything can be seen as a total act of submission if its something you would only do if your mistress made you and it was something you really had to dig deep to do it (excuse the pun)

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RE: anal sex - 10/14/2007 3:03:38 PM   
hardbodysub


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ORIGINAL: rob425

Sorry I feel it's a total dominant act for the submissive.  Telling your Dominnatn to fuck you harder and deep/Fuck you like a slut.

Total Topping from the bottom if you ask me


Frankly, if that's the way you picture it, then you're not really on the same wavelength as the OP. What you've described is actually vanilla anal sex, not a bottom/sub/slave submitting to anal penetration by dom/domina. When the dominant is dictating the action, anal penetration is a very intensely intimate act of domination/submission.

[forgot to include the next line]: This is especially true if the sub isn't really fond of anal penetration.

< Message edited by hardbodysub -- 10/14/2007 3:05:00 PM >

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RE: anal sex - 10/14/2007 3:27:08 PM   
sammyBoy1980


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that assumes you can actually speak during the act rob
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LOL

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RE: anal sex - 10/14/2007 4:01:08 PM   
seeksfemslave


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When those nerves in the bottom start start to tingle all the way up thru' the shoulders and down to the toes.
well errr....  what was the question and who cares anyway.lol

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RE: anal sex - 10/14/2007 4:21:21 PM   
DianeB269


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You're right..WHO CARES! I love giving and I like receiving anal as well. Does that mean I'm being submissive when I'm receiving? I don't think so.
I decide when, where and who...


Diane

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RE: anal sex - 10/14/2007 10:35:36 PM   
kinkbound


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SunnyTawse

I do think male submissives should occasionally post profiles here as female Dominants just to see how many unsolicited cock shots they get, how many offers of oral service, how many offers of receptive anal strap-on sex, etc., etc., etc. Boring, boring, boring.



Yeah, that's what we need; even MORE guys pretending to be Dommes.

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RE: anal sex - 10/19/2007 6:19:47 PM   
assslave4lady


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 for some knowing the males ass is virgin could be punishment if he sas he is straight and woudl never do anal sex or she coudl lvoe  to dominate him that way.

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RE: anal sex - 10/19/2007 8:21:43 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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ORIGINAL: laurell3

I believe the OP is referring to the belief that submitting to anal penetration is the ultimate act of submission.
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I believe the ultimate act of submission would be obeying an order to commit suicide. 

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RE: anal sex - 10/20/2007 4:24:52 AM   
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I always LOVED this ANGSTFUL ass-question... :-) I wanna be fucked in my tite lill hole.... does that mean I'm GAY?????

My latest five girlfriends have been transsexuals -.I live in Asia - not many dominant Ladies but many VERY impressive Ladyboys...

In the beginning, I was strictly top (the penetrator) until I got a taste of making my tite lill ass available for them as well... and then I found out that it's not bad at all :-) (if Her dick is not TOO monstrous, pleeease!!!)

Maybe it's gay to be fucked, maybe it's an act of submission and loads of shit... but in the end (excuse the pun) take it like a man, honey!

Personally, I'm certain that there is a mild degree of bisexuality in this, but I actually think it's mild. Most men who turn on to transsexuals are NOT gay (very few gays turn on to transgender women... because they are gay... gays turn on to men... trans women are not men... simple), but the submissive part could be part of it as well.

Interesting discussion here at this forum...

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RE: anal sex - 10/20/2007 4:40:34 AM   
twistedwillow


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ORIGINAL: bulejkt1972

but in the end (excuse the pun) take it like a man, honey!



I love this, and it reminds me of the first time I had anal sex with my ex, it had been a while for me and he was rather nicely endowed, plenty of lube was used and I was breathing and relaxing and pushing out to make things easier, and he is pushing in for what felt like 10 mins eventually he stops and I ask 'how far do you have in?' his reply ? havn't got the head in yet, then starts pushing again.. OMG ... so i'm thinking to myself, I can't do this, I can't do this, it hurts too much ... then i think ahh you dopey bitch, suck it up n take it like a man'  eventually he got in, and anal sex with him was something i craved on a regular basis, after the first time the only lube used was pussy juice and there were never any problems again.



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RE: anal sex - 10/20/2007 4:44:07 AM   
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Oh yeah and as for the last great act of the submissive male ... well if thats where your head is at then yeah, but not every man\sub has the same headspace as you.. and 'the last great act' can range from anal sex, sucking a cock, to simply being put in a sweet lil skirt ... or being called a slut or a fem name .. it all depends on the person.

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RE: anal sex - 10/20/2007 6:05:00 AM   
bulejkt1972


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ORIGINAL: twistedwillow

Oh yeah and as for the last great act of the submissive male ... well if thats where your head is at then yeah, but not every man\sub has the same headspace as you.. and 'the last great act' can range from anal sex, sucking a cock, to simply being put in a sweet lil skirt ... or being called a slut or a fem name .. it all depends on the person.


Except for the being forced into a rubber skirt and being called a cute lill slut slut slut, then i think i've done it all... ;-) It's simply a matter of an open mind... AND relaxed rectum... UUU... and would You believe it... i suck better than any lill school girl... ;-) Anyways, that's what the trans-ladies tell me! And who am i to reject the TRUE PhDs... OH... i miss my gf... with her HARD ON!

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