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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 7:19:34 AM   
Rushemery


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Status: offline 		Intimacy is a huge boost in sex for some people others like raw sex, I like to mix them and see what happens but with one nighters in this day can be deadly even condoms dont always work,  you end up with a woman who squirts multiple times and sure shes protected and your covered, so I try and stay away from them anymore its just plain safer and if its at your house a lot less clean up!

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 7:30:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have, but not by choice. I was young and naive and I assumed there would be more. The sex was great but afterward I felt like shit. I wouldn't do it again.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 7:31:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's funny I can't recall ever having done a one night stand.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 7:54:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		Wonderful advice.   This is what perpetuates STDs.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 7:57:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		No, poor sex education perpetuates STD’s

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 7:58:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

Wonderful advice.   This is what perpetuates STDs.


Oh please.  Where did I mention having unprotected sex?

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 8:07:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		"Oh please".. you should have mentioned it.  (or do you forget that too in the heat of hot monkey sex?)  Careless, child.. very careless.  Try again.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 8:08:27 AM   
Lordandmaster


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Now back off and go vent your frustrations on someone else.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 8:13:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

"Oh please".. you should have mentioned it.  (or do you forget that too in the heat of hot monkey sex?)  Careless, child.. very careless.  Try again.


That's a bit condescending, even for Me. And I'm a bitch.

Love,
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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 8:30:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		Never had a one night stand.  Many of my friends who drank did and they regretted it.  i like to be in control and engage in things with full consciousness and knowing i am not going to regret what i did.  Not to say i have never had regrets but at least i can't blame not being in my right mind on them.  Never understood the appeal and i am with CL on this one - the risk of STD is too high.


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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 8:31:23 AM   
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I'm a big advocate for one night stands.  I think everyone should have at least one in their lifetime.  There's just something about getting primal with a stranger.  I find it to be fucking hot.  Soooo....have you ever and did you enjoy it?


I've tried, but they always wanna come back for more.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 8:36:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: velvetears

Never had a one night stand.  Many of my friends who drank did and they regretted it.  i like to be in control and engage in things with full consciousness and knowing i am not going to regret what i did.  Not to say i have never had regrets but at least i can't blame not being in my right mind on them.  Never understood the appeal and i am with CL on this one - the risk of STD is too high.



I think it’s important to point out that not all one night stands are the result of the people involved being drunk. It seems many have yet to feel the benefit of having some meaningless fun in their lives. Safe sex and sex whilst drunk are other topics entirely.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 8:50:13 AM   
chiaThePet


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Status: offline 		Like no one in a "committed" relationship has ever woken up with a little crab
doing a fanciful jig on the tip of their nose to the tune of "guess who strayed".

I'm sexual and not in a relationship, and though I don't mind someone calling
me "slut", I'm far from it. I take the precautions I must with any sexual encounter.

Those in "committed" relationships generally let down their guard, and thus become
just as vulnerable as the rest of us little whores out here. Just saying ya know.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 9:03:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I'm a big advocate for one night stands.  I think everyone should have at least one in their lifetime.  There's just something about getting primal with a stranger.  I find it to be fucking hot.  Soooo....have you ever and did you enjoy it?

Of course J
However, I am one that keeps my kink separate from my intimate, sexual relationships; I do not combine the two.
But yes, I do find that one stands are hot, sexy, primal, and very fulfilling.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 9:16:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: FullCircle

quote:

ORIGINAL: velvetears

Never had a one night stand.  Many of my friends who drank did and they regretted it.  i like to be in control and engage in things with full consciousness and knowing i am not going to regret what i did.  Not to say i have never had regrets but at least i can't blame not being in my right mind on them.  Never understood the appeal and i am with CL on this one - the risk of STD is too high.



I think it’s important to point out that not all one night stands are the result of the people involved being drunk. It seems many have yet to feel the benefit of having some meaningless fun in their lives. Safe sex and sex whilst drunk are other topics entirely.


True you don't have to be drinking to engage in one night stands, it's just been my experience that the friends who reported they have have had one night stands also reported they had been drinking when they did so. 


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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 9:17:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've had my share of one night stands....Can be cool, however alcohol always seems to often play a part...Which can dilute the experience...Fuck, I've had one day stands....The true measure is the ever elusive trifecta....A rarely accomplished feat in which you nail three different women in a twenty four hour period.....Group doesn't count.

On the whole,(no pun intended) some form of getting to know someone is more appealing....So go ahead with your one nightstands...Armed to the hilt in condoms...Or call the doc and get a mountain of antibiotics and a sedative for lotus so she doesn't blow a gasket.


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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 9:21:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have never had a one night stand. I will not, either. Aside from being blaringly unsafe, I get nothign out of sex if there is no deeper connection than the purely physical That cant be built the same day and abandoned the next morning.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 9:26:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yes it’s true you need a very deep connection to get anything out of it.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 9:34:51 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I'm a big advocate for one night stands.  I think everyone should have at least one in their lifetime.  There's just something about getting primal with a stranger.  I find it to be fucking hot.  Soooo....have you ever and did you enjoy it?

Mmmmmm  Yes, I have; and I most certaintly DID.
I do agree when you say that there is something just so primal and sexy about taking home a stranger or going home with a stranger.
/sigh
Unfortnatly, single parenthood does not make room for many encounters of this kind

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/14/2007 9:36:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: FullCircle

Yes it’s true you need a very deep connection to get anything out of it.


Not true....It sometimes hits the spot....It is a form of mutual masturbation...It is not for everyone....Judging from many of the poster's mentalities they would not have the ability to determine a good apple form a bad...Obviously there is no way to be 100% sure....Ever, in any type of relationship. Sometimes it is simply nice to have the company of someone else without the pressures of added expectations....Ya never know, one night stands can lead to relationships or sometimes an orgasm or twenty....To each their own....When people are referring to safety...I'm not quite sure if they are alluding to the fact that they might bring home Ted Bundy or the fact that they don't understand the logistics of a condom.   I have found that condoms are not nearly as effective if you keep them in the box or your pocket.

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