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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 6:42:10 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		People are what every they wish to be. If they want to be used mutually for a one night stand, and nothing else, then yes, they've chosen to be "disposable toys"
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 People are not disposable toys.


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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 7:43:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		Darlin we will have to see what my girls say about it.  I never step outside my relationship I have too good of a thing to fuck it up.  Now if they dont have a problem with it (Evil Grin)  I dont care how wide open someones legs are if their mind is closed its a turn off for me.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 7:51:03 PM   
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I just calls 'em like I see 'em.  Now if I were a male, you'd call me assertive.


No, if you were a male, I'd call you Pat Robertson.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 7:54:27 PM   
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I just calls 'em like I see 'em.  Now if I were a male, you'd call me assertive.


No, if you were a male, I'd call you Pat Robertson.


ROFL! and I might call you Eleanore Rigby :)

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 8:01:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, that's an improvement on "sorry specimen of humanity," which is what you called me last time we crossed paths.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 8:06:48 PM   
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Well, that's an improvement on "sorry specimen of humanity," which is what you called me last time we crossed paths.


Hahaha.  You????  You have to be one of the nicest, more intelligent and even  tempered people who post here.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 8:07:38 PM   
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Well, that's an improvement on "sorry specimen of humanity," which is what you called me last time we crossed paths.


You know what amazes me most?  The reaction to opinions.  'Have none and be safe' has never been my mantra.  I  just have difficulty in  telling the difference between an open mind and a vacant one. 

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 8:08:56 PM   
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Well, that's an improvement on "sorry specimen of humanity," which is what you called me last time we crossed paths.


Hahaha.  You????  You have to be one of the nicest, more intelligent and even  tempered people who post here.


<blushes>

Why, thanks.

Thing is, though, I'm fat, and La Lotus has decreed that addicts and fat people are sorry specimens of humanity. At least, you get to be a hooker, which sounds way more fun!

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 8:13:41 PM   
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Well, that's an improvement on "sorry specimen of humanity," which is what you called me last time we crossed paths.


Hahaha.  You????  You have to be one of the nicest, more intelligent and even  tempered people who post here.


<blushes>

Why, thanks.

Thing is, though, I'm fat, and La Lotus has decreed that addicts and fat people are sorry specimens of humanity. At least, you get to be a hooker, which sounds way more fun!


She seems to make it a habit of making personal comments to someone just because she doesn't agree with their words.  It's a very poor way to debate.
But then again...based on her own words
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  I  just have difficulty in  telling the difference between an open mind and a vacant one.   

I assume she is speaking about herself.  She does fit this description.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 8:20:00 PM   
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It's a very poor way to debate.


True, but it's a handy way to get attention if you don't have the intellectual firepower to do so by offering compelling ideas.


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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 8:23:50 PM   
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I may have to go out soon and pick someone up and fuck em.


So.... come here often?

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 8:30:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		I was just sitting here thinking if it wasnt for the "sluts and whores"  most guys would never get laid till they are 30.  But honestly i have never understood the whole double edge sword.  A guy fucks around he is a stud a girl does this and she is a slut.  That has never made sense to me both just enjoy sex with other people.  Just like i dont understand how people who claim to live in this lifestyle can be more judgemental of us than the nilla's on the outside.  Let me get this straight a girl can let me beat on her with everything from a flogger to a frying pan light her on fire pour hot wax on her or pack her with ice all on meeting her the 1st night at a bdsm club.  All this is ok but if she lets me put my dick in her she is a slut a whore and other things?  Their are alot of things i dont understand and honestly i dont want to understand but i dont bash people for it.  My question is as long as what is done is between adult who agree with it what business or right do we have to try and degrade them for it.


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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 8:33:03 PM   
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It's a very poor way to debate.


True, but it's a handy way to get attention if you don't have the intellectual firepower to do so by offering compelling ideas.



dc you're a whore, a slut, a tramp....happy?

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 8:34:39 PM   
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I was just sitting here thinking if it wasnt for the "sluts and whores"  most guys would never get laid till they are 30.  But honestly i have never understood the whole double edge sword.  A guy fucks around he is a stud a girl does this and she is a slut.  That has never made sense to me both just enjoy sex with other people.  Just like i dont understand how people who claim to live in this lifestyle can be more judgemental of us than the nilla's on the outside.  Let me get this straight a girl can let me beat on her with everything from a flogger to a frying pan light her on fire pour hot wax on her or pack her with ice all on meeting her the 1st night at a bdsm club.  All this is ok but if she lets me put my dick in her she is a slut a whore and other things?  Their are alot of things i dont understand and honestly i dont want to understand but i dont bash people for it.  My question is as long as what is done is between adult who agree with it what business or right do we have to try and degrade them for it.


Eric
one day close to saying the hell with it and going back up into the hills


Oddly men may have "slut" opinions, but rarely voice them.  Women however can be viscious bitches to each other often.  However, I think that's mostly jealousy and insecurity raising it's ugly head.
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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 8:36:39 PM   
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It's a very poor way to debate.


True, but it's a handy way to get attention if you don't have the intellectual firepower to do so by offering compelling ideas.



dc you're a whore, a slut, a tramp....happy?


Oh, I get to be all three. Excellent!

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 8:36:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hell darlin ill admit it when i was younger i was a slut.  If a girl was ready so was I my type of girl was one that said yes didnt matter size or looks of the girl.

Eric

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 8:38:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		Also.... while reading many of these anti-one night responses...

The whole "one night stands lack intimacy" thing is a crock. They can be damn intimate under many different scenarios.  I saw one poster say that a number of "short term" lovers pointed her to bdsm. I bet she's not the only one.

But even in the non bdsm world "hook ups", "pick ups" and other tawdry and/or beautiful passing affairs, happen all the time. In fact, I have no doubt you can even find love in those occasions no matter how fleeting that love is.

They also can be very empowering. They can restore lost confidence, they can be celebratory and they can even be healing.

Intimacy can be found at place, at anytime and anywhere.

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 8:41:54 PM   
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dc you're a whore, a slut, a tramp....happy?


Oh, I get to be all three. Excellent!


dc Bigelow.  Male Gigolo

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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 8:50:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		kindly please do not pit me with the "jealousy and insecurity" crowd - i have all the confidence and security i need in my life ...in fact more than you'll ever know.  then again, i suppose it's the same reason i'm labeled as a straight laced prude - jealousy and insecurity from these cackling pecks of hens.

it's my prerogative to not involve myself in having an one-night for religious, health and moral reasons and if that makes me a straight laced, uptight churchgoing bitch that's your opinion of me ...likewise it's mine to say "you must not think very much of yourself to give it away for free to some total stranger".

let the flaming begin



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RE: One Night Stands - 10/15/2007 8:50:49 PM   
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"Oh please".. you should have mentioned it. 

 
What?!?  If people on this site need to be reminded about safe sex, then they shouldn't be here.  Do we have to tell people EVERYTHING nowadays?  Do we have to remind these people not to shit and then sit in it? 



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