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ProtagonistLily -> RE: Daddydoms and babygirls... (5/29/2008 4:00:31 AM)
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How ironic we were just talking about this the other day :) My Dom/Hubby doesn't agree either with the "you gotta be just mean & bad to do it right" mentality he said he's often seen. The way he explained it to me is that kind of relationship doesn't build a sub up, it only tears them down. It doesn't give value or build worth. <snip>
I don't think that style does much for the Top types either. So often conversations revolve around the submissive; are they getting what they need? Are they able to fulfill something that lacked through X. Are they nurtured and loved?
What about the Dom(or what ever toppy pronoun you prefer)? Aren't they entitled to get something out of a particular style? Isn't it curious that in order for a style to work between a couple, it must do something for both of them?
I think mean/bad all the time could wear a Top down after a while and could be potentially damaging to both parties.
A little mean and bad on the other hand....
PL
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