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RE: help! - I'm nice and cuddly.... apparently - 11/8/2007 11:51:43 AM

MissSCD

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Don't let someone else decide what you should do especially from the internet. To thine own self be true.

Regards, MissSCD

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RE: help! - I'm nice and cuddly.... apparently - 11/9/2007 1:32:09 AM

shootingstar67

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ORIGINAL: Jinger

If your sub wants you to look more sadistic then okay, but it's not like he speaks for all submissives.
I personally would never court a Mistress who treats me like dirt right off the bat, which is the impression I get when every picture is a scowl on profiles.

My photos were a mess when I had my profile. I went for "realism". Meaning I rolled of bed that morning, snaped a photo of myself, uploaded it, and that was my picture. I didn't even bother to smile. My glasses were crooked. No make up. I had not even brushed my hair. I considered myself quite brave and daring posting such a photo. My passport photo looks ten times better.

But not convinced a person needs to be THAT honest in their photos. But I don't like pretense. But I think next time, while not dressing up and piling the make up on I will try to at least look in a good mood However I am obviously a advocate of being yourself in photos and not some bondage model

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RE: help! - I'm nice and cuddly.... apparently - 11/9/2007 1:45:01 AM

BBWnNC72

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ORIGINAL: iammachine

Personally, I dig your profile, and have always tended to dig your forum posts as well.

Screw what image anyone else thinks you should have, being yourself always trumps.

Then again, this is also coming from the woman that wants Hello Kitty duct tape to bind people with....

love the Hello Kitty tape idea, how awesome, i would love to be bound with Scoobie Doo tape, YAY.

LadyEllen, i personally like Your profile, at least You are standing there all fish lipped, chest out, head leaning back, holding a crop. LOL, those ones are trying to look too "lifestylish" . thenk You for being Yourself, i wish more people would be.

with much respect

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RE: help! - I'm nice and cuddly.... apparently - 11/9/2007 9:41:27 AM

Samwhiplash

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you dont hae to look like - or be - a nasty bitch to be a Domme.

its a fantasy some subs see to have.

Am delighted I dont fit that category.

Juat be who you are naturally

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RE: help! - I'm nice and cuddly.... apparently - 11/9/2007 10:02:01 PM

darchChylde

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i like cuddly... Ma'am is perfectly sweet and innocent

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RE: help! - I'm nice and cuddly.... apparently - 12/7/2007 9:30:12 PM

unmaskedred

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You may be goofy, though I personally wouldn't know, but you have great boots... how cute!!! The blue background photo is wonderful, also.

UnMaskedRed

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ORIGINAL: TNstepsout

Uh oh, wonder what he'd think of mine then. "TN, you are far too goofy for a sub to take seriously". I dunno I didn't want to do the typical pissed off look route (not sure I could pull it off anyway). I think it's more fun to lull them into a false sense of security.

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RE: help! - I'm nice and cuddly.... apparently - 12/8/2007 7:22:26 AM

beltainefaerie

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I figure we all present ourselves as we wish to here. You relay exactly what you seek and seeem to want to keep the BS at a minimum. I think you know what you want and will expect nothing less. Soundsin control to me. While I am sure you can be cuddly at times, I think the profile comes across as polished. It is not fluffy at all, in my opinion.

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RE: help! - I'm nice and cuddly.... apparently - 12/8/2007 11:52:27 AM

SylionBinkx

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Looking at your profile I can see that you are a Dominant Women who knows exactly what she wants. Looking at the pictures and just judging your face you seem like a Submisive little girl who doesn't know what she wants at all.

You need to look more aggresive with your facial expretions.

Mistress Binkx

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RE: help! - I'm nice and cuddly.... apparently - 12/8/2007 4:07:14 PM

vampchick88

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Being cuddly and nice is just another part of who you are. Hold tight to it, its not a bad thing. I recently was told by my subby somthing similiar. Its not a bad thing. Your still a Domme, you still have those aspects but you have a broad rage of chacteristics. Some day somone will come around who will cherish ever part of you.

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RE: help! - I'm nice and cuddly.... apparently - 12/9/2007 8:13:34 PM

Lureaetagg

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My picture doesn't have me looking mean in my point of view. Personally I think I look fierce which isn't the same as being mean.

And I love the comment about bobcats being cute and still being able to mess you up.

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