ShaktiSama
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There are many different types of submission, gentlemen. No offense, but you may not realize the kind of abject financial and personal servitude that some men try to promise to a woman over the Internet. I routinely receive emails from men who say they want to re-locate immediately, throw themselves at my feet, support me financially and personally, hand over every dime of their income, and wait on me hand and foot for the rest of my days. All they ask in return is to be used and humiliated.
Now, don't get me wrong, I can see the appeal of this fantasy of total submission for both the man and the woman. However, when something seems too good to be true, it usually is. And a man who is sincerely planning to hand over the keys to his body, soul, car and bank account to me should definitely have no problem proving his sincerity by buying me a $7 massage bar from Amazon.com!
In reality, almost none of these men are looking for a real relationship of any kind. What they want is my participation in a chat/email fantasy that they find deeply erotic. Talking about abject servitude gives them a wanktastic thrill which keeps the lotion flowing and the orgasms coming for hours and hours. Even by talking about this nonsense with them, I am performing a service analogous to phone sex--and quite frankly, phone sex operators get paid quite handsomely to keep people supplied with one-handed entertainment. Why shouldn't I receive some compensation for my time and energy as well? ;)
A male submissive who has genuine real life love and submission to offer is a tribute in and of himself. However, mentioning a wishlist is a GREAT way to drive away jerks who just want to use me for free porn. If you don't believe this site is rife with such men, here's an email that arrived in my mailbox earlier this week, from a man who had approached me under a profile name that began with the word "servant".
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[You cannot respond to this message because the account no longer exists]
"I wanted to be honest with you and let you know that I am not a slave or a submissive in real life. I am a vanilla guy. I was just role playing online today when I was exchanging messages with you – nothing I told you was true, and the photos are not me either. I am sorry for misleading you. I was feeling a little kinky, as I do like some aspects of the fetish as it spices up regular sex, and I was just feeling a little playful today.
Again I am sorry, as I understand that you are serious about the lifestyle. I won’t do this anymore, and will delete this user id after sending you this message so that I don’t do it again. All the best with what you’re looking for – stay safe and have fun. Bye."
Fake handle, fake name, fake photo, and the complete works for his fantasy: "I'm a financially stable physically attractive 'natural born slave' who has been in the lifestyle since I was 17 and I want to come submit to you and be your property, I can cook clean massage and do windows, have lots of money and just want to sleep in your closet, yadda yadda yadda."
 A woman should be paid good money even to read emails from a guy like this, much less answer them with courtesy. Obviously I was decent and down-to-earth enough to make this person ashamed of himself--but most people who do this are completely without shame. If mentioning my wishlist is all I need to do to make these wank-vampires turn instantly to dust, believe me, it's a small price to pay for the time and energy I'll save.
< Message edited by ShaktiSama -- 11/25/2007 1:55:29 PM >
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