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mistoferin -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 8:29:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BeingChewsie So who wants to in on a pool as to how many pages this thread will go?..and at the end nothing will be solved, no answers gained, it will be a circle jerk of name calling, veiled threats, cliff diving, bank robbery, murder, and someone ordering someone to jump out of an airplane with nothing but a tiki glass and a cocktail umbrella...will they obey or will choose door number 2? How many ounces does the tiki glass hold, how much lift will that umbrella provide and will we be flying high enough for me to finish my drink before impact?

BeingChewsie -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 8:30:43 AM)
Nah..most of us have just learned not to play this game on the internet...its no-win no matter how its played.

BeingChewsie -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 8:37:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin quote: ORIGINAL: BeingChewsie So who wants to in on a pool as to how many pages this thread will go?..and at the end nothing will be solved, no answers gained, it will be a circle jerk of name calling, veiled threats, cliff diving, bank robbery, murder, and someone ordering someone to jump out of an airplane with nothing but a tiki glass and a cocktail umbrella...will they obey or will choose door number 2? How many ounces does the tiki glass hold, how much lift will that umbrella provide and will we be flying high enough for me to finish my drink before impact? Awww christ what am I a bartender now? I don't know its a big glass, look like mini-totem pole...big enough that after two you are on the floor or danicing on the wing naked...they are cheap cocktail umbrellas..purchased at walmart. They say made in China..as does the glass (lead paint could be an issue) so I'm thinking not much lift, they will probably break apart shortly after your leap(of faith)but the Master being a raging alcoholic would understand that leaving a drop in the glass would be alcohol abuse so you'd be flying high enough to finish it before impact...bottoms up!

lusciouslips19 -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 8:41:04 AM)
I think limits change. What would have been a limit because I didnt know what it was about may change when I find out. For instance, I would have said fireplay was one of my hard limits but I saw a workshop on it and its actually really neat if the pyro knows what they are doing. I imagine my limits will continue to change as I grow in the lifestyle. That being said, scat will forever be a hard limit with me, yuck [:'(]

MadRabbit -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 8:44:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bondagenexus quote: ORIGINAL: chellekitty RED!!! sits in the corner rocking back and forth theres no place like home, theres no place like home, theres no place like home Okay, I am laughing my ass off! Obviously I've either struck a nerve or missed some damn good posts in the past. Sixteen replies in ten minutes? What am I, a rock star? Because people will try and give you "real" answers and then other people will come along and give completely absurb answers to show how much of a "super cool and uber slave and Master" they are. Then people will try and argue those aburd answers with logic and reality and people will argue back with even more absurdity, stretching of their logic, and covering up the holes in their own manifesto. Finnally, the thread will boil down to pointlessness as any unrealistic and ludicrious scenario that is thrown out to debunk the absurd claims of some individuals in an attempt to bring reality back to this thread will be met by responses such as "I dont know! My Master might do it! How can I be sure?" Since we are dealing with possibilities that we cant prove negatives for, then everything is possibile and in the great loving "Politcally Correct" Collarme.com, we have to entertain all possibilities so we're not "rude" at the cost of anything being learned at all in this thread. For all those that want to participate, I wish you luck as I will not partake in this madness this round. I also hope that God has mercy on your souls, because, most likely, when this thread is done with, everyone who reads it will be slightly stupider than they were before.

Twicehappy2x -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 8:46:09 AM)
Oooppps...wrong subject...i thought we were discussing American Express cards.

Twicehappy2x -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 8:51:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin maybe I'll just make myself a Mocha Vodka Valium Latte and sit back and enjoy the show....lol. Make mine a double ...PLEASE!

mistoferin -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 8:52:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin maybe I'll just make myself a Mocha Vodka Valium Latte and sit back and enjoy the show....lol. Make mine a double ...PLEASE! You sure??? I'm making them in glasses as big as a totem pole and we have to drink them before we hit the ground.....

Tigrita -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 8:53:37 AM)
Serious reply: It sounds like your're not actually interested in 'no limits', you're interested in someone who has limits that can be pushed. You like the thrill of pushing into something unpleasant for the bottom/sub. This is different, and perfectly valid. You just need to find someone compatible, someone with 'soft limits' at the borderline of things that interest you. Might take patience, but just actively look, I'm sure you can find what you are looking for. Just make it clear that you are interested in pushing limits, and realize that you will very likely have to establish a lot of trust first wich takes patience and understanding and likely emotional connection. ~ J

RRafe -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 8:56:11 AM)
Chainsaw rentals, anyone? Freshly sharpened!

Aileen68 -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 8:56:59 AM)
It's times like this that we all just miss bob. [sm=river.gif]

Bondagenexus -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 8:57:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: toservez 2) People in real time over romanticizing their relationship by stating this. What they are just actually saying is my limits line up with my other and/or I have yet to encounter something or admit to others or myself that something is a limit since it will never be brought up by my other again. Yeah! Thank you for more clarity. I've seen the delusional and/or over-romanticized notions of no-limits in others. And I'll admit that maybe I'm not seeing it in myself. Yet. What I'm wrestling with is my own fascination with my bottoms when they say "no limits." It is an incredible, incredible turn on. Even if they aren't truly submissive, they will bask for days [after whatever happened in the wake of their offering "no limits" to me] because I just gush about how wonderful it was and by extension how amazing they were. As I search for a submissive, I'm hitting a similar intense reaction in myself in Domination that I also obviously get from topping with no limits. I'd flip out by having a submissive request that she find out what life would be like if she allowed me carte blanche in shaping her life and then have her follow through. The clarity I got is that a well-informed slave choosing no limits is most likely a case of describing a Master and slave who are just so right for each other that it is easy for the slave to say she has no limits because they are just really unlikely to encounter anything that would show up as a limit.

slaveelle -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 8:58:01 AM)
Ruby shoes are a hard limit for me, they clash with my lily white legs..so unbecoming!!

RRafe -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 8:58:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 It's times like this that we all just miss bob. [sm=river.gif] But, but, but, you can MOLD them to have no limits......... Fuck............ I just can't do it-I don't smoke pot.[:D]

Twicehappy2x -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 8:59:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin Make mine a double ...PLEASE! You sure??? I'm making them in glasses as big as a totem pole and we have to drink them before we hit the ground..... If they are that big we will never hit the ground, well not for a couple of days anyhow. Ok, make mine a regular but can i get an ether chaser with that?

DiurnalVampire -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 9:00:16 AM)
Where is LA and her epic list of "read this before beating the dead horse" links?

Bondagenexus -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 9:05:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bandit25 You say that you will, but you want to mess with them? Sounds somewhat contradictory to me. Mess how? Great question. For me to mess with a hard limit, already negotiated means to me that I think I know better. An example: I am in long term extremely close relationships with outstanding bottoms/switches. I haven't done this in years, but it was rare and beautiful magic when I did. A partner and I would have a fight. To resume the discussion, I would request (remember bottoms, not submissives) that her hands be bound behind her back and I sit on her lap while we worked it out. It's the last thing in the world that they wanted to do (make themselves so vulnerable) when their "trust" for me appeared to be out the window, but they complied as often as not. We'd get to the heart of the upset at record speed and totally transform it. I'm at times drawn to poke at hard limits. At times I feel compelled if only because they are hard limits. That's a dangerous thing to admit in public or to potential partners. How can that trait be attractive? My track record to date is stellar based in the results of my pushing where I must not, but I still question myself for wanting to push. And I wonder what life would be like with a no-limits submissive.

MadRabbit -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 9:05:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 It's times like this that we all just miss bob. [sm=river.gif] Can we all have a moment of silence for the passing on of our Messiah?

RRafe -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 9:07:15 AM)
Even if you did, you still have her lack of limits to deal with-in discord with your own. Ever consider not measuring up? Double edges cut both ways.

Bondagenexus -> RE: No limits - and what it really means (10/16/2007 9:11:39 AM)
Thank you! Thank you! Mabye I haven't read far enough yet but no one has called anyone a bad name. I appreciate that. And whoever put money in the pool for "no answers gained" just lost a fair bet. I'm definitely getting an unexpected and wonderful education here.

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