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Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 8:30:20 AM

MistressDaisy73

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Since joining this site, 2 persons have said to me via email that they think I am a man in drag. a CD or Trans. Now, there is nothing wrong with any of those things, but I am NOT one. When the first person emailed me, unsolicited ( a supposed female, btw) I thought they were just being mean or something. But now, a person (a male sub) I contacted, has replied that they think I am a guy in some form. Well, I am certainly not going to argue the point. And, of course, two people out of hundred means hardly anything. I would like to know, though, if any of you who look at my picture think I look like a guy in some form. Really, please be honest. Is it because a slightly cleft chin is more rare in females? I can not think of any other feature that looks particularly masculine. What do you guys think?

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 8:41:10 AM

camille65

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You don't look male to me. Just ignore them, especially as it was only 2 emails. Those typically come from resentful, shot down guys who can't handle the rejection of a female.

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 8:50:17 AM

Jinger

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If you're worried then upload some more pictures. Flaunt your femininity.
But ultimately it doesn't matter. I don't think you look like a man, I don't even find your features especially masculine.

I think you're pretty!

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 8:51:31 AM

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nope you dont look like a guy to me... i think your pretty though

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 8:56:31 AM

chiaThePet

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Get rid of the jockstrap hanging on the books.

They're probable just fishing for some nudie pics of proof.

People tell me all the time that I look like a "thing", I just shrug it off.

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 8:56:47 AM

MstrDennynSlave

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In the small pic on here, you do look somewhat masculine. Only because the first thing I noticed was the angular face and high forhead. When I brought up your profile, the effect was totally different. The angularity looked much softer. As the previous poster stated, try some other pics. With smaller pics, someone little tends to look very skinny and angular, while someone large tends to look much rounder and fuller then in a bigger pic.

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 8:57:35 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jinger

If you're worried then upload some more pictures. Flaunt your femininity.
But ultimately it doesn't matter. I don't think you look like a man, I don't even find your features especially masculine.

I think you're pretty!

What he said!

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 9:02:20 AM

MistressDaisy73

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Thanks for the replies and advice so far. Yes, I think I need to get a new camera and get some new pics. My old one went kaput and I never bothered replacing it. My face has always been the last part of me to gain weight, so it remains more angular than the rest of me, and in this case I guess that is not so good! LOL. I hesitate though at posting more revealing pics. I dunno.... maybe a peek at 40DDD's will be more convicing? HA!

Edited to add: And thanks for the compliments! I am not so much worried about the 2 detractors so much as I began to wonder if there were more people who thought so and never mentioned it, cause they are nice. LOL

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 9:02:59 AM

Aileen68

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I have a cleft chin and haven't been accused of being male.
You look female to me, although your jockstrap is hanging over the chair behind you in your pic.

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 9:06:31 AM

Jinger

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDaisy73

Thanks for the replies and advice so far. Yes, I think I need to get a new camera and get some new pics. My old one went kaput and I never bothered replacing it. My face has always been the last part of me to gain weight, so it remains more angular than the rest of me, and in this case I guess that is not so good! LOL. I hesitate though at posting more revealing pics. I dunno.... maybe a peek at 40DDD's will be more convicing? HA!

Edited to add: And thanks for the compliments! I am not so much worried about the 2 detractors so much as I began to wonder if there were more people who thought so and never mentioned it, cause they are nice. LOL

I think you're kidding but femininity doesn't equal a boobshot. By flaunting your femininity I meant more along the lines of showing off a nice girly smile or two...or even if you don't feel like smiling posture helps a lot.

Do what you're comfortable with and screw anyone who tries to make you feel bad for it.

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 9:07:44 AM

slaveelle

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I see that pic was taken over two years ago,but from what i see i dont see any masculine features in your face. I think your a very pretty lady. But in saying that it might be time for an updated pic.
cheers
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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 9:17:30 AM

LadyEllen

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Hi MsDaisy

Where do I start, as the resident TS know it all on this sort of thing......

The main features of a male facial structure are
a) heavy brow bones - you dont have
b) full jaw - you dont have
c) high forehead - you have, but I dont think its an issue. If it is an issue, see your hairdresser!
d) cleft chin - if you hadnt mentioned it, I wouldnt have noticed it and its not that big an issue anyway

These - along with large hands and overall body shape, not to mention Adam's apple, are what usually give guys away, when they dress up as gals and remain stationary. When they move, its usually their gait which gives them away and when they talk, obviously their voice.

My advice would be to post some more pics to your profile - nothing too risque is required and for goodness' sake dont do all uber-fem 'cause thats going to make it worse! Not that my pics are anything to make me a suitable advisor on this sort of thing, but I'd go for a few more shots that show more of you - and especially those bits (not the naughty bits) which a CD might avoid showing - like hands, body shape etc.

Otherwise, just ignore the morons OK? Two hits from morons in five months is pretty good to be honest, so I dont think you have a problem regardless.

E

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 9:20:36 AM

chiaThePet

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I have a cleft chin and haven't been accused of being male.
You look female to me, although your jockstrap is hanging over the chair behind you in your pic.

Oh it's a chair! Ok, so you got new glasses,

sure, rub it in, Sir.

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 9:24:12 AM

DiurnalVampire

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I get the same thing often. If they dont hear what they want, or if they are just in the mood to pee in someone's sandbox... they will tell me I look like a guy.
I say thank you, these muscles didnt get there on their own.
When someone says something so ridiculous out of the blue its usually to get a rise out of you.
Just inform them that if thats how they feel, then you'd rather not waste your time teaching them the finer points of biology and move on. Dont give them the rise they want.

And I do not think you look masculine, but you (like me) arent a petite femme frilly little china doll. Since I hate that look for the most part, Im perfectly content not to be.

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 9:27:27 AM

pahunkboy

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I dont want to ruin your day- but in the pic that shows on the message board= you could be male.

Thats just my opinion. [sorry]

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 9:29:08 AM

HotFaerieMama

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you're very pretty. and whomever said that you look like a guy was just jealous plain and simple. IMO

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 9:39:21 AM

LadyEllen

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

I dont want to ruin your day- but in the pic that shows on the message board= you could be male.

Thats just my opinion. [sorry]

Hey, youre entitled!

Thing is though - any of the gals on here - even all of them, could have been born male. There's this wonderful surgeon out in California, who for around $50k I think it is, could make any male face look female - its only a case of rolling the skin back, shaving some bone off the brow and taking a piece from the chin and sticking it back together, then pulling the hair line down..

The problem with that op is, one ends up looking slightly amended; and MsDaisy looks pretty natural to me.

But then, on the picture showing me on the fora, I could just be female......

E

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 1:21:32 PM

scifi1133

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well I dont think you look like a dude.
actually i think your rather attractive...
just ignore the hng's

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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 1:24:51 PM

GoddessMine

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It's the hair - a little wiggish.
But you're fine, ignore the idiots.

Love,
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RE: Need honest opinions please. - 10/16/2007 1:28:32 PM

ultimatesubbie

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Personally, I think you are beautiful. I don't see anything masculine looking about you at all.
I find there are many on this site who like to criticize. I had one tell me I wasn't pretty and I know better.
You are gorgeous - just remember it and file all the asshole comments where they belong - in the trash!

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