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junecleaver -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/16/2007 8:38:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daisymae03 how is she stalking herself if its her mans post? would that make HER stalking him? and then only if she was following him around Whoa whoa whoa. I don't stalk. I 'investigate' people obsessively! Is it wrong of me to find the responses to this thread hilarious? CM posters are cynical! I gave up privacy when I entered into this relationship. However, I still consider it stalking and it still makes me giggle. Luckily, I am allowed to use the word dork in reference to him. [:D]

Estring -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/16/2007 8:39:42 PM)
I pretty much know what my slave thinks, so I don't as a rule seek out her posts. She usually tells me about them anyway, especially if it is something she thinks I may be particularly interested in.

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/16/2007 8:41:04 PM)
IMO reading what she has written is not a bad thing, especially in regards to learning more of where her head is at..BUT..when you start to criticise what she says and end up telling her what to say ..THEN ...you no longer will know where her head is at and stalking her indeed becomes stalking her..and her thoughts will no longer be hers but yours...Now indeed I do understand in some contexts some Dominants control certain aspects of what their submissive says ie: conflict within the relationship, or complaining that their Masters have no balls..:0)(in reference to another thread a while back)...the respect factor..but all in all..If you do not wish for her to write what she feels or thinks then all a Dominant has to do is to refuse her access to CM...Tempting

juliska -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/16/2007 8:41:54 PM)
ha ha ha! My 2nd post here, does that help you stalking me ?

juliska -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/16/2007 8:43:24 PM)
How's this for a 3rd? Predyriloup has only been stalking me for a year now - I don't mind because he has good intentions.

PryderiLoup -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/16/2007 8:43:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: junecleaver quote: ORIGINAL: daisymae03 how is she stalking herself if its her mans post? would that make HER stalking him? and then only if she was following him around Whoa whoa whoa. I don't stalk. I 'investigate' people obsessively! Is it wrong of me to find the responses to this thread hilarious? CM posters are cynical! I gave up privacy when I entered into this relationship. However, I still consider it stalking and it still makes me giggle. Luckily, I am allowed to use the word dork in reference to him. [:D] It is great to see the sense of humor coming out. Keep it up, cause laughing cankeep you sane!

chellekitty -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/16/2007 8:44:33 PM)
from the bottom side.... i would expect my Dominant to read everything i post on these boards if he wants to know what i've posted durring the day...because honestly...i can't remember it all....(after using the search feature) in the past 24 hours i've posted over 50 times...most of that is one or two liners....and some of that is more...i'm pretty sure i've written some good stuff in that somwhere...on what...i have no idea...i'd have to go back to the search feature to figure that out....specifics don't stick and stay in my brain...idea's do...and when i post they are already established idea's so why would they stick out as something new...if someone else's new concept sticks out in my mind....i will discuss it with anyone who will listen though...lol...

PryderiLoup -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/16/2007 8:46:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliska How's this for a 3rd? Predyriloup has only been stalking me for a year now - I don't mind because he has good intentions. Well, since you never have any opinions, and never express them, no!

Estring -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/16/2007 8:47:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: junecleaver quote: ORIGINAL: daisymae03 how is she stalking herself if its her mans post? would that make HER stalking him? and then only if she was following him around Whoa whoa whoa. I don't stalk. I 'investigate' people obsessively! Is it wrong of me to find the responses to this thread hilarious? CM posters are cynical! I gave up privacy when I entered into this relationship. However, I still consider it stalking and it still makes me giggle. Luckily, I am allowed to use the word dork in reference to him. [:D] Do you ever call him Ward?[;)]

juliska -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/16/2007 8:48:10 PM)
Well, if I had opinions and expressed them, you might stop stalking me. Who's going to be my stalker then?

Kellendra -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 4:35:18 AM)
She's stalking herself![;)] Sounds like the plot for a midday movie..starring Tori Spelling.... Hell...I'd watch it.

gentlestarZR -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 5:47:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PryderiLoup If my sub were writing on any forum I would read every word. Not because I didn't trust her, or was jealous of her friends, but because I would want to know what, and how, she was thinking. There is a group that subs can join, and I sent my last there, that makes submissive members agree that they will not share their emails with any doms. They want it to be a place where submissives can feel safe to chat without fear of their dominant "spying" on them. I do not think that you reading all her posts is weird, unless, of course, it is for reasons other than learning about her. i must say that my Master checks in on me .. he can check my emails to and personally i love it because he cleans up my junk mail lol .. but i have nothing to hide and i like when he checks on my posts or emails alot , i'd tell him everything anyhoo .. it just makes me feel like he knows every thought i have and makes us closer .. but its out of love he does and i enjoy it ..

TotalState -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 6:24:00 AM)
I am now stalking everyone in this thread. As for the OP, no...I do this too, and my sub does this as well for me (when she can keep up, lol). I also read her messages here, who are a source of great hilarity for both of us.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 6:24:15 AM)
i immediately sense a lack of trust after reading your first sentence in you. if you truly trust her then you wouldn't be stalking her. i have no need to look over my shoulder while i'm here - Daddy and my SO have complete trust in what i post/reply since they do share the same pov as i do.

TotalState -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 6:54:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl i immediately sense a lack of trust after reading your first sentence in you. if you truly trust her then you wouldn't be stalking her. Sometimes a healthy curiosity is simply a sign of interest. You saw that it's no secret between them. It's not as if he's being all jealous and paranoid, is it?

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 7:05:12 AM)
Yes, God forbid that this is just good, healthy fun and interest between them. I mean really, there just has to be something wrong if they do something in their relationship that you don't do in yours.

Celeste43 -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 7:26:39 AM)
Mine used to but this is his busy season. However it's something that gets subs in trouble. All she needs to do is comment on a thread that she would hate if you did something, and sure enough that something will be in her future. Maybe that's why she would rather you didn't read, so she didn't feel that she has to censor herself?

AquaticSub -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 8:01:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JasonF Is it strange of me to "stalk" my girl on CM? 95% of what I read on these boards is just what she writes and the context around it. She seems to think it's "weird" and I'm wondering how the other Doms around here handle it. --J I'd call it weird. Why stalk? If Valyraen wants to know what I'm posting, he just asks and I show him.

toservez -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 8:32:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JasonF Is it strange of me to "stalk" my girl on CM? 95% of what I read on these boards is just what she writes and the context around it. She seems to think it's "weird" and I'm wondering how the other Doms around here handle it. --J I do not think you are strange at all. My Master is just like you and pretty much only logs in to see what I have been writing about and of course I think he is normal/sane/spectacular. He does it more so when he is traveling on business and stuck in a hotel to relieve boredom more then anything but I think it is good that he does it.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: CM Stalking by a master? (10/17/2007 9:56:02 AM)
you assumed too much in one simple sentence in your domliness - all i said was "i sensed lack of trust" i did not say - "oh by the way - i see there's no trust in your frickin' relationship". jeebus - quit reading between the lines for something that wasn't there also if it is a healthy sign of interest - then why is the "dom" questioning the peanut gallery if it's right when he already knows the answer himself - something to make you go hmmmm

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