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came4U -> RE: punishments.... (10/18/2007 10:21:26 AM)
Worst punishment? hiding my ums at the mother-in-law's until he decided I should 'behave' for him. You never saw frantic till you see a woman missing her ums.

Estring -> RE: punishments.... (10/18/2007 10:23:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: came4U Worst punishment? hiding my ums at the mother-in-law's until he decided I should 'behave' for him. You never saw frantic till you see a woman missing her ums. What the hell? And you are still with this guy?

came4U -> RE: punishments.... (10/18/2007 10:31:14 AM)
lol, thanks dear but, no. I am crazy but not that crazy. He did it often too. Sometimes with friends (unknowingly) or a gf or two. I would take any punishment 'not serving, extra whoppins, belt to the face etc' before tolerating that ever again.

onmykneesb4Him -> RE: punishments.... (10/18/2007 10:43:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: came4U Worst punishment? hiding my ums at the mother-in-law's until he decided I should 'behave' for him. You never saw frantic till you see a woman missing her ums. Holy shit. That sums it up, i can't think of any reason whatsoever or any possible situation where that would be appropriate. Wow. Glad you're not with him any longer.

came4U -> RE: punishments.... (10/18/2007 10:52:15 AM)
I'm fine, thank you again. It is the cruelest ever of punishment. Especially since he knew a former brother in law of mine committed suicide taking his/my sister's ums with him. It was a fear tactic. A not leaving the country tactic. One doesn't exactly want to run away without her ums now does she? He knew that. The one true weakness of a woman...motherhood. Sometimes he kept two elsewhere, or one or all 3. The trick was not to leave me access alone with all 3 at the same time. Maybe then, someone might understand that I would require quite a strong man in my life, one who has seen more and done more than I have. If I am or seem hardened now, oh well. Why should I then lower my strength capacity to a weaker man? Should I forget what life experience I have and pretend to be soft and frilly for the sake of ensnaring one? lol I don't think so. Punishment now? um not sure anything could actually punish me anymore LOL, I'm kinda immune to most tactics.

justnewsub -> RE: punishments.... (10/18/2007 11:34:02 AM)
sorry for the naivety but what is ums?

chellekitty -> RE: punishments.... (10/18/2007 11:38:06 AM)
short for unmentionables, which is code for children, i don't know who they are hiding from, anyone that sticks around long enough finds out and then there are people like me who decode it because i think its silly....its against TOS to mention children, ever....but the moderators let it slip ocassionally in cases like this...the moderators know what "ums" means....

came4U -> RE: punishments.... (10/18/2007 11:38:43 AM)
unmentionables aka minors in the tender ages. yes, what she said. yet maybe they (cm owners) just don't like the C word/term coming up in random web searches in association with 'here'. I do prefer the acronym um though. It just seems less creepy.

servantheart -> RE: punishments.... (10/18/2007 11:46:41 AM)
Being ignored completely by my previous Master for five weeks and then when the time was up, not being forgiven by him.

justnewsub -> RE: punishments.... (10/18/2007 11:53:34 AM)
OMG now that i know what ums are that is horrible, beyond punishment!!! chellekitty thanks for the explaination.... but shoot that is horrible servantheart... 5 weeks is a long time to be ignored... i couldn't handle that either... and then to not even be forgiven. once my punishment was over with everything was forgiven, but i was still beating myself up... my Dom even comforted me a bit to let me know he wasn't angery at me just disappointed i felt i had to push so hard to break a rule....

came4U -> RE: punishments.... (10/18/2007 11:58:24 AM)
That is life. Punishment now if when I run out of mall funds. lol * ouch at the your ol 'I'm disappointed in you' scenereo. It is like when parents save for your college and you join the circus instead kinda face they get. [&o]

onmykneesb4Him -> RE: punishments.... (10/18/2007 1:10:38 PM)
i agree, that crop feels totally different depending on why and when. Glad you got it over with! My Sir has been at work all day.......i'm still waiting........[:(]

justnewsub -> RE: punishments.... (10/18/2007 2:26:18 PM)
i was anxious all day yesterday waiting to see how bad my punishment was going to be... i'm glad it's all over too, i wish you the best... hope he isn't too hard on you in a twisted kind of way i am really enjoying the different colors my ass is turning now, and it is a bit hard to sit down.... but still won't do that agian, may ask to get a few good swats like those in the future tho [;)]

carly2day -> RE: punishments.... (10/20/2007 12:03:10 AM)
The evenings and nights spent in my Mistresses closet were by far more or a learning experience for me then a hard paddle.

slaveelle -> RE: punishments.... (10/20/2007 9:00:32 AM)
justnewsub, I am so glad to hear that your punishment is now over. I am sure the waiting was probably more difficult for you than the punishment was. I am sure the bruises you sport will be a reminder , well for a week or so at least not to do what you did again...grins. servantheart, Even thinking about what your master did to you gives me shivers. To put you through that amount of mental torment for five weeks is bad enough, but then to not forgive your indescetion is just abhorent. I think that kind of behaviour from a Master is totally unacceptable. What ever happened to talking out the indescretion, meting out punishment quickly and moving forward? I dont see the point in having a r/ship altered for that length of time with negativity, shame, and mental torture on your behalf. came4u, i am extremely sorry that you were put through that kind of torture with your ums. I cant think of a worst punishment than that. Id rather have the skin torn from my body than have that done to me. I also believe that crops can be fun, but knowing you are being punished for your bad behaviour puts you in a different state of mind. It isnt mean to be fun and for me at least, it isnt. It feels so much different if its meted out for punishment, rather than pleasure. LA, my master also think like you on this. He sees no point in allowing an indescetion go for days. He believes that our time on this earth is limited so why have it filled with negativity and sorrow. He will first find out the reason as to why the error has been commited, Ask if there are any underlying reasons for my behaviour. Knowing those answers to his questions will give Him the answers as to what He will do to rectify it whether that comes through punishment or not. Swift and to the point.

grlneedstolearn -> RE: punishments.... (10/20/2007 5:08:36 PM)
Avoidance is a big thing for a lot of people. But for me personally it would have to be a couple things: The first was my recent punishment of no internet time, except for school work only. The second is he has a oak paddle with holes in it that we both know i'm terrified of and will do anything to get out of it. [:o]

grlneedstolearn -> RE: punishments.... (10/20/2007 5:15:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: justnewsub i have to admit i am craving some extra attention, and that is what started this whole silly thing of me pushing him to see what would happen.... i look back now and feel pretty stupid about it.... When i need extra attention my Dom has this "sense" or something and will give me the attention. Or i'll find it on my own and that usually doesn't go in my favor [:(]

brianne4U -> RE: punishments.... (10/23/2007 1:09:43 PM)
i have not been punished by my Master yet. i have though been told in no uncertain terms what will happen to me if i break a serious rule. Something i do not wish to do. i will say though that i would never disrespect my Master or dishonor the Master.slave union that is so precious to me by pretending to be bad. That's just horrible. Punishment is meant to punish. it's not suppose to be exciting or erotic. It's done because A true Master or Mistress loves you and cares enough about you to teach you right from wrong. i hope that you inderstand that and try not to dishonor your Master again. Good luck.

shootingstar67 -> RE: punishments.... (11/5/2007 8:25:58 PM)
Something mild the first time, and harder if I do it again, and still harder if I did it a third time.

gentlestarZR -> RE: punishments.... (11/5/2007 9:13:42 PM)
honestly the worst punishment is a lecture ... i hate feeling i disappointed Master or let him down .. pain doesnt work well for a punishment if i love pain lol ..

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