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RE: Porn and men - How much is normal? - 10/30/2007 7:23:46 AM

SimplyMichael

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Who cares what is normal, what is healthy is the critical thing. Just like some people can eat ice cream all day long and not get fat, others have food allergies. If the guy can wack off all day to porn and fuck your brains out all night and earn a living who cares. If he can't jack off once and do the other two, then once is too much.

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RE: Porn and men - How much is normal? - 10/30/2007 7:34:38 AM

kittensmailbox

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They ain't easy to find but I picked up a good one in Florida that makes a Hoover look like it is unplugged. Not only that, she finds better porn than I do and sends it to me!

i too use to find porn for my former Master... and YES he use to come over and i would suck him off while he watched porn...

i still do that with ppl i "date", while looking for the right person...

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RE: Porn and men - How much is normal? - 10/30/2007 8:21:19 AM

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Have no sociological/sexual perpective to offer.
I like porn, I just wish more talented people would photograph it.

Thats not asking a lot is it ?

That Swede Milton was pretty good. One of the few.

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RE: Porn and men - How much is normal? - 10/30/2007 9:01:18 AM

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What is this "porn" that you all keep referring to?

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RE: Porn and men - How much is normal? - 10/30/2007 9:13:57 AM

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There is a place for porn, no doubt. I love some of it, but when it replaces an active sex life with the main adult person in your life and leaves someone missing the finer moments between two for weeks at a time... it is a problem.

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RE: Porn and men - How much is normal? - 10/30/2007 12:06:43 PM

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i kinda thought the poster said he's gotten a great new job since then, but the behavior initially started during the loss of the old job. the new job should be refilling that gap, so he's sticking with the new habit because it met some need.

men watch porn for the same reason both sides masturbate, no pressure from a partner with expectations of thier own pleasure.. i can get off by myself in 4 mins alone, but with even a loving adorable partner, it's longer, i'm thinking of two of us and that does slow my response.

Add to the mix a time when the partner has been implying her satisfaction isn't being attended to enough, that'll add further distraction, can see why he's turning to a simple pleasure.. maybe remembering a time when he didn't have to satisfy you because you were happy to "just be used for your pleasure"? (i say this is one of the main reasons M/s doesn't work in a primary relationship, not too many people want to go thru life without reciprocol sexuality. but that's another topic.)

i don't think anyone should go too long with partner being able to not take responsibility for both partners sexual fulfillment, BUt, for a time, maybe it's sensible to relieve him of your expectations until he's back into the investment it takes to see to the needs of a 3-D partner. If porn is the easy way.. take steps to be even simpler joy than what he's getting there.

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RE: Porn and men - How much is normal? - 10/30/2007 8:48:36 PM

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The amount that is normal differs from person to person. As with other addictions, a sex addiction is considered such when it interferres with interpersonal relationships and/or careers. I'm not a therapist, but it sounds like an addiction to me. Perhaps you should contact a therapist and ask.

Master Fire

Ah, yes they will no doubt have a pharmacutical solution. A little happy pill, but no worries they have another pill to counteract the side effects of that pill. Later on in life when his liver goes bad, no problems they have pills for that too. So yes absolutely go trade one addiction for another. Big pharma is not profiting on that addiction.

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