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RE: who is - 8/1/2005 3:07:35 AM

imtempting

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ORIGINAL: Oumae

Is a Mary Poppins fetish about wanting sugar coated BDSM?

Oumae

Well maybe a full spoon of sugar will help the welps go down.

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RE: who is - 8/1/2005 4:04:47 AM

ProtagonistLily

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OOOh OOOh OOOh sees a good place to suck up lets se who follows.

I don think all female dominants are like that. Actually none. You are all perfect like Mary Poppins.

Oh barf....

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RE: who is - 8/1/2005 4:54:13 AM

LadyJulieAnn

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ORIGINAL: UtopianRanger

You say ''mean'' Nah.....''mean'' is too subjective. I like em' nice and classy on the outside and ''wicked'' on the inside. LOL!

- The Ranger

I like this description. I personally don't feel that being "mean" or "bitchy" equates to being dominant.

Be well,
Julie

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RE: who is - 8/1/2005 5:05:47 AM

LadyAngelika

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it seems that Dommes treat their subs worse than Doms

That's because all men are wusses <sarcastic grin>.

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RE: who is - 8/1/2005 5:31:45 AM

MstrssPassion

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LOLLOLLOL

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RE: who is - 8/1/2005 8:28:42 AM

SweetDommes

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ORIGINAL: imtempting

Well fly over to Australia so we can test your theory!!!!!

Heh, you agree to pay for it and I'll let you know the next time I can get more than 2 days off of work ...

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RE: who is - 8/1/2005 9:20:36 AM

LilyOR

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> The biggest difference I have noticed is that because a Dom is biggger and stronger a sub
> thinks twice before he/she pushes a button so to speak. Because Dommes are generally
> smaller and weaker (I mean in areas like a bench press, stuff like that) a sub will want
> something more extreme from her. I have felt really safe and secure with a 6'4" 230 lb man,
> and have had 5'1" women almost make me piss my pants with fear. I know that the Dom
> can physically do anything he wants to me while a Dommes biggest threat is of the
> psychological nature. I'm just guessing here.

I agree that it's possible that given womens (generally) smaller stature and strength, that we may tend to be a little brainier in the way we control our partners. I mean, it's really hard for us to do something like grab a fistful of hair and fling a 6' guy down to the ground, right? I, for one, wouldn't be able to reach it very easily (I'm 5'1), not to mention that a lot of guys wear short hair. So I think I tend to rely on more psychological control. Maybe besides asking "are women crueler/meaner", I'd ask "does a greater reliance on psychological manipulation bring out more aggressive (meaner? crueler? wickeder?) behaviors?. Women do tend to have a more indirect, subtle aproach in some ways than men. But I also think...do male submissive give off cues that are different from female submissives? Yeah, probably. Do they tend to be more "do me" (generally here) than femsubs? Maybe. I agree that the fact that since men are phyically stronger, I for one perceive them as able to be treated more roughly (though deliberately)...that could be part of it for me.

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RE: who is - 8/1/2005 10:57:00 AM

kc692

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ORIGINAL: Valhalla69

Morning A/all,having read a lot of threads on the message boards and online stories,it seems that Dommes treat their subs worse than Doms and i dont mean that in a bad,i mean some of the things i have heard Dommes getting their subs to do,compared to Doms getting their subs to do.

Does this sound right or am i imagining it.

I would be interested to hear peoples opinions,maybe women are just more creative than men or maybe they are just meaner lol,maybe you can let me know.

Since noone has heard from you since inception of the post, I need to ask.....since you have dominant on your profile, do you think we are more creative?? It seems you do think we are meaner....I prefer to think of it as it was stated in another reply....I think we have the total capability of being WICKED...

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