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Valhalla69 -> who is (7/31/2005 6:32:35 AM)

Morning A/all,having read a lot of threads on the message boards and online stories,it seems that Dommes treat their subs worse than Doms and i dont mean that in a bad,i mean some of the things i have heard Dommes getting their subs to do,compared to Doms getting their subs to do.

Does this sound right or am i imagining it.

I would be interested to hear peoples opinions,maybe women are just more creative than men or maybe they are just meaner lol,maybe you can let me know.




MstrssPassion -> RE: who is (7/31/2005 6:48:06 AM)

Online stories... humph!

Kinky smut written for masturbation purposes. Most often written by men which would make me wonder... do these men really want to have these horrible acts done to them & if they do & we female dominants carry out these acts does that mean we are worse than the male dominants???

More creative? Just plain meaner??

I guess there can be a lot of truth to that assessment.

MstrssPassion





kc692 -> RE: who is (7/31/2005 7:33:40 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Valhalla69

Morning A/all,having read a lot of threads on the message boards and online stories,it seems that Dommes treat their subs worse than Doms and i dont mean that in a bad,i mean some of the things i have heard Dommes getting their subs to do,compared to Doms getting their subs to do.

Does this sound right or am i imagining it.

I would be interested to hear peoples opinions,maybe women are just more creative than men or maybe they are just meaner lol,maybe you can let me know.


What are you referring to in particular? I don't understand where you are coming from.....care to explain?




KarbonCopy -> RE: who is (7/31/2005 7:58:03 AM)

I think its because of the fact that women are just so damn clever and sadistic ;)

LOL




DameDeviante -> RE: who is (7/31/2005 11:03:59 AM)

Sometimes I have to wonder who it is that really tries to make the Female species of human being look bad. There are some mean, mean Women out there, I do not deny that. I know I can be a double-doozey Bitch, but there are an awful lot of much more cruel people in general out there. I need not remind people how easy it was to fall prey to such evil, torturous males such as Hitler, Stalin, Reverend Jim Jones, and a whole host of other males who have aided in the corruption, disharmony, and even genocide on this planet even today! I have a hard time believing that most Women, who give life, can even try, with a normally nurturing nature, giving such grief to humankind.....even males. LOL!! As I said above, I know I can be a Bitch, but acknowledging it, and embracing the whole Me is a lot different than denying it's there, and internalizing it so that it comes out in unpredictable, and mostly negative ways since it's being treated in negative, repressive ways. I embrace the Bitch in Me so it can better be utilized in balancing with the rest of Me....and yes..there is a nice, nurturing, loving, considerate Woman in Me as well. Once W/we all begin to understand that it takes Harmony within to have Harmony without, I believe that males and Females can have the best possible relationships together as One. Not really sure how this applies to this particular topic, but this is how it inspired Me.

Be in peace.




imtempting -> RE: who is (7/31/2005 2:31:25 PM)

OOOh OOOh OOOh sees a good place to suck up lets se who follows.

I don think all female dominants are like that. Actually none. You are all perfect like Mary Poppins.




UtopianRanger -> RE: who is (7/31/2005 2:32:46 PM)

You say ''mean'' Nah.....''mean'' is too subjective. I like em' nice and classy on the outside and ''wicked'' on the inside. LOL!



- The Ranger




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: who is (7/31/2005 7:44:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: imtempting
OOOh OOOh OOOh sees a good place to suck up lets se who follows.

I don think all female dominants are like that. Actually none. You are all perfect like Mary Poppins.
Yes we are all perfect because we are as god/our parents made us, but definitely NOT like Mary Poppins.
You're looking in the wrong place if you seek Mary Poppins babe. M




onceburned -> RE: who is (7/31/2005 8:35:35 PM)

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You're looking in the wrong place if you seek Mary Poppins babe.


Now, now... if Mary Poppins is his ideal domme who are we to say contrary? His kink is okay - its just not our kink.

[;)]




imtempting -> RE: who is (7/31/2005 9:34:42 PM)

Ahh Mary Poppins is perfect in every way.




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: who is (7/31/2005 9:43:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: onceburned
quote:

You're looking in the wrong place if you seek Mary Poppins babe.

Now, now... if Mary Poppins is his ideal domme who are we to say contrary? His kink is okay - its just not our kink.
Touche Chris,
I didn't think of it that way at all. [:D] M




SweetDommes -> RE: who is (7/31/2005 9:46:58 PM)


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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

quote:

ORIGINAL: onceburned
quote:

You're looking in the wrong place if you seek Mary Poppins babe.

Now, now... if Mary Poppins is his ideal domme who are we to say contrary? His kink is okay - its just not our kink.
Touche Chris,
I didn't think of it that way at all. [:D] M

Now now, you never said that seeking Mary Poppins was wrong, just that this is the wrong place to look if that is what he is seeking ... and for the record, I agree - I haven't seen a single "Mary Poppins" on here in the 2 years that I've been a member of the site LOL




SweetDommes -> RE: who is (7/31/2005 9:48:48 PM)


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ORIGINAL: imtempting

Ahh Mary Poppins is perfect in every way.


Actually, the line is "practically perfect in every way" [sm=tongue.gif]




imtempting -> RE: who is (7/31/2005 10:09:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes


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ORIGINAL: imtempting

Ahh Mary Poppins is perfect in every way.


Actually, the line is "practically perfect in every way" [sm=tongue.gif]


So therefore im after a practically perfect Dominant as i said you were like mary poppins




SweetDommes -> RE: who is (7/31/2005 10:17:20 PM)


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ORIGINAL: imtempting

quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

Actually, the line is "practically perfect in every way" [sm=tongue.gif]


So therefore im after a practically perfect Dominant as i said you were like mary poppins


Heh, I'm nothing like Mary Poppins ... I freely admit that I'm far from perfect - but I rarely make the same mistake twice, so at least there is that LOL

Of course, I'd also like to think that I'm more fun than Mary Poppins - I mean, tea parties on the ceiling are only fun for so long ... after that, you need a paddle or two [;)]




KarbonCopy -> RE: who is (8/1/2005 12:50:43 AM)

We all know that behind closed doors Marry Poppins was one freaky Domme.
Seriously.
She LOVES that whole brittish nanny thing. lol

Just look at her and protocal. Just give her a naughty picture to jump into lol.




SweetDommes -> RE: who is (8/1/2005 12:57:31 AM)

Nah, I still think I'm more fun ... and I have bigger boobs too LOL [;)]




imtempting -> RE: who is (8/1/2005 1:25:06 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

Nah, I still think I'm more fun ... and I have bigger boobs too LOL [;)]


Well fly over to Australia so we can test your theory!!!!!




Oumae -> RE: who is (8/1/2005 2:29:48 AM)

Is a Mary Poppins fetish about wanting sugar coated BDSM? [;)]

Oumae




MadamMichelle -> RE: who is (8/1/2005 2:31:33 AM)

Back to the original subject. I consider myself fortunate because I was trained by the wonderful leathermen in Silverlake CA. The biggest difference I have noticed is that because a Dom is biggger and stronger a sub thinks twice before he/she pushes a button so to speak. Because Dommes are generally smaller and weaker (I mean in areas like a bench press, stuff like that) a sub will want something more extreme from her. I have felt really safe and secure with a 6'4" 230 lb man, and have had 5'1" women almost make me piss my pants with fear. I know that the Dom can physically do anything he wants to me while a Dommes biggest threat is of the psychological nature. I'm just guessing here.




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