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Helping my sub internalize the art of deep breathing - 10/19/2007 9:18:33 PM

JLION

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Over the past few months I have been trying a few techniques. My main interest is helping submissive women self-improve themselves through my shaping. One thing that I enjoy doing is teaching a female submissive to deep breath. It is especially rewarding to see a submissive who is somewhat of an anxious person develop this habit

I have her sit on a wooden stool naked, while I stand behind her fully clothed.
I put one hand around her over her stomach and the other might rest on her hip.
For each deep slow abdominal breath I will reward her with praise, such as "good girl".
Every once in a while when she gives a very nice good breath I will touch her on the small of her back, or I might give her touch her in a semi-teasing way as a reward. There are many ways to give her a physical reward. Even something as subtle as smelling her hair will reward her. Or just by whispering "good girl" in her ear as opposed to just saying it out loud.
When I see her getting very relaxed I increase the praise and touching.
I never let this turn into a complete sexual session. What I am doing is conditioning her to become a healthier and more relaxed person.
If I ever "catch" her being good during the day, and breathing deep abdominal breaths on her own, I will give her praise, and I will note that I should reward her later.
Sometimes I will lay her on her back and breath while I rub her stomach. Nothing is more rewarding than to see my sub fall asleep this way.

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RE: Helping my sub internalize the art of deep breathing - 10/19/2007 9:58:54 PM

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Trying a few new trolling techinques as well, I see.

At least these are slightly more creative then the last time you were here.

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RE: Helping my sub internalize the art of deep breathing - 10/19/2007 10:01:14 PM

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What's the question? If there is no question, why is this here and not on your profile, as information? Or do you just want a pat on the back?

< Message edited by MissMagnolia -- 10/19/2007 10:03:12 PM >

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RE: Helping my sub internalize the art of deep breathing - 10/19/2007 10:31:22 PM

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I'm not sure if you are really going to get the end result you want if you condition relaxation with sexual teasing. For really good deep breathing practice there probably shouldn't be any sexual/sensual component, unless maybe it's a nice slow gentle massage. Otherwise you are going to condition your sub to relax when she become arroused or to get excited when she breaths deeply.

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RE: Helping my sub internalize the art of deep breathing - 10/19/2007 11:23:31 PM

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Being bored can cause deep breathing.

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RE: Helping my sub internalize the art of deep breathing - 10/19/2007 11:40:07 PM

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That sounds sexy as hell! Deep breathing is what we all should be doing. It has all kinds of great benefits other than relaxation. Longer orgasms, weight loss, more oxygen for the body etc. Good for you JLION!

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RE: Helping my sub internalize the art of deep breathing - 10/20/2007 3:15:17 AM

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I can hardly breathe

that was sooo womantic.