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irishjoe -> Cooking for your Mistress (10/20/2007 11:11:48 AM)

Hi,

i was just wondering how do you ladies wish to be served your meals by your submissive? i know of one Mistress who only allows her submissive to eat her left overs which she places on the floor for him. Consequently he cooks her quite a big portion of food all the time :)

i was also wondering if you have ever fed your submissives anything which you would find undesirable and would never in a month of sundays consumer yourself? Furthermore why?

thanks for reading
joe



thetammyjo -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/20/2007 11:33:16 AM)

I don't allow Fox to cook often but when I do he sets the table for the entire family.

We are a family here, I may be his owner but he is still part of my family so we all eat together for family meals. I should amend that: sometimes work interferes and we eat in shifts -- an added stress in my life during this semester.

On the weekends when we tend to eat in the front room and watch a movie or something Fox will carry out everything fetch anything a word from me.

Sorry, no strict lines around my place in terms of food at least not in any BDSM sense. Allergies account for enough of that.



unforegvn -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/20/2007 3:19:40 PM)

I have never fed a submissive something I wouldn't eat!  I have tossed morsels to a submissive as he sat up begging from under the table.  Feeding them my leftovers is part of the fun thought everyone did that ;o)

I enjoy my meals being prepared to my liking.  I want to sit down to an elegant table setting, have my submissive serve my meal and wait on me.  Sometimes I let them sit at the table with me. 




masochistboytoy -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/20/2007 6:31:11 PM)

in my previous Mistress/slave relationship i did the cooking and i was allowed the leftovers, but i was punished if i cooked too much.



laurell3 -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/20/2007 6:35:53 PM)

well...my domestic skills are horrible, frankly, I can ruin jello....so if someone is kind enough to cook a good meal for me, what I am is just plain happy and thankful.  Hand-feeding someone in restraints is quite hot though, in my opinion.
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xandriasboy -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/20/2007 9:03:42 PM)

I do all the cooking in our household since Goddess is usually too busy with work to do it. But since I've spend years working in laboratories, I find it isn't much of a change.



MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/21/2007 3:59:28 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: irishjoe


i was also wondering if you have ever fed your submissives anything which you would find undesirable and would never in a month of sundays consumer yourself? Furthermore why?

joe


My submissive and I are busy professionals so we eat out a lot.  I order his food for him.  I know what he would really like to eat and what he should eat, especially if he is getting a little tubby. 

You should see his face when I order salad for him and his favorite pizza for me!  Its so much fun being a Domme :)

PS of course I nearly always end up sharing with him - I am a big softie!



MsLilac -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/21/2007 4:47:52 AM)

Ahhh, the big portion tactic. Well, that wouldn’t work with me as I am a glutton and can eat anyone under the table LOL! [:D]

Seriously though, I love cooking, but rarely have the time to do it everyday, so I leave that to the men, unless the urge to do it takes me. They know what I like, and how to cook it, they are excellent chefs! Nutrition is very important to me, I do make sure we all get a varied and complete diet with the freshest ingredients.

No, I don’t feed them on left overs from my plate, as I want healthy men, not sickly men. Sharing food can be sexy, I occasionally have them on their knees whilst I feed them little tidbits from my plate, but they always have their own plate of food. I do occasionally have their legs shackled at the table when the mood takes me.

I have considered making them eat something they find repulsive as an extreme punishment, but I have never had to do that, and would be reserved for something pretty extreme.

As for how I wish to be served. They lay the table and I sit down first (I always sit at the head on the table). My food is laid down first. Then I wait for them to bring in their food and sit down, and we eat together. No one leaves the table before I finish, but they may ask permission to be excused earlier. No one starts eating before I do. We are a family unit, so we will discuss our day or just general things, or at times I just need silence, in which case I order no talk.



PairOfDimes -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/21/2007 8:32:26 AM)

Golly, I must not be a real dominant. When I have submissives to my house for playdates, I often make and serve them dinner, which they eat at the dining room table, like normal guests.



MistressDolly -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/21/2007 10:40:15 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: irishjoe

Hi,

i was just wondering how do you ladies wish to be served your meals by your submissive? i know of one Mistress who only allows her submissive to eat her left overs which she places on the floor for him. Consequently he cooks her quite a big portion of food all the time :)

i was also wondering if you have ever fed your submissives anything which you would find undesirable and would never in a month of sundays consumer yourself? Furthermore why?

thanks for reading
joe


I'm sure most Mistresses love when her male cooks and serves her meals. And, I'm sure most Mistresses are kind enough to allow the male to eat her leftovers from a bowl placed on the floor. ;P

As to your second question: Why would a Mistress ever force her male to consume undesirable food she herself wouldn't eat? I don't know.... perhaps it's reinforcement, amusing or punishment.

:)



irishjoe -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/21/2007 1:43:26 PM)

Thank You all for Your wonderful answers.
In answer to Your question Mistress Dolly, i suppose it is a form of punishment or amusement...i don't know to be honest :)

joe



AAkasha -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/21/2007 1:54:10 PM)

In my relationship I don't cook at all.  He does the cooking, but I rarely dictate or change what he eats or integrate power exchange in a way that impacts our meal time.  That's not to say I don't have a lot of fetishes and urges that have food elements to them, or forced feeding, or dog bowls, or humiliation at restaurants.  But I see that as all separate and depending on my mood -- and since he puts a lot of time and effort into his meals, I don't generally want to waste food, deny him food or ruin those moments.

If I am in the mood to do something surrounding a meal, it's often just set up as an extra meal anyway, because my focus is not on food but on the surrender, humiliation or torment involved.  Whether I have him on all fours eating out of a dog bowl, or I have him tied up and I am "force feeding" him - it's just whatever random food I select at that moment.

I wouldn't think to deny him meals or nourishment because it's more important to me that he keeps his body fine and he has enough calories to support his hobbies.  I have to keep meat on his bones so he looks great when he's bound and gagged naked, after all...

Sometimes, playfully and random, I might take away his silverware and "feed" him his meal, or tell him which bite to take, or order him to eat in a way that amuses me.  That's more just the nature of the way I flirt and constantly remind him that I see him as a sex toy.  But generally, the meal does take priority.  Same thing about meal prep time; I am not going to go into the kitchen and randomly spank him or pull his hair or grab him by the balls if I know he's preparing something that takes concentration.  He is generally pretty "safe" in the kitchen because I know he takes cooking seriously.

Now, when he it out of the kitchen, that's another story....

Akasha




ruthfw -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/21/2007 8:55:42 PM)

While having someone cook dinner for me is a nice concept, I enjoy cooking too much for it to be a service I regularly require. 

Now if I lived with the gentleman in question, perhaps - I work late and often hopefully ask when I get home, "Is there dinner?"

The pet and I made dinner together once; while he claims to enjoy watching the Food Network, he seems to be a little short on practical experience.  And I enjoy teaching people things, so that works.

I had one boy eat some strained babyfood spinach once when he misbehaved.  This is something I'd be willing to eat (though I can't imagine wanting to) but I knew he'd be repulsed by.  Which made us both happy, so to speak.

I might also order food for a submissive that I wouldn't eat myself, but that's due to my preferences more than his - I'm a vegetarian, but if I know a boy loves fish, I might order it for him in a restaurant. 



spinntja -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/21/2007 9:06:47 PM)

The head girl cooks when she is off work in time. Otherwise I take care of the myself. If there are leftovers she may or may not be welcome to them, depending on my plans for lunch the next day. To come clean -- sometimes I cook even when she is here. Those would be the times the litter boxes needed urgent attention and I was too hungry to wait for her to do both tasks. -- SJ



masochistboytoy -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/22/2007 1:39:01 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MistressDolly

I'm sure most Mistresses love when her male cooks and serves her meals. And, I'm sure most Mistresses are kind enough to allow the male to eat her leftovers from a bowl placed on the floor. ;P

As to your second question: Why would a Mistress ever force her male to consume undesirable food she herself wouldn't eat? I don't know.... perhaps it's reinforcement, amusing or punishment.

:)


my previous Mistresses almost always made me eat off the floor or from a dog bowl placed on the floor. as well, my previous Mistresses definitely enjoyed watching me eat undesirable food - was used often as punishment and for their own amusement. this was a great way to reinforce that they controlled my entire life, body, mind and soul.



MistressDolly -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/22/2007 1:53:49 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: masochistboytoy


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDolly

I'm sure most Mistresses love when her male cooks and serves her meals. And, I'm sure most Mistresses are kind enough to allow the male to eat her leftovers from a bowl placed on the floor. ;P

As to your second question: Why would a Mistress ever force her male to consume undesirable food she herself wouldn't eat? I don't know.... perhaps it's reinforcement, amusing or punishment.

:)


my previous Mistresses almost always made me eat off the floor or from a dog bowl placed on the floor. as well, my previous Mistresses definitely enjoyed watching me eat undesirable food - was used often as punishment and for their own amusement. this was a great way to reinforce that they controlled my entire life, body, mind and soul.


Weren't you a lucky male. *wink



masochistboytoy -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/22/2007 2:03:43 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDolly


quote:

ORIGINAL: masochistboytoy


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDolly

I'm sure most Mistresses love when her male cooks and serves her meals. And, I'm sure most Mistresses are kind enough to allow the male to eat her leftovers from a bowl placed on the floor. ;P

As to your second question: Why would a Mistress ever force her male to consume undesirable food she herself wouldn't eat? I don't know.... perhaps it's reinforcement, amusing or punishment.

:)


my previous Mistresses almost always made me eat off the floor or from a dog bowl placed on the floor. as well, my previous Mistresses definitely enjoyed watching me eat undesirable food - was used often as punishment and for their own amusement. this was a great way to reinforce that they controlled my entire life, body, mind and soul.


Weren't you a lucky male. *wink



Mistress, extremely lucky and can't wait for my next 24/7 slave experience.



MistresssAria -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/22/2007 3:05:46 PM)

I like to feed subbies my scraps........after I smoke a cigarette and ash all over them ;) .  I also (usually during puppy play) like feeding subs disgusting baby food out of a dog bowl.......and ashing in that as well.



needstheOne -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/22/2007 4:26:08 PM)

My friend, thankfully this never happened to me, liked taking all the dinner had to offer and mixing it together in a bowl and pouring the drink and salt and pepper over it.  It only happened to Her slave twice in five years.  Took him almost 30 minutes to eat it.  He daid it was nasty.  I said to him,  "Well that is what it taste like in your stomach and we should do better not to screw up!  He didn't like that answer for some reason.



masochistboytoy -> RE: Cooking for your Mistress (10/22/2007 8:19:38 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistresssAria

I like to feed subbies my scraps........after I smoke a cigarette and ash all over them ;) . I also (usually during puppy play) like feeding subs disgusting baby food out of a dog bowl.......and ashing in that as well.


this is beautiful MistresssAria. i remember once after i was told i was never to pre-cum, i pre-cummed and my previous Mistress was extremely angry. i was punished that evening by having to eat food in a dog bowl that was covered in her piss.



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