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RE: should i stay or go - 10/21/2007 1:59:30 PM

LASub4Real

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Go.

There are Doms who like skinny subs,
and there are Doms that like fat subs

and there are Doms that like you.
(You're not a shape. You're a person)

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RE: should i stay or go - 10/21/2007 2:17:44 PM

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I can relate to being proud of the fact that you have lost weight and are still doing so as I have lost 60 lbs in the past year myself. If you were look at my profile though you will not find mention of it anywhere because it was a personal choice not spawned by the views of others. But I do agree with what everyone has said. You should just eliminate the weight from your profile and concentrate on the positive things you have to offer a Daddy, as I am sure there is plenty you could say. Also, definately address the font issue because anyone who has experience on the internet knows the ALL CAPS = YELLING. You can mention that you are a plus size woman and just leave it at that. There are plenty of Daddy's out there that like women with some meat on their bones and they will not treat you as this person has. I mean I get comments from guys I know all the time that make reference to how much they liked me better before I lost weight, that just shows how much peoples tastes vary.

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RE: should i stay or go - 10/21/2007 2:21:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: LASub4Real

and there are Doms that like you.
(You're not a shape. You're a person)

LAsub

sometimes people can say so much with just a few words.

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RE: should i stay or go - 10/21/2007 3:59:16 PM

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Ja, I just perved you and I would fuck you till your nose bleeds.

Ron

*sniffles* what about me, Ron?

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RE: should i stay or go - 10/21/2007 4:23:38 PM

rubyleu

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are you really 999 lbs?

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RE: should i stay or go - 10/21/2007 6:18:37 PM

lilacs

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If you are really serious about this, consider adding some information to your profile. Some information about what you are really seeking from a relationship. Some things about what your D/s or BDSM interests are. Some information about what *you* are about.

There is a lot more to you, I'm sure. Consider spending a lot more time on your profile.

When I was still seeking, I had one paragraph at the end of my profile that stated that I am and have always been a BBW and it was something that was unlikely to change significantly. I also stated that I was reasonably happy with who I am and that if a larger woman was not something that appealed, that I wished the person who might be reading every bit of luck in a seach, but there was no use in wasting both of our time unless they were simply looking for a friend. I know that your weight may be a significant struggle for you, and you deserve to be proud the progress you have made - but as others have said, you have other things to be proud of as well, I'm sure.

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RE: should i stay or go - 10/21/2007 8:40:17 PM

mya75

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I myself am full figured and have always been upfront about it but trying to lose weight and live a bit better ..my experience has been you should look for a Dom who is willing to work with you and encourage you to lead a healthy lifestyle..sometimes they will do this by example ...I havent had any issues really just the common arsehole who states "ya and your fat" of course after you reject him in some manner....so maybe you just need to write that guy off as a common arseholian..*smiles*

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RE: should i stay or go - 10/21/2007 8:51:36 PM

TemptingNviceSub

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I have to agree with what most have said to you, but to also add, believe in yourself first, last and always..and not some doofus, who had a hard on to hurt someone by stating it as a fact..and secondly, you may need to harden yourself just a wee bit, so that when certain doofii's e-mail you, that you will only roll your eyes at such idiocy...congratulations at the weight loss, be proud of that accomplishment..:0)..Tempting

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RE: should i stay or go - 10/22/2007 1:25:41 AM

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thanks for all comment i will change my profile and remove caps and add my interests thanks for your help

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RE: should i stay or go - 10/22/2007 4:41:47 AM

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wow much better profile. Spell and grammar check it, and throw in some general likes/dislikes, you are not just about sex, you're a complete person after all.
Most importantly, learn to tell creepy people to get the hell away from you, because, unfortunately, you will find many here.
Good luck to you!
l

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RE: should i stay or go - 10/22/2007 5:20:05 AM

lookingfordaddy2

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laurell3 thanks for your help and advice looking

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RE: should i stay or go - 10/22/2007 5:32:59 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

wow much better profile. Spell and grammar check it, and throw in some general likes/dislikes, you are not just about sex, you're a complete person after all.
Most importantly, learn to tell creepy people to get the hell away from you, because, unfortunately, you will find many here.
Good luck to you!
l

i agree with laurell3...your profile is much easier to read now and i like the fact that you did not make weight an "issue."

Best of luck to you in your search! :)

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RE: should i stay or go - 10/22/2007 5:50:13 AM

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shellzbythesea thank you for your comment and well wishes smiles looking

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RE: should i stay or go - 10/22/2007 7:55:51 AM

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