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RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 1:45:23 AM

MasterReece

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As much as being a Dominant Male or female may want to have respect, surely the same would apply from Male Domme to Female Domme. Especially in the chat rooms.
Purely the female part of domination within the chat rooms come as it would seem reeking of bad manners not only to the subs wanting to learn but also the Dom Masters who happen to come into there room. Grow up Ladies and stop believeing your own press. You really only ave to be polite to get the respect you perhaps deserve.

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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 1:52:55 AM

laurell3

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sigh...here we go again

First tone down the font, it's against the terms of service for CM and it's painful to read and when I say painful, I mean bad pain.

Second, I'm sorry you had a bad experience with some chatroom and some Domme(s), however, those people are most likely not here and it's not appropriate for you to come spreading your hate here.

There is however, a thread here somewhere respectfully asking if others have had a bad experience with the CM chat rooms. Go read it. You will find here on CM they are privately owned and you get what you pay for, and in addition, your sentiments however loudly stated are not singular.

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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 2:06:56 AM

MasterReece

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Much apreciated laurell3, got what you are saying and would on say your interipation of hate is far away from my intention. Words will always be interpritated the way they are read not hearing the delivery form a persons mouth. I would be the first to say I had no intention of offence only to make it clear that bad manners no matter what is a shame . Respectfully accept my apoligy for that as I have the highest respect for women .... I worke closely with them and have done so for over 38 years.Your comments have been note by me .

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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 3:26:17 AM

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I guess it's just one among many typos, but just to point out.. here on CM, we use "Dom" for a male Dominant and "Domme" for a female Dominant.

(Actually, I looked at your profile. I'm not sure if you're using "Male Domme" as a reference to a dominant male acting as a woman, but I suppose that would be a valid usage for the phrase.)

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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 3:39:10 AM

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Just like in real life, online there are some polite people and there are some not so polite people. Anyone online does need to have a pretty thick skin though.

And that's male "dom", big guy - "domme" refers to a female dominant.

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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 3:44:47 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterReece

Much apreciated laurell3, got what you are saying and would on say your interipation of hate is far away from my intention. Words will always be interpritated the way they are read not hearing the delivery form a persons mouth. I would be the first to say I had no intention of offence only to make it clear that bad manners no matter what is a shame . Respectfully accept my apoligy for that as I have the highest respect for women .... I worke closely with them and have done so for over 38 years.Your comments have been note by me .

I appreciate the response, welcome to the forums. Read that prior post, there's a search function here. I think you'll find your view was shared by a few in it.
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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 4:00:08 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CuriousLord

I guess it's just one among many typos, but just to point out.. here on CM, we use "Dom" for a male Dominant and "Domme" for a female Dominant.

Bollocks

MasterReece use whatever you want ... the less pedantic in our midst are intelligent enough to figure it out ...dom, domme, dominant, dominate ... whatever ... it all means the same freaken thing.

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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 4:02:27 AM

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Reece it must be a female thing ... the fem's identifying as subs in the forumns and chat rooms are just as derogatory to men ...dominant or not ...

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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 4:18:01 AM

laurell3

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Wrong. Respect is a two way street. I didn't make the ToS, if I did they wouldn't mod explicit sex talk

I respect people, not roles. My respect is based on the respect they give and how they behave.

< Message edited by laurell3 -- 10/22/2007 5:00:47 AM >

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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 4:31:37 AM

Lashra

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I've met some pretty damn rude Domme/Dom/sub/switches so I do not think it is gender specific but more of a individual character flaw. Yes some people do need to grow up and mature but this is the internet and it attracts all kinds. If you want respect you have to give it and earn it, these days it seems to be in very short supply.

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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 4:59:05 AM

sambamanslilgirl

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ow, my aching eyes ...now i'm really awake.

i'm fem submissive and have seen a few immature doms in my time. how about you telling your fellow doms/switches to grow up too? it's not nice receiving messages from the jilted romper room crowd which say i'm not a twue submissive because i think highly of myself or that i'm too fat, ugly and black or the ever favorite "on your knees now, bitch, and suck my cock" etc etc.

if you want respect, you need to earn mine. i don't give it away freely.

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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 5:00:06 AM

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Where do we go in here to be ordained. I want to be holier than tho.

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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 5:04:59 AM

plushiecat

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Both CuriousLord and MsSonnetMarwood state that 'domme' must refer to a female dom only. Not really. 'Dom' is simply short for dominant. To imply that 'domme' is required for a female dominant would be as silly as stating 'subbe' would be for a female sub(missive).

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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 5:21:06 AM

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Firstly, that huge font is very difficult to read.

Beyond that, dominants are not due respect just because they are dominants. Nor are submissives not worthy of respect simply because they identify on the other side of the slash.

Good manners dictate giving a certain modicum of respect to everyone, until they either show they deserve less or more. And just so you know, no female likes to be addressed by someone she doesn't know as slut, bitch, whore etc. Even if she might like those terms coming from someone close to her.

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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 6:32:34 AM

RRafe

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Some people let a little power go to thier heads-just ignore them-they do it for attention.

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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 9:01:00 AM

LATEXBABY64

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oh this is easy this what we call leading by example on any side of the fence

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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 11:08:02 AM

Missokyst

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Myself and many of my buddies call a dom a dom, no matter what sex they happen to be. That would be online. In person I just call them Bill, or Sally. On the matter of respect online though, being polite is enough and that should go across the board, dom, sub, male, female, or alligator.
Kyst

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsSonnetMarwood

Just like in real life, online there are some polite people and there are some not so polite people. Anyone online does need to have a pretty thick skin though.

And that's male "dom", big guy - "domme" refers to a female dominant.

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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 1:27:16 PM

iammachine

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Being an asshat isn't limited by gender or orientation.

Some people have manners, some people don't.

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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/22/2007 11:10:12 PM

LadyHugs

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Dear Master Reese, Ladies and Gentlemen,

First, welcome to the Collarme.com's forums. Secondly, there will always be an adjustment to language due to the many English speaking countries participating as well as those who's second language is English. So, at times there might be a need to explain a bit as to give another view of what was being expressed.

Third point, is that chat rooms are often as full of variety of individuals, level of experiences and or manners, education/knowledge as the forums. There is a buffet` of personalities and one has to choose how to respond in a way as to carry on a chat. It is a different world in chat then there is in person.

Fourth point, is that we, in a general sense cannot control another person, especially on-line and or in Internet chats and such. However, we (in a general sense) can control our own conduct and thus, are responsible for our own reputation, our own spirit of intent and how we (in general) package ourselves for public consumption and or presentation. It is a reflection of the person that matters however, it is more important that our own personal reflection is maintained to a standard to which can inspire others to change--not from a demand/command.

I do not know which chat room you visited however, we often have men who come through in a Female Dominant room and some are extremely kind and wonderful gentlemen and some who just wish to cause insults, disrupt the room and have the need to be domineering when it is not a room designed for the pleasure of male Dominants. There are other rooms designed for Male Dominants and for Gay and Lesbians as well. It just requires looking up on the menu or going to the Lobby and gaining direction of where they may be in the chat forums.

I do not recall you being in the room of which I am given "Op" status but, as a Lady who is a Dominant, I am sad to hear that you were exposed to some individuals that behaved badly.

Just some thoughts,
Lady Hugs

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RE: RespectOf Domms - 10/23/2007 6:44:01 AM

Prinsexx

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterReece

Purely the female part of domination within the chat rooms come as it would seem reeking of bad manners not only to the subs wanting to learn but also the Dom Masters who happen to come into there room.

Might I advise:
1. You will never move from vanilla to deviant on here using a type face that large, trust me on this.
2. I think it must be a neurological problem if you can actually smell a chat room.
3. Into their room please....as in possessive pronoun. I would politely ask you to spell check, get a diagnosis for a specific learning difference or a better education.
4. Dom equates to male, domme equates to female. Or: go to Florence and pick up the best looking street corner domme you can afford. She might have a nice surprise under her skirts for you. It's called a dick and she will lovingly treat you to the delights of Lady Boy Chastisement.

PS I absolutely believe my own press.........you should read it. It might just be the best education you have ever had.

Politely and most sincerely:

Prinsexx
aka P.Angelchild

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