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RE: Dominant and in love? What's the impact? - 10/24/2007 6:35:15 AM

Oumae

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I don't differentiate between vanilla activities and D/s, if I am involved with someone the mindset will be there so whether we are making love, having a good hard quickie, going to a movie, watching sport or playing for hours in a dungeon, I'm in charge and I have the final say.

I have loved subs I have had and found that it helped the D/s aspect as there was more motivation and inspiration between us to make it work, each wanting the others fulfillment.

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RE: Dominant and in love? What's the impact? - 10/24/2007 8:39:30 AM

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Hmmmm, different strokes for differet folks here. Personally, I've fallen deeply in love with Mistress. I love Her as my Dominant and as my girlfriend, but notice the order I listed them in. She is my owner, first and foremost. I came to Her as a slave, not a potential boyfriend. She makes the final decisions on things and Her word is law. I have a deep romantic love for Her, too. As my owner, my joy and happiness comes from pleasing Her and making Her life as wonderful and easy as possible...plain and simple. As my girlfriend, I look at Her as my significant other and the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with. As my girlfriend, She is the one I can cut up with and goof around with, watch a movie together as we share a big bowl of raw cookie dough, or play around in the kitchen as we cook dinner together. Just like my mom and dad, I would give my last breath to protect Her and snap anyone's neck without hesitation to defend Her if She were in danger. She is the greatest gift I could ever ask for in my life and I will do everything I can to show that to Her every single day.

But my level of submission to Her is directly proportionate with the fact I have romantic love for Her. In the past, I could submit to a domme, but only to a certain depth if I wasn't in love with her. With Mistress, I have yet to find the limit of my submission to Her because of how much I love and cherish Her. In other words, it greatly adds to the joys of my submission to Her. For others, it can be a drastic complication that throws pure service and D/s outta whack. Some choose to allow the heart into things, some do not. It all depends on the people at play and what they ultimately look for.

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