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sissys - 10/25/2007 12:55:48 AM

ScottishRose

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Just wondered how many mistresses enjoyed having a sissy around?

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RE: sissys - 10/25/2007 7:20:10 AM

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I'm in

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RE: sissys - 10/25/2007 9:12:33 AM

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Depends upon the sissy.

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RE: sissys - 10/25/2007 10:28:05 AM

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Not! I've always enjoyed the company of and interaction with masculine men... regardless of persuassion. Sissy males just do nothing for me. Probably why I have no interest in x-dressing or feminization.

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RE: sissys - 10/25/2007 8:29:29 PM

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Count me out.

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RE: sissys - 10/25/2007 8:56:35 PM

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Only my florist~~

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RE: sissys - 10/26/2007 6:07:20 AM

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I'm in the 'no interest' column. It just doesn't do anything for Me.

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RE: sissys - 10/26/2007 6:25:29 AM

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Having had a CD hubby who is now an ex-hubby ... I guess you have your answer! While it entertained Me for a while, his obsession with it palled for Me ... I got so sick of hearing those high heels clomping around the place ... and him changing his shoes in the car just for a 5 minute drive to the shops ... it was all about him, the shoes and the clothes ... and not about Me. He really was one of those for whom S & M means "Stand & Model" LOL! So I'm not exactly in a hurry to find another sissy ...

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Of course ... this begs the question of why I am making My fem sub, whose former wardrobe consisted of pants and shorts ... wear skirts now

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RE: sissys - 10/26/2007 9:36:05 AM

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ok, other then saying, "I'm in" lol I'll elaborate a bit.
Having been married to my sissy for the past eight years, I can clearly say I enjoy him more and more each day.

Now, in saying all of that, I will explain what his service is to me, in short, and with the understanding that this is MY take on how I want my sissy to serve me. As well as it is HIS offering of service to me.

He is very much a 'sissy husband'. What does that mean? He is my husband, of course but at my discression I have him dress in specific articles of clothing to further cement his possition with me. He sometimes wears simply a bra underneath his business suit, or maybe just stockings, or any small token to remind him of who he is and who I am, to him.
There are occasions where I feel full dress for him MAY be in order, but that would depend what I wanted to do with him.
I also have him in cuckold, so he knows his possition is simply 'the sissy husband'. I can and will take on 'dates' with 'butch' men when I choose and feel like I want that type of company.
He does get certain sexual gratifications and it can include things like 'forced bi'. For those occasions I will have him in full dress to intensify the experience.

Keep in mind this is HIS offerning to me. It isn't something I forced him to do, we simply share in each others 'kink' and enjoy them mutually. He is extreamly loving and will worship the ground I walk on, he has for many years. He will tend to my needs and personal comforts. This further adds to enhance his 'kink as it puts him in a lovely possition of being so close but yet so far.

Do we go out in a 'vanilla' context? Of course we do, he is my husband. But he is always reminded of his position with me and and always will be... because that is the way WE want it.

As I said already but will again, this is one interpretation of it and as we all know there are many and varried takes on every kink out there. But I hope this further explains why I enjoy mine.

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RE: sissys - 10/26/2007 10:11:31 AM

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No, not at all.

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RE: sissys - 10/26/2007 10:16:09 AM

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I do.

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RE: sissys - 10/26/2007 9:00:46 PM

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i'd guess about two dozen, total, in the English-speaking Internets. Not sure how well the sissy dynamic translates to non-Western cultures.

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RE: sissys - 10/28/2007 1:44:50 PM

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thanks for the replys

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RE: sissys - 10/30/2007 3:18:52 AM

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i guess that after reading all the replys there realy no room for those of us whos just like too wear the silkys and submitt and serve.....

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RE: sissys - 10/30/2007 6:05:49 AM

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ORIGINAL: iwearpanties

i guess that after reading all the replys there realy no room for those of us whos just like too wear the silkys and submitt and serve.....

That is the everyday dress for my sissy. Just enough to remind him of what he is. :)

I wouldn't really put stock in any accurate representation just by a handfull of posts. Plenty out there that enjoy sissys.

In my network, not only I but my closest friend, along with a mutual friend as well as a friend of hers. All of us enjoy sissys (those that like to just wear the silkies and serve) and thats within a 20 mile radius, not to mention the ones we don't know and meet at clubs, parties, etc.

So smile, we are out there for sure!

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RE: sissys - 10/30/2007 7:09:36 AM

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They are out there. Just have to find one that works. You will have the best success if you have something to offer. It seems the more you bring to the table, the more a mistress will get into it. Or at least that has been my experience.

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RE: sissys - 11/1/2007 8:11:20 PM

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i agree with you the more you bring yes ... but i also know its a very speical lady that is very willing and able too take on a the sissy / panty wearing male but i also think the terms need toobe definded more of gievn the true meanings i m sure there is a diffrance between a panty wearing male and one that wants too dress fully as sissy boi???

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RE: sissys - 11/2/2007 12:28:03 AM

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Not sure if im allowed to post a link to a site i found if not feel free to remove it ,http://www.realsissyschool.com/ it just might help some of the guys that read this section

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RE: sissys - 11/2/2007 3:00:49 AM

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There have been several long threads on this topic. The general consensus seems to be that many sissies are so attached to their kink that they tend to use the Domme as an outlet for their kink, rather than really submit and serve. Of course this isn't true in ALL situations, but for many this has been their experience. So just keep that in mind when searching. Don't focus so much on the kink that a prospective Domme feels like you will be serving your kink, not her.

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RE: sissys - 11/2/2007 3:12:37 AM

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Should have said i myself am a Domme and have a intrest in sissys myself but that particular kink is fairly new to me so am tryin to find out more about r/l sissys ,i know i posted a site but hearing from other mistresses is alot better

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