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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/25/2007 7:57:42 PM   
winterlight


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Status: offline 		get therapy if you are depressed. down cos you can't find somebody. heck, i looked for over 3 years and was told to stop looking He/She will find you.

Go out and take some classes, learn cooking, travel, study something, volunteer, maybe you will find what u are seeking there. Don't be stuck in a rut.

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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/25/2007 8:07:58 PM   
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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/25/2007 9:50:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		You're only 20 for Godssakes.  Go out, party, drink, have wild sex, and stop caring so much and being so intense you forget to enjoy life.   

P.S.  Hell yes, I get frustrated, but I try to have a toy and batteries handy for those days!   M

< Message edited by FullfigRIMaam -- 10/25/2007 9:52:47 PM >

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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/26/2007 5:15:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMaam

You're only 20 for Godssakes.  Go out, party, drink, have wild sex, and stop caring so much and being so intense you forget to enjoy life.   

P.S.  Hell yes, I get frustrated, but I try to have a toy and batteries handy for those days!   M


been there, done that, not going back.

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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/26/2007 5:20:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: youngsubgeoff

trying to find someone has basically become a waste of time. fuck it.


Take a break from looking, go about your life, work on things that make you happy, come back when you aren't frustrated and if you do in fact suffer from depression, seek help.  You're not alone in your feelings of frustration, patience isn't always easy to come by.

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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/26/2007 8:43:25 AM   
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....stop trying.....do something social that just makes you smile, then see what happens.
Things not going your way some of the time is a fact of life for the vast majority, this too shall pass.......

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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/26/2007 11:18:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		Why can't you walk away? If your life amounts to banging your head against a brick wall, then it's time to reassess your values and your lot.

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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/26/2007 11:23:37 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMaam

You're only 20 for Godssakes.  Go out, party, drink, have wild sex, and stop caring so much and being so intense you forget to enjoy life.   

P.S.  Hell yes, I get frustrated, but I try to have a toy and batteries handy for those days!   M


Yeah, really, give me a break. You should be having so much fun now at 20, believe me it gets tougher later, enjoy it now!

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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/26/2007 12:20:13 PM   
Lordandmaster


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FUCKING HELL!

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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/26/2007 4:39:53 PM   
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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/26/2007 5:05:50 PM   
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It sounds to me like you're suffering burn out. You're trying far too hard and it just isn't coming together. You seem to be mostly focused on the search for the perfect Mistress (I'm going on your other posts as well). Stop looking, stop expecting. Take a break and come back later.

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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/26/2007 6:17:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: youngsubgeoff

Im honestly starting to feel like Im slamming my head against a brick wall. Anyone else feel like no matter how hard you try, your never going to get what you need?  Ever feel like you just want to give up and walk away, but you know you cant?


I often feel this way. I get plenty of offers, but I'm a college student and often have to cancel plans because of excessive homework and tests. Then another woman comes along that's not in college and off he goes. I agree that it can be pretty discouraging sometimes. Finding someone takes time......even more so when one is extremely busy. Don't give up.

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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/26/2007 6:41:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

Why can't you walk away? If your life amounts to banging your head against a brick wall, then it's time to reassess your values and your lot.


I've done that NG, and I recommend it.

My suggestion would be, don't drink or do drugs, because they always let you down when they wear off. Investigate natural highs. Last summer I toured the Pacific Northwest, Washington State and Oregon - I went to all the biggest volcanoes and Museums I could find. Visited the rainforest and the beach, saw my brothers for the first time in years. You have to get out occasionally... to stay sane.

Wish I could be twenty again, knowing what I do now...

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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/26/2007 6:48:18 PM   
Zaraseeks


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Status: offline 		Wow, I am eiter very lucky or doing something right, I prefer to think its both.  I have always found someone great as soon as I was looking, my first Mistress I never sought out, Wwe met in a vanillia setting and it evolved, big key here, I didnt push!
Once that ended it was seriously a week and the very first email I wrote to a Mistress on another site.  Now this took time, I had to work VERY hard to prove to Her I wasnt there to get my kink on, I wasnt as immature as everyone else my age (She was older, and my age was a knee jerk reaction for Her)  I again had to not push, She knew what She wanted, what She demanded, and I as a submissive and someone wanting to get somewhere with it all HAD to let Her lead.  When She gave any one of Her many writting assignments I had to work hard at it, and even if it was about birds not question and know She did have Her reasons.  I had to pay attention to detail, make sure I clearly understood what She expected, and try to go above and beyond.  All that aside I think I was VERY lucky to have found Her, She was very wonderful and specail! 

Now that had to end because She became very ill, and right away another submissive friend I had who was helping me get through that (the loss of MsLiz) And somehow her and I developed into a Mistress/sub dynamic and I am now Hers 24/7....

The thing is you HAVE to show people you are sincere, so many people waste time you need to prove yourself, though I found these people fast and easily, had I given them anything short of my very best they would have blown me off.
Best of luck
Eryn aka lil zara

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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/26/2007 8:57:17 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: youngsubgeoff

Im honestly starting to feel like Im slamming my head against a brick wall. Anyone else feel like no matter how hard you try, your never going to get what you need?  Ever feel like you just want to give up and walk away, but you know you cant?


I actually felt like that about three weeks ago...and then I found that muffler I was looking for, for that 73 Mercury.

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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/26/2007 9:12:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		I was lucky and found Dylan early in my life but remember being a typical teenager looking around at all the boys running around and going I have to date this???? The thing is you just have to be true to yourself.

I remember Dylan telling me once AFTER he became in involved in the life and knew who we was he tried walking away from it. That lasted all of six months before it built up inside him so bad he said he nearly exploded. LOL lets just say from his old friends and what little he told me about what happened when he came back he made up for lost time.

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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/26/2007 9:39:46 PM   
youngsubgeoff


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Status: offline 		Ive decided to stay involved with the lifestyle, but Im not looking for anyone right now. As a matter of fact, I may be disappearing soon, got the album written (finally!), and will be recording and planning a tour soon (if we can last that long) 

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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/28/2007 8:54:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		I get so frustrated that I want to slam someone else's head against a brick wall.... does that count?  (j/k)

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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/28/2007 9:02:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: youngsubgeoff

trying to find someone has basically become a waste of time. fuck it.
    If something is totally out of your control why waste your time worrying about it---If it is out of your control why let it fustrate you.  
   As for trying to find someone---I think everyone goes through that stage a time or two in their lives.    It is fustrating to want something or someone in any life style and it just does not come about.   Direct your attention on something else---step back, step away and do something different so the fustration is not consumming you.    Honestly I believe that things come when we least expect it.

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RE: ever get frustrated? - 10/28/2007 9:06:53 AM   
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