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mnottertail -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/28/2007 8:24:18 AM)
Noah!!!! Where the fuck you been dude? Perhaps meditating at Yasgur's farm. Or absorbing the teachings of Berthold Kant? Good to see you!!!!!! Immanuel Locke

Noah -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/28/2007 8:36:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Noah!!!! Where the fuck you been dude? Perhaps meditating at Yasgur's farm. Or absorbing the teachings of Berthold Kant? Good to see you!!!!!! Immanuel Locke Been taking it to new levels and places, Bro. Developing the first No-Tears Tangle-free Conditioner for lawn and garden. Then I realized what the No-Tears bit must mean to twue sadistic dominates like us and I had to start all over again. So yeah, I've been busy. Hey are you free to travel over Thanksgiving? There's a thing in the works.

mnottertail -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/28/2007 8:43:48 AM)
I suppose I am, give me a mail on the other side. If it is what I think it is, I am so jealous of you, you lucky bastard!!!!

Noah -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/28/2007 9:42:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail I suppose I am, give me a mail on the other side. If it is what I think it is, I am so jealous of you ... Well I can't know whether you're thinking what I'm thnking but ... quote: you lucky bastard!!!! ... you're right on at least two counts. Regards, Immanual Kouldifhereallyputhteeffortin

ResidentSadist -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/28/2007 10:43:03 AM)
Other than going out and shampooing your lawn, to apply constant reinforcement, you may wish to let him know your feelings and see if he can give you something to do that will help you feel connected to him while you are apart.

MasterDaveM -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/28/2007 10:57:52 AM)
You are probably in a relationship with a Master who is keeping you as a kind of "cum dump" He sounds like he is in it for the sex and an outlet for when he is bored with whomever he is living with. part time master/slave relationships do NOT work...

julietsierra -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/28/2007 12:25:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterDaveM You are probably in a relationship with a Master who is keeping you as a kind of "cum dump" He sounds like he is in it for the sex and an outlet for when he is bored with whomever he is living with. part time master/slave relationships do NOT work... How sweet of you to be the one to determine every single other relationship out there. juliet

MasterDaveM -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/28/2007 12:33:38 PM)
quote: How sweet of you to be the one to determine every single other relationship out there. read the original post... my analysis stands. i am not determining "every relationship out there"... but if the shoe fits...

julietsierra -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/28/2007 12:40:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterDaveM quote: How sweet of you to be the one to determine every single other relationship out there. read the original post... my analysis stands. i am not determining "every relationship out there"... but if the shoe fits... I've read the original post. No where in that post is she saying she's being treated callously. No where in that post does she say he's being untruthful. In fact, she's very aware of his other responsibilities, whatever they are (and whatever they are is a) none of our business and b) not germaine to what she's learning to manage. Learning to manage time off is simply a process. Not necessarily an easy one, but still - a process. A year in is just not that much time as far as processess go. It will get easer. And time off does not necessarily constitute being used as a "cum dump." juliet

Noah -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/28/2007 1:25:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterDaveM .... part time master/slave relationships do NOT work... I'll take your other comments at face value, Dave, but I have a question about the one above. If I were to introduce you to several couples who reported having working, meaningful and fulfilling part time master/slave relationships, would you say that they were mistaken or lying? Or would you revise your opinion?

MrSpectacular -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/28/2007 1:32:53 PM)
Obviously you are bored on weekends - you have a known quantity so do something about it. Find things that you enjoy doing on a weekend. That way instead of worrying about the coming weekend you may actually enjoy the anticipation. It may also send a signal to your dom to pay more attention to you.

MasterDaveM -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/28/2007 2:08:27 PM)
quote: If I were to introduce you to several couples who reported having working, meaningful and fulfilling part time master/slave relationships, would you say that they were mistaken or lying? Or would you revise your opinion? i would consider a revision and perhaps say that part time (much like long distance relationships) have a low percentage of success

adoracat -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/28/2007 7:10:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterDaveM quote: If I were to introduce you to several couples who reported having working, meaningful and fulfilling part time master/slave relationships, would you say that they were mistaken or lying? Or would you revise your opinion? i would consider a revision and perhaps say that part time (much like long distance relationships) have a low percentage of success it depends on how much work the individuals involved are willing to put in, just like any other relationship. kitten, who isnt a live in, nor is she quite local to Daddy

Noah -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/29/2007 12:51:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: adoracat quote: ORIGINAL: MasterDaveM quote: If I were to introduce you to several couples who reported having working, meaningful and fulfilling part time master/slave relationships, would you say that they were mistaken or lying? Or would you revise your opinion? i would consider a revision and perhaps say that part time (much like long distance relationships) have a low percentage of success it depends on how much work the individuals involved are willing to put in, just like any other relationship. kitten, who isnt a live in, nor is she quite local to Daddy Dave, I'd like you to meet adoracat and her (working) partner.

julietsierra -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/29/2007 1:07:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: adoracat it depends on how much work the individuals involved are willing to put in, just like any other relationship. kitten, who isnt a live in, nor is she quite local to Daddy adoracat: I know what you mean. We're not live-in either, and I'm not sure if one of us being on one side of Detroit and the other being on the other side (about 45 minutes to an hour away from each other) is considered local or not, but 5 years and counting seems like a long time for something that... isn't, huh? juliet

Focus50 -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/29/2007 2:36:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Noah Anyway I guess my wacky proposal about discussing things such as personal initiative and the meanings to be found in d/s relationships is less appealing to you than standing around holding a pissing contest. Fair enough, homie, but I know when I'm out of my league. From here on out you'll be standing around holding it all by yourself. Oh, you were advocating communication; that's what you were doing? See, I mistook it for you dumping a whole bunch of psycho-babble bs onto a first time poster under the premise of you being "adventurous". Your indignation is understandable. <gives myself an uppercut> Focus.

Focus50 -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/29/2007 2:53:39 AM)
quote: quote: ORIGINAL: julietsierra quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 I mean honestly, are you just trying to tell me in that round about way you have that.. you love me? Sweet. One day we could maybe team up as "Sweet & Creepy".... [:-] Focus. See? I just knew you were making a pass at me. I'm going to have to say no though. You know, me being collared and all that. But hey, I realize that you are dealing with the sad fact that there are just no issues in my relationship that you can use to attack my master, and that you're suffering through the awareness that the only insult you've been able levy against me is that I'm smart, so I know you're hurting. Honestly though, I'm thinking we're not well matched. But thank you for asking. juliet <snerk>, I just realised it's not your face edited from your avatar, it's your ego! Nice try.... lol Anyway, you're mistaken, I did not say you were "smart". Quite the opposite, I said you seemed intelligent but NOT very smart with it - this post a case in point. Starting with why you've attributed your own words as a quote of mine? And what's this other nonsense? You actually think I care about your relationship? And I'd wanna "attack" your master because....? Hmmm, I took Noah to task when you butted in, you mean him? Obviously your ego thrives on the attention Juliet, but the fact remains that (as usual) it always seems to be you who finds me. *Now check this out; I am* currently "available" but am not nor ever interested. At last we agree on something? :-) But it's still ok when next you inevitably quote (and misquote?) me. Focus.**

julietsierra -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/29/2007 4:32:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 quote: quote: ORIGINAL: julietsierra quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 I mean honestly, are you just trying to tell me in that round about way you have that.. you love me? Sweet. One day we could maybe team up as "Sweet & Creepy".... [:-] Focus. See? I just knew you were making a pass at me. I'm going to have to say no though. You know, me being collared and all that. But hey, I realize that you are dealing with the sad fact that there are just no issues in my relationship that you can use to attack my master, and that you're suffering through the awareness that the only insult you've been able levy against me is that I'm smart, so I know you're hurting. Honestly though, I'm thinking we're not well matched. But thank you for asking. juliet <snerk>, I just realised it's not your face edited from your avatar, it's your ego! Nice try.... lol Anyway, you're mistaken, I did not say you were "smart". Quite the opposite, I said you seemed intelligent but NOT very smart with it - this post a case in point. Starting with why you've attributed your own words as a quote of mine? And what's this other nonsense? You actually think I care about your relationship? And I'd wanna "attack" your master because....? Hmmm, I took Noah to task when you butted in, you mean him? Obviously your ego thrives on the attention Juliet, but the fact remains that (as usual) it always seems to be you who finds me. *Now check this out; I am* currently "available" but am not nor ever interested. At last we agree on something? :-) But it's still ok when next you inevitably quote (and misquote?) me. Focus.** lol focus, you're a funny funny man. Thanks for making me laugh. juliet

MadRabbit -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/29/2007 8:57:02 PM)
Juliet, I think this is just a lack of understanding of Focus50's perspective on the world. Once you figure it out, dealing with his posts isn't too hard Let me provide a brief synposis... 1. Every other Dominant on the planet Earth besides him is a loser who is doing bad and horrible things to every subbie that posts here 2. He is the only who can say insensitive and ignorant comments to new subbies.. 3. Anyone else who says insensitive comments to a subbie besides him is a complete bastard that he must protect the subbie from in attempt to get a perv at his profile.

julietsierra -> RE: slavegirl222 (10/30/2007 2:32:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MadRabbit Juliet, I think this is just a lack of understanding of Focus50's perspective on the world. Once you figure it out, dealing with his posts isn't too hard Let me provide a brief synposis... 1. Every other Dominant on the planet Earth besides him is a loser who is doing bad and horrible things to every subbie that posts here 2. He is the only who can say insensitive and ignorant comments to new subbies.. 3. Anyone else who says insensitive comments to a subbie besides him is a complete bastard that he must protect the subbie from in attempt to get a perv at his profile. OHHHHH!!! Thank you! I kinda thought it was 4) His style of hitting on submissives out there. So, when he began insulting me, I just took it as him hitting on me too. hmmm... I'm still not too sure that's not happening here. and 5) If you're a submissive and dare to disagree with him in a way that shows the obvious shortcomings of his theories - and in a way he can't answer logically, then you are the natural and expected target of his "higher order" insults - such as they are. Kinda like elementary school (was going to say high school, but generally by that time, they are arguing a bit more succinctly): "This is what I think" "You're wrong!! You... you... (name calling moment) - And you're stupid too!!" Y'know, the thing is, on another site, a long time ago, we used to actually get along... funny huh? Actually, it's not so funny as much as it is telling - "Availability" and all that. juliet

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