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UtopianRanger -> RE: Tributes and price? (8/4/2005 3:22:26 AM)

I've only been reading this board since March, yet I have seen this topic constantly re-hashed and re-packaged-up in many different ways.

For the gents who are worried about the whole money thing, I say it's time to start thinking about the right type of woman. Dominant women come in many forms. And just like men, some are bums and lazy asses. Recognize them for what they are, and don't pick them if you don't feel good about the whole situation.

I say, pick bold, confident women who are inspired! The kind who show up for work every day, ready to kick-ass and climb the ladder. They are out there! And when you find one, chances are, worrying about a few bucks won't even come to mind. ; -}



- The Ranger



imtempting -> RE: Tributes and price? (8/4/2005 6:43:01 AM)



quote:

ORIGINAL: Oumae
I agree...its not about tribute its about showing thought and caring for a partner. Some may demand tributes but it gets irksome when thoughtful gestures get lumped in with the whole tribute thing.
Oumae


I think you mis-read the quote.

Rubyb I think by the quote you posted is reading other comments and not the question I posted.
SadisticPrincess Well then she puts it down as being a good slave not a tribute so that was a bad sentance to include.

GoddessDustyGold Is that a tribute or a thoughful thing to do??..

Please also dont tell me if its not what im after dont do it etc. As much as im against it, I did not tell anyone not to do it in this post.

If I was everyone here I would of left the post at Mistress Simone's as she is a pro domme and changed my view of some not all but some pro dommes as she is willing to barter for things other thing money or item of cost. She is willing to let them do other things apart from gifts etc for her services.




MistressAnne -> RE: Tributes and price? (8/4/2005 2:23:46 PM)

Hi I'm a pro Domm and do require a monetary tribute. I also have subs who come clean for me or do errands.
I also have a subbie partner and we share in all the bills ect... we also live together so now its not a tribute but a partnership or relationship.
I never have sex with clients.Nor do i give them release that is for them to do.
that pleasure belongs to only one and he is my life partner.



GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Tributes and price? (8/4/2005 11:33:23 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: imtempting

GoddessDustyGold Is that a tribute or a thoughful thing to do??..



If you are referring to My post, imtempting, and the example I gave of My boy going the extra mile for Me, no I do not consider that tribute. I viewe that type of thing as a warm and caring gesture that shows devotion and willingness to go the extra mile. Of course he was living with Me, and I controlled everything anyway. Which is why I pointed out that, with Me anyway, once you are under My roof and under My contract, any ideas of tribute go out the window. I am already controlling everything.
I think Aakasha explained it best.
If a Domina demands or commands it, it is tribute. Some will demand gift or money, even if it is a small token. I do not consider any agreements I have in contract with a live-in boy, regardless of the financial ramifications, to be tribute. I consider it part of his submission.
Live-out boys in training, do tribute Me. Often in small ways, but it is part of their training, and it is usually small tokens. However, these small items are commanded, (peppermints, a magazine, etc.) and it is an agreed upon part of their training contract.
It depends on the relationship that is agreed upon.



GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Tributes and price? (8/4/2005 11:34:23 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: imtempting

GoddessDustyGold Is that a tribute or a thoughful thing to do??..



If you are referring to My post, imtempting, and the example I gave of My boy going the extra mile for Me, no I do not consider that tribute. I viewe that type of thing as a warm and caring gesture that shows devotion and willingness to go the extra mile. Of course he was living with Me, and I controlled everything anyway. Which is why I pointed out that, with Me anyway, once you are under My roof and under My contract, any ideas of tribute go out the window. I am already controlling everything.
I think Aakasha explained it best.
If a Domina demands or commands it, it is tribute. Some will demand gift or money, even if it is a small token. I do not consider any agreements I have in contract with a live-in boy, regardless of the financial ramifications, to be tribute. I consider it part of his submission.
Live-out boys in training, do tribute Me. Often in small ways, but it is part of their training, and it is usually small tokens. However, these small items are commanded, (peppermints, a magazine, etc.) and it is an agreed upon part of their training contract.
It depends on the relationship that is agreed upon.



diaperedbaby -> RE: Tributes and price? (8/5/2005 7:04:10 AM)

I think gifts are fine AFTER you know someone. I see no value in sending someone money because they have a ad on here.
I have met alot of folks, but usually at clubs or events rather than a web site.

I think the hangup is dommes requesting dollars before they even talk or know you.
Trust works both ways, so in person BEFORE I start giving gifts works better for me.

I could dress as a female and ask for money, but that wouldn't be a true representation of who I am.
Paying money prior to knowing someone will likely end in a negative experience.
The motives become financial rather than plain sincerity.
Just my opinion



MistressSassy66 -> RE: Tributes and price? (8/6/2005 12:37:18 AM)

I'm a Pro-Domme.I usually charge a very small fee.Why?There are a few reasons why: Because I buy nylons,panties and bras for My subs to wear,they can take these items home or I can keep them and wash them and put them in a bag with their name on it.These items can get expensive.I apply make-up to some subs the make-up can also be expensive,I use new applicators each time yet another expense.I also make My own ball gags and subs are allowed to keep the gag I use on them.I have several different fetish interest and feel it's important to keep up-grading My dungeon to give subs a more fulfilling experience.When sucking a strap-on is an issue I like My subs to all have their own toys that they buy for themselves.I do also accept gifts instead of cash,although My fee is so small very few complain.I have on occasion(albeit rare) not charged anything or asked for a gift.




nella -> RE: Tributes and price? (8/6/2005 4:49:53 AM)

What i do not understand is the discussion. If a Dom, male or female, go out on the internett and say, hey, if you want to talk whit me, send me money, ofcourse many world think that a bit strange, but they dont have to respond. There are many Dominants that dont do this, and those that do, well it is their choice to do so, and your choice to either do what is nessesary for contact if you realy want it, or go on shearching.



LadySonelle -> RE: Tributes and price? (8/6/2005 5:04:09 PM)

Would I accept something that had no monetary value as tribute?

No.

I would RELISH it!! :) While things of monetary value are wonderful (and no, nobody has yet bought Me that diamond ring on sale at Zales! Drat the luck) the thought behind the gift is what is important.\

In My slave b.'s file folder is a crayon drawing he did of Me sitting on him as a chair. It is crude and hardly flattering... but I cherish it for the attention to detail he put into the work. It took him time and effort and shows his devotion to Me.

My greatest tributes have been sighs of pleasure and adoring gazes from slave eyes. For a true Mistress, into BDSM for the love of the art and discipline, what better tribute exists?

For financial support, I do NiteFlirt, work on the phone and am seeking financial slaves. But that is not tribute, it's wages earned and slavery utilised for My support and wellbeing. Slaves are generously rewarded for every penny and the exchange is even or weighted toward them.

Lady Sonelle



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