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RE: Hit and Run domination. Use the man then move on. ... - 3/4/2008 9:43:24 AM

ObediantMan1

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an even better offer....you can hit and run me and I dont care if you respect me in the morning or not.....And where do I post my address? lol

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RE: Hit and Run domination. Use the man then move on. ... - 3/4/2008 3:00:51 PM

ShaktiSama

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Honestly, I compartmentalize my sexuality a bit more than many people do. I am more than capable of spanking someone at a party after just meeting him and walking away after the aftercare a happy gal. I do not need to be deeply emotionally involved with someone to enjoy mild topping or domination.

My photography involves a certain amount of intimacy with people and vulnerability on their part, which is erotic and can be "dominant" when I am photographing a submissive who interacts with me personally as a submissive. On the other hand, I also photograph dominants and vanilla-folk and I try to get into their eros, which requires flexibility and imagination, and a lot of personal growth on my part. Photographing a top, trying to capture the submissive perspective on their "topness", is as close as I get to bottoming. There are times when I literally have to interact verbally with the model to bring out their playful side. I'll spare the details!

But I cannot afford to be blind to the beauty and powerful of a male or female dominant just because I am not a "sub". I have to get into the headspace sometimes and just be human, and an artist, without being ruled by my personal ego.

Since my ego has its own zip code, this is a challenge needless to say. But art is worth it.

All this being said, there is a huge barrier to intimacy that goes beyond a certain allowed extent with strangers. This is the realm where we get outside of my relationship with other people, their bodies and their fantasies, and get into the Land of Me. Being truly intimate with someone is not something I do on a casual basis, nor would I expect someone to allow me the greatest intimacy on a casual basis. I definitely think there are important and beautiful things that are reserved for special people, and deeper relationships. And no, those things will not happen during casual play or one-night stands.

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RE: Hit and Run domination. Use the man then move on. ... - 3/4/2008 4:27:28 PM

ElanSubdued

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Akasha,

quote:

Akasha:
Is there any hope for subs that love the idea that a woman might have an eye on him, decide he looks tasty, and then make the moves on him and seduce him into quick, almost anonymous nastiness?

Sure there is hope, but if the submissive being eyed happened to be me...

IT'S NOT GONNA' HAPPEN.

Casual sex and casual play do nothing for me. I like to get to know someone before they get anywhere near peeling back my outer layers, as it were. Mistress Dolly summed up my feelings rather well:

quote:

Mistress Dolly:
For me, lust is a matter of chemistry that always goes beyond a hot body or face.

Side note: to all the other submissives out there who feel differently, your ratio of possibility just got one bigger. :-)

Elan.

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RE: Hit and Run domination. Use the man then move on. ... - 3/5/2008 2:46:12 PM

Kirren

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Why not ladies? Men have been doing it to women for years, I see no problem with it and I am sure you would have a line out the door.

Amen...

Isnt there a song called Guys do it all the time? Or some crap like that?

I have 14 malecousins and I think the most insane thing I ever heard them say when I was growing up was...I let her give Me head...and then on the heels of that another one going Oh yeah...well I got to eat her out....WTF....isnt that the equal? Is there some woman some where in the world going...I wouldnt fuck him..but I let him lick My pussy?

Why shouldnt it equal the same?

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