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RE: Older sub verses younger sub (males) - 11/18/2007 11:20:08 PM

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Says the guy who flaunts a high school freshman vocabulary like it makes him friggin' Hemingway.

I'm sorry if the adult words scare you.

Maybe you should try the 12-15 y/o bondage forums.

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RE: Older sub verses younger sub (males) - 11/18/2007 11:29:03 PM

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Says the guy who flaunts a high school freshman vocabulary like it makes him friggin' Hemingway.

I'm sorry if the adult words scare you.

Maybe you should try the 12-15 y/o bondage forums.

Now Now children, You're proving points that the OP made by arguing like high school freshmen! Why doesn't it just settle down, You're both young and wise and great people, There's no need to fight amongst eachother. Especially on the internet.

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RE: Older sub verses younger sub (males) - 11/18/2007 11:31:51 PM

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what is it with girls having masters double their age? i

I don't find that true at all. I can't find a sub my age let alone one that is half that.

... I don't know what is with it, but in my case the only Doms that seem interested in me are close to double my age. I personally see no peoblem with Large age differences as long as there is personal compatibility

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RE: Older sub verses younger sub (males) - 11/18/2007 11:37:30 PM

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Now Now children, You're proving points that the OP made by arguing like high school freshmen! Why doesn't it just settle down, You're both young and wise and great people, There's no need to fight amongst eachother. Especially on the internet.

Yes, there is.

Now back in the kitchen!

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RE: Older sub verses younger sub (males) - 11/18/2007 11:39:51 PM

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I just finished in the kitchen! I don't wanna!!!!

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RE: Older sub verses younger sub (males) - 11/19/2007 12:00:37 AM

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Git, woman!

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RE: Older sub verses younger sub (males) - 11/19/2007 1:12:33 AM

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Don't you tell me what to do! You're not my daddy!! *assumes little girl hands on hips sticking tongue out stance*

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RE: Older sub verses younger sub (males) - 11/19/2007 1:54:44 AM

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Why I oughta.....

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RE: Older sub verses younger sub (males) - 11/19/2007 2:32:32 AM

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lol you're so cute when your mad! it's off to bed for this little girl, it's approaching 4:30 and I'm supposed to be up in 2 hours XD lol

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RE: Older sub verses younger sub (males) - 11/19/2007 3:31:34 AM

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My sub is a few years younger than me and makes me happy.

In my experience, middle aged, married men can be the most cynical, demanding, crude "subs" on the net.

I find younger men endearingly sweet and respectful. They haven't been soured by life yet.

In contrast, middle aged men think its OK to say things to me like " Your picture is incredibly hot. Is it really you? (doh!) I really, really want you to fuck me in the arse and stick things up my dick hole. I know you aren't a commercial operator, but what "tribute" do you want for that???" (this is a genuine email!)

I have never received rude and crude email like that from young men.

Looking at wider society (oriental or not!), IMO its not women who choose older partners (for money, wisdom etc). That assumes that women have power in mainstream society - they do not.

The unfair fact is that men almost always prefer younger female partners. Ideally with clear, unwrinkled skin, even features and pert breasts. Apparently evolution is to blame. Its something to do with propagating the species, which requires fertile (pre-menopausal) women

The pleasing reversal of that social norm is found in Femdom lead relationships. Dommes are revered for their experience, which comes with age and oportunities. Older can be alluring, even sexy.

Dominant women of a certain vintage should celebrate the longevity of their sexual attraction, not scoff at the "impertinent" advances of youthful men. Ordinary women over 50 are treated as invisible in western society. Count your blessings.

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RE: Older sub verses younger sub (males) - 11/19/2007 5:00:50 AM

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I am an older sub [obviously], bordering on an "old sub". I am active on the boards, relatively bright, personable, friendly, trifty, brave, thruthful, clean & reverant, [a regular boy-scout]. I have had maximum of 10 messages from Dommes over the years, half of those saying "I like your photo." I have had no, [zip, zero, nada, zilch], messages from any Domme under 40. I don't know why. I think I'd be a very good slave for any age. Experienced, trained, willing, I can do most anything. Yet, here I am. I read thread after thread from Mistresses who say all sub- males are phonies, players, wannabes etc. who disappear after three e-mails. These are the same Dommes who ignore my e-mails. I don't understand any of it. I'm giving CM until New Years Eve 2007. If it hasn't happened by then it ain't gonna. Then it'll be time to retire.

peter,

I sent you a message on the other side. let me know if you got it please.

Ms Irish

Edited to say I read all the previous posts on this thread and had a great belly laugh. I would want to connect with aiden if he were in closer proximity.

Maturity, smarts, sweetness: They all rock, whatever the age.
Things in common: Very important. I love to learn and enjoy connecting with a younger sub who knows things I don't. I enjoy mentoring and used to volunteer as a teacher, so I have a lot to offer a new sub..

Attitude gets kicked to the curb: Older or younger.

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RE: Older sub verses younger sub (males) - 11/19/2007 7:53:12 AM

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Says the guy who flaunts a high school freshman vocabulary like it makes him friggin' Hemingway.

And this is one of the reasons why you stand out from THAT particular segment.

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RE: Older sub verses younger sub (males) - 11/19/2007 2:03:31 PM

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gentlemen, please, we're all adults here. lets act like it, shall we?

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RE: Older sub verses younger sub (males) - 11/19/2007 2:29:34 PM

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An attempt to get things back on track... although I'm not real sure where that track is.

Age isn't an issue for me, but there are so many other things that go along with being with an older woman. I talked to one younger male sub and one of my biggest concerns was this... Can you honestly say that you will never want to be a father? No other issue is as big as that one, at least in my eyes. Cuz' it ain't gonna happen here. Mine are all raised and gone. And I have a feeling it would be the same for most other women my age or close to it.

So I'll pose that question to the younger subs that believe they would be happy devoting their lives to us older women.

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RE: Older sub verses younger sub (males) - 11/19/2007 3:01:33 PM

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Hello, This is Mistress Isabella... Well truthfully I like both younger and older submissives... It is the general obedience and need to serve me that turns me on.. Now, there are advantages to both, and sometimes It's hard to decide which I like better... Experienced slaves really know how to please a Mistress, with little or no training, sometimes the young ones are obedient enough, but need alot of direction...Both are good to have around. If I were to meet a subbie thou, that I wanted for a real 24/7, he would need to have a really fit hard body, and be willing to work really hard to please me, so someone right in between the two would probably be best for me, because I need someone with alot of energy!

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