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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/27/2007 10:15:05 PM   
amelliagrace


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ORIGINAL: RRafe

I wanna hear the women talk now.


Are you ready for the serious answer, or holding out for more "fun" posts?
 
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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/27/2007 10:16:07 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: amelliagrace

quote:

ORIGINAL: RRafe

I wanna hear the women talk now.

go for it.
Are you ready for the serious answer, or holding out for more "fun" posts?
 
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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/27/2007 10:18:47 PM   
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Desperation will push anyone to great great lengths...

I have never put a sub or slave of mine in a scene I have not been in, or been willing to be in myself. I started out as a sub when I was young.. and I was put through a lot. I think that is why I am such a depraved Domme.. LOL

I know what it is to stand there shivering and begging to not to have to do something crying my eyes out. *Gods how I love doing that to my subs!* ~ it is rare.. but it is with things they wish to have limits pressed on.. and discussed well in advance.

I think you have to have a huge calmness of spirit, and a huge reserve of will power to not give into begging and whimpering when placed in a really tough situation.

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/27/2007 10:19:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

Desperation will push anyone to great great lengths...

I have never put a sub or slave of mine in a scene I have not been in, or been willing to be in myself. I started out as a sub when I was young.. and I was put through a lot. I think that is why I am such a depraved Domme.. LOL

I know what it is to stand there shivering and begging to not to have to do something crying my eyes out. *Gods how I love doing that to my subs!* ~ it is rare.. but it is with things they wish to have limits pressed on.. and discussed well in advance.

I think you have to have a huge calmness of spirit, and a huge reserve of will power to not give into begging and whimpering when placed in a really tough situation.

Gwyn




I started on the bottom-this is nothing at all new to me.  Do you think someone gets this evil-just from being a top?

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/27/2007 10:24:03 PM   
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I started on the bottom-this is nothing at all new to me.  Do you think someone gets this evil-just from being a top?


Hehhee I think it gives folks an advantage when they start as a bottom, or a sub.. you inately know what the sub is feeling and thinking.. and how to apply things to get the greatest effects.

Plus the " I am Uber Dom/me " tends to be toned waaay down.

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/27/2007 10:26:13 PM   
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I don't know.  I think given the option of begging and crying and pleading (in this scenario), I'd just pee my pants.  Urine washes off. 

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Can I write here? - 10/27/2007 10:30:45 PM   
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Hi folks.

Yay...first post.  I've been lurking (but not by choice).  Had lots of comments I wanted to add to other threads.  Clicked & brought up Reply screens, but didn't see cursor & clicking on screen didn't bring one up.  Assumed that meant I couldn't input.

This time, just tried typing...and THERE IT WAS!  (d'oh!)

Okay, so after all that (sorry, had to vent)...this is gonna seem pretty anticlimactic.  But, in reference to RRafe's "It's goodwill clothing", I thought "I've heard of Goodwill Hunting, but not..."

My comments for other threads were much, MUCH more profound...honest.

Hooray, though.  Now I get to play too!

Glue gun scene...I'll have to get back to ya on that, though.

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/27/2007 10:31:18 PM   
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Background info:  1.  I'm not totally closed to the idea of watersports (of some varieties, at any rate), but they aren't high on my favorites list, either.  My experience with them is extreeeeeeeeemely limited.   2.  I'm answering this as if it was a real incident, involving my ML.  3.  My ML is never sadistic just for the sake of being sadistic - it just isn't him.
 
My initial reaction would be, "What is that brilliant and sexy mind of yours thinking now?"  Once I realized he was serious about this, then, for me at least, the question becomes, "Where is he coming from?  What is his underlying desire and motivation?", as this would be a signifigant departure from the "norm" for us.  If I thought he was interested in seeing just how long I could hold out, and I was in a frame of mind that would allow me to relax into the scenario, I'd oblige, but there wouldn't be a lot of begging, pleading, yada yada.  If I thought he was just trying to get a rise out of me, and I was in an impish mood, I'd stay quiet, and not say a word, until nature took its course.  If I thought he just wanted to try it out and see how we felt about me wetting myself, and we were private, I'd just go ahead and get it over with, relatively soon, and without a lot of drama.  Urinating isn't fatal, after all.  If he did this in public, he'd have his very first mutiny on his hands - and a beaut it would be.
 
Bottom line, as much as possible within who I am, who he is, and what we are, I'd do my best to get into the spirit of things.  Afterward, regardless of how it went, there would be plenty of discussion, which is a good thing, IMO.
 
Grace
 

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RE: Can I write here? - 10/27/2007 10:32:47 PM   
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quote:

I don't know.  I think given the option of begging and crying and pleading (in this scenario), I'd just pee my pants.  Urine washes off.


Speaking as someone who is not into golden showers, associating sex with pee is just not going to work in my mind, and I would be likely to end it as fast as possible.

Being a naturally twitchy person, stopping movement might achieve a similar result, but be far more enjoyable on my part, even if the control is simply being ordered.

Keeping clothes on and not ruining them would also work, provided that I could remove them just long enough to get clean and go to the bathroom.


< Message edited by RosesHaveThorns -- 10/27/2007 10:35:09 PM >

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/27/2007 10:33:47 PM   
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Oooh, placing the scissors just out of reach... good one 

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/27/2007 10:34:17 PM   
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Use all of my focus and meditation techniques and skills to avoid showing my growing discomfort until 1) my bladder couldn't take anymore and releases. 2) Master became bored of the non show.

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/27/2007 10:35:43 PM   
RRafe


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

quote:

ORIGINAL: RRafe

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I started on the bottom-this is nothing at all new to me.  Do you think someone gets this evil-just from being a top?


Hehhee I think it gives folks an advantage when they start as a bottom, or a sub.. you inately know what the sub is feeling and thinking.. and how to apply things to get the greatest effects.

Plus the " I am Uber Dom/me " tends to be toned waaay down.

Gwyn




Uh huh.......I admit to being a bastard at times. I also admit to being -somewhat human. You never forget your first Domme-and how it felt. So when I do things like this now-I do it with those I know-can handle it. I know what a strong sub is-and it's not just saying it-puffing up about that silly 'gift of submission"-I relentlessy cry bullshit on that.
 
Like my profile states-take that crap down the road to the next fool-I do deals with certain outcomes-which means-you know your capabilities-and want what I can offer-no excuses.

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/27/2007 10:36:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

I don't know.  I think given the option of begging and crying and pleading (in this scenario), I'd just pee my pants.  Urine washes off. 


The point is your not allowed to pee at all, thats the restriction - the glued pants is just to keep you aware of the fact.


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RE: Can I write here? - 10/27/2007 10:38:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RosesHaveThorns

quote:

I don't know.  I think given the option of begging and crying and pleading (in this scenario), I'd just pee my pants.  Urine washes off.


Speaking as someone who is not into golden showers, associating sex with pee is just not going to work in my mind, and I would be likely to end it as fast as possible.

Being a naturally twitchy person, stopping movement might achieve a similar result, but be far more enjoyable on my part, even if the control is simply being ordered.

Keeping clothes on and not ruining them would also work, provided that I could remove them just long enough to get clean and go to the bathroom.



It's not about sex at all, at least not to me, it's about submission and control.


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And littered wood of broken days
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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/27/2007 10:38:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ruri

Use all of my focus and meditation techniques and skills to avoid showing my growing discomfort until 1) my bladder couldn't take anymore and releases. 2) Master became bored of the non show.


or tickles you.

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/27/2007 10:39:37 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: RRafe

Scenario-your reactions as a sub to your Top doing this. (hypothetical)

Takes out a hot glue gun, and uses it to glue your pants shut. What would you do?


Keep my lips shut.
 
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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/27/2007 10:42:47 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SixFootMaster

quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

I don't know.  I think given the option of begging and crying and pleading (in this scenario), I'd just pee my pants.  Urine washes off. 


The point is your not allowed to pee at all, thats the restriction - the glued pants is just to keep you aware of the fact.



I'm just no fun in this regard.  Scenes designed with "failure" as the inevitable outcome translate, for me, into "breach of trust".  I'm not saying that it would, in actuallity be a breach of trust or completely unacceptable for other couples to play that way, just saying that for me, it would be somewhere between non-productive and destructive play.
 
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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/27/2007 10:45:03 PM   
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have them drink quite a bit of water just before the glueing. watch said sub squirm as she tried to figure out how to get pants off...


Wet pants dry eventually.
 
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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/27/2007 10:45:20 PM   
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Projecting a submissive response to that from a Master’s heart may suggest a more than passive response.  I confess I did not read past the page of replies so I didn’t get any background but to answer your question, I can tell what I would expect:

”Thank you Master, is there anything else you would like to glue shut?”

Of course, if I were a sub, I’d be a SAM as you see. 

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/27/2007 10:45:54 PM   
RRafe


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ORIGINAL: amelliagrace

Background info:  1.  I'm not totally closed to the idea of watersports (of some varieties, at any rate), but they aren't high on my favorites list, either.  My experience with them is extreeeeeeeeemely limited.   2.  I'm answering this as if it was a real incident, involving my ML.  3.  My ML is never sadistic just for the sake of being sadistic - it just isn't him.
 
My initial reaction would be, "What is that brilliant and sexy mind of yours thinking now?"  Once I realized he was serious about this, then, for me at least, the question becomes, "Where is he coming from?  What is his underlying desire and motivation?", as this would be a signifigant departure from the "norm" for us.  If I thought he was interested in seeing just how long I could hold out, and I was in a frame of mind that would allow me to relax into the scenario, I'd oblige, but there wouldn't be a lot of begging, pleading, yada yada.  If I thought he was just trying to get a rise out of me, and I was in an impish mood, I'd stay quiet, and not say a word, until nature took its course.  If I thought he just wanted to try it out and see how we felt about me wetting myself, and we were private, I'd just go ahead and get it over with, relatively soon, and without a lot of drama.  Urinating isn't fatal, after all.  If he did this in public, he'd have his very first mutiny on his hands - and a beaut it would be.
 
Bottom line, as much as possible within who I am, who he is, and what we are, I'd do my best to get into the spirit of things.  Afterward, regardless of how it went, there would be plenty of discussion, which is a good thing, IMO.
 
Grace
 


Sometimes,we do things purely to see the reactions. Others can be about control-and giving a proverbial boot to the head. Or it can be about intimacy-or all of them.

I crafted this to give a small view, into a world that may differ from your own. Some pennies for thoughts-you imagine of it what you will-and take that away with you.



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