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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 9:12:55 AM   
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ORIGINAL: missturbation

Just because i would not launch an 'assault of sexual enticement' does not make me complacent about it. Sir would see any discomfort i was feeling and know why too. Sir would rather see my discomfort and that i was prepared to withstand it than  have me attempt to worm my way out if it.


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I get it...I really do
that is what works for you two..
 
I was merely saying what works for us..
and that I wasn't talking about flirtin...grinz.

aint life grand ? : )
viva la differ'ance...



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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 9:17:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LonDom61

I'm not gonna even TRY to master quote boxes n stuff yet.  But...

Gwyn & RRafe: starting as bottom/sub...  good on 'ya.  I can see how it'd make you a better, more empathic top/Dom(me).  Sorta like working your way up from the mailroom to president of the company.  Easier, too (fewer steps anyway). 

But...Gwyn: You seem like a very capable Domina, plus pretty & fun & have had good advice in other threads.  But everything you've done as a Top was done TO you as a bottom?  You haven't added ANYthing to the list?  Really? 

Sure, seems like if it included commands to pee on buses, etc, that it was a pretty big list.  But I like to get new ideas from others (ie on fora)...to creATE. 'm just sayin'.




I never said I have not come up with an idea of my own.. trust me.. I am waaaay too warped to have taken all of my cues from some one else. But I would never put a sub through something I have not done, or would not be *willing* to do. It does not mean that exact scene or instance..but sort of thing. If I am not willing to do it.. you will prob. end up dead, or on the front cover of a newspaper if you chose to do it anyway. LOL Not much of a consolation for my poor submissives I fear.

I customize how I scene with each sub of course depending on thier tastes.. and thier stamina for certain games.. and trails. No two are alike... and it takes a lot of imagination to keep them on thier toes and guessing.. plus since they talk to each other.... I really have to be inventive. *big smile*

Thank you for the other compliments though....

Gwyn

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 9:20:48 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ruri

Oh I agree! But a lot of Doms I have talked to don't hold well with the sub laughing during a scene.  It would be nice of the Doms I have met shared my pov on this.



as long as it is a funny ha ha laugh.. and not a bratty one I am totaly down with that.. I actualy go about to break the tension sometimes on purpose by doing silly things to my subs so they will laugh and giggle them selfs silly.

No need to get so damn serious all the time.. or have a stick up your ass.. ick.

Gwyn 

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 9:24:47 AM   
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viva la differ'ance...

Sure is

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 9:46:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		I would think that the first time you tried with the laughter, it would be very scary..."WTF does she want from me?" And probably get extremely confused.

Did that ever happen with your subs, Gwyned?


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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 9:50:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have to say I'm still confused- is the point a mind fuck?  Or hot orgasms?  Both?

I'm not saying I can't be mind fucked, just that this thread sounds like what I hear at some parties with doms talking about how they beat a girl and how big and bad and long her marks lasted.  Yawn. 

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 10:01:00 AM   
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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 10:06:50 AM   
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Feel free to correct Me if I am wrong...but in My opinion the mind fuck is to mess with her mind....not necessarily mess with her body. The two are not always mutually exclusive...but I think that the mind fuck is to mess with her mind (mainly).


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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 10:27:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm thinking or maybe it was Sirs thought lol that stapling the trousers to the sub may be far more fun.
 
Also going on from what LA said about this really not being a mind fuck i have to agree. A mind fuck for me would involve something that plays with my mind such as making me believe i have spiders on my body whilst blindfolded etc.
 
 

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 10:34:00 AM   
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In the spirit of Rafe's OP, I would have to say that I would be very eager to convinve Him to let go pee. If the obvious begging didn't work, (and let me tell you, I can beg very prettily), when the urge got to be such that I was wiggling in discomfort, I would make a point of wiggling on His lap *G* While on His lap, between kisses and wiggles, I would continue begging...I would have absolutely no pride if I thought I would have a chance to avoid the indignity of peeing in my pants. This mind fuck would work very well on me, as I can't imagine anything worse than peeing my pants.

Again, Rafe, you amaze me with your imagination. Kudos!

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 10:58:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		I would squirm, wriggle, writhe; use my hands to show my discomfort...and need of release. I would murmur my gratitude for his creative display of dominance over me...I would beg softly for him to have me...

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 11:31:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yep, kudos to Rrafe for a good concept & good thread.

Noting that, plus the fountain, palpitating with hand...(maybe run the tap or flush a toilet?  Solitudes "babbling brook" CD?; brook wouldn't be the only thing babbling...  Not diuretics, though.  I'm evil, but I don't think I'm that evil   Yet.)

And, separate file: blindfolded & "spiders".  Me likey.  (chuckles evilly)

RRafe: you mentioned you've got a zillion of 'em...??

Gwyn: "But I would never put a sub through something I have not done, or would not be *willing* to do." (italics mine).  Ah, see, that makes all the difference.  I <ahem> stand corrected.

rmanrr: With the psych aspects, playing with the will, etc. I think it's still a mind fuck.  Ancient proverb: "The way to a sub's head, sometimes through her bladder".

subtee:  NICE.  Esp the last line.  Rrrowr.  I'd enjoy it, then I'd cave.  S'okay to cave...isn't it?



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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 11:32:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RRafe


I know-it's one of those love/hate things. Oh, the scowls and drama-during. The stubborn pride-betrayed by the relentless body. I know that she is going to lose, I need only wait.

It's watching the battle between the two-that interests me.

I guess that in a way-it's one of many ways that I rebel against the stereotypes and expectations of a society that sees fit to impose meaningless values on personal relationships-where none need to be.



I wouldn't have a problem with peeing myself if *I* wanted to. I've no problem with pee, full stop.

It's the control aspect; the fact that someone else has decided that's what I'm going to do and that once the belt is snapped shut, the inevitable will happen, no matter what I think, feel or do. It's not a mind-fuck in my case, but it's a torment that makes me partly cross, partly frustrated,partly stubborn, partly amused and partly content.

It's all in the who, why and how.

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 12:54:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		Call ambulance screaming in pain. Sue top for plastic surgery to repair damage. This isn't a mind fuck, it isn't making her fear you are going to do this. It is actually doing something that causes permanent damage.

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 1:34:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

Can't help to think, as i read this thread that being in love is like peeing oneself in white pants.... if feels good and it shows.


Love can be sort of ...funny.........

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 3:42:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RosesHaveThorns

I would think that the first time you tried with the laughter, it would be very scary..."WTF does she want from me?" And probably get extremely confused.

Did that ever happen with your subs, Gwyned?



depends on the laughing or the smile.. there is the sincere smile.. and then the "You are fucked beyond all belief" wicked as Hades smile.

I mentioned on another post that I love to have them strapped down.. incapable of moving or defending themselves.. be all sexy and serious.. straddle them... and...... lick thier nose! Muhahahaha! Nothing throws them off more then that being done .. esp for the first time. *evil giggle*

I cant be serious all the time.. it is just too damn exhausting.

Gwyn

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 3:44:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RRafe

Scenario-your reactions as a sub to your Top doing this. (hypothetical)

Takes out a hot glue gun, and uses it to glue your pants shut. What would you do?


My reactions to that would be to giggle and attempt to pull his glue gun plug out.

My reactions to what my dominant has just done?
To walk away and state no more contact, as hwe crossed a limit and it was a glue gun.

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 3:52:22 PM   
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I was with somebody one time who got to experience the sublime joy of being spanked silly and then having the spanked bottom woken up with a wurtenberg wheel.  Lather.  Rinse.  Repeat.  This also works fairly well with the soup spoon, elk fur combination.

She told me she could not figure out what I was doing when I was downtown, as she knew I did not have a split tongue.  I was torn between whether to share my technique or give her the Sumo Face Of Stone (Shirin-Kao) instead.

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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 4:53:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		Personally, I’d have begged him to keep me out of diapers so that we could share the warmth.  I’d rather straddle him in bed (the well protected bed) and piss against his torso while kissing him deeply, rubbing my groin over his body and begging him to pee on me right back.  But that’s prolly TMI, huh?
 
Sorry,
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RE: Mind fuck reaction. - 10/28/2007 5:20:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Bearlee

Personally, I’d have begged him to keep me out of diapers so that we could share the warmth.  I’d rather straddle him in bed (the well protected bed) and piss against his torso while kissing him deeply, rubbing my groin over his body and begging him to pee on me right back.  But that’s prolly TMI, huh?
 
Sorry,
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TMI or not, it could be considered rather romantic. At least I think so.

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