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RE: what have you done to please your Dom/me - 10/29/2007 1:01:18 PM

slavemaia

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Ha ha - sounds funny, but it's true - learned to obey better.

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RE: what have you done to please your Dom/me - 10/29/2007 1:54:56 PM

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Gave him a bar of soap.

No, really, he had just moved in, and generally takes showers at work(lifeguard) or at the gym. And being a guy (*sighs* Men!) he was using shampoo to wash up.

Of course, since I use his shower I benefit from the prescence of the soap that's not perhaps the best example. However, I do intend to expand upon a lingerie collection, and to get better looking (And fitting, stupid things) bras. If only corsets weren't 70$ each!

I cleaned up my room once. I think the first time I did it when I wasn't moving out in...A very long time >.>.

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RE: what have you done to please your Dom/me - 10/29/2007 2:40:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: writergirl

~FR~

I find it interesting so many who've surprised their doms with body modifications. I think Master would be very upset if I had a mod done without His permission. Not because He has any issues with mods at all (He has a brow piercing Himself and we have talked about my getting a tattoo to symbolize what and who I am), but because my body is His. If I make a mod without His permission, I believe He'd have an issue with that.

I'm not judging anyone who's done it, please understand. I think anything done with the intention of pleasing one's owner/dom is a very nice thing. Just in my case, this particular thing wouldn't fly, I don't think. Maybe I'll ask Him what He thinks about it ;)

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yes, my Dom had given me permission to get any piercings i wanted in His Honor, but to never get a tattoo unless i had His permission... finally in september He finally agreed to let me get a tattoo in His honor for my birthday... which i got on my birthday, but i dont think it was truly appreciated. i was a bit hurt since He didnt even call me on my birthday and didn't know it was my birthday until i saw Him online and told Him i had gotten the tattoo. then i had asked a week later to be released since meeting in real time was no longer a possibility and i needed more.

then this past week-end i had saw Him online and said hello... He said some very very hurtful things to me that really upset me greatly because i was so devoted to Him for over 10 months and still held Him in high regards and had been so happy in serving & pleasing Him and learned so much from Him. but now i wonder if anything i ever did was appreciated or simply amusement for Him.

you all are so lucky to have real-time examples to share!

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RE: what have you done to please your Dom/me - 10/29/2007 8:38:27 PM

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I do the general stuff for Him like clean his house, cook His meals and do His laundry. I love and care for His children when they come to visit. Just this past weekend, He had to work and we were scheduled to move. With the help of a very handy neighbor, I had the entire apartment moved before He got home. Im still feeling the after effects. But the one thing that stands out above all else.. He asked me to give up wearing pants. It sounds silly, but it is by far the hardest thing He has asked me to do. I did so for a few weeks and then He allowed me to wear jeans again this past weekend... since I was moving furnature and all. Back to dresses tomorrow .. but I know he is much more pleased when He sees me dressed as a lady.

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RE: what have you done to please your Dom/me - 10/30/2007 3:39:07 AM

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- I am refraining from shaving my head, even though I have been fascinated with the idea for months now.

- I am crocheting a gigantic (and hideous) blanket to use up all the extra yarn I have so I can neaten up the comptuer room

- I have taken to grooming his dog; a difficult task since the pooch refuses to sit still

- I don't eat garlic around him anymore because the smell makes him ill

- I lay on his side of the bed for a minute or two to warm it up before he lays down (it's starting to get cold here)

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RE: what have you done to please your Dom/me - 10/30/2007 7:48:57 AM

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The thing that most impressed him was the first time he came here, he brought this special brand of mint tea with him. I didn't mention it, but the next time he was here I had a box in the cabinet.

Oh and for years he had this giant mug that held about 24 oz. He broke it a couple of weeks ago so I went online and found another one. I bought him two, one for here and one for work.

It's the small things that add up, day after day.

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RE: what have you done to please your Dom/me - 10/30/2007 2:18:05 PM

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Pulled myself out of a deep (and dark) depression because I knew He needed me to stand and be strong.

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RE: what have you done to please your Dom/me - 10/30/2007 3:36:53 PM

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I give him all the love in my heart. Lots of kissing and hugging an cuddling. Back rubs. Make his coffee the way he likes it and make sure i have the kinda of soda he likes. Mad her brownies quite a few time ( he loves brownies) bought him cream puffs for his birthday last year. Just little things.

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RE: what have you done to please your Dom/me - 10/30/2007 6:47:07 PM

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Yup. James had this plush cthulu and it disapered sometime ago and it made him very sad to have lost it and last month I bought him a replacement cthulu, and I am going to get him some brand new bumper stickers for his new to him car, to replace ones that were on his old dead truck.

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The thing that most impressed him was the first time he came here, he brought this special brand of mint tea with him. I didn't mention it, but the next time he was here I had a box in the cabinet.

Oh and for years he had this giant mug that held about 24 oz. He broke it a couple of weeks ago so I went online and found another one. I bought him two, one for here and one for work.

It's the small things that add up, day after day.

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RE: what have you done to please your Dom/me - 10/31/2007 3:11:45 AM

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Took on his limits which includes female sex and isby far the hardest to accept for a straight lass.

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RE: what have you done to please your Dom/me - 10/31/2007 7:24:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: unsureslave

what thing or things have you done to please your Dom/me? not including the run of the mill sexual service! did you do it on your own because you thought it would please Him/Her or were you told to do it? and most importantly was it appreciated or does it matter if was appreciated?

i'll start... these are things that i did to please my previous online Dom of over 10 months:
~~greatly added to my lingerie, shoe, & lipstick collection
~~set-up a website with my thoughts, pictures, videos, etc as tribute
~~was learning a foreign language
~~had nipple & clit pierced
~~made humiliating videos that repulsed me because He found it erotic and enjoyed them
~~set up a security cam that only He had access to so He could watch at any time whether i knew it or not
~~got large tattoo in His honor on my lower back

Most were my ideas on my own and a few He had planted seeds in mind to want to do... At the time thought it was appreciated, but now not so sure.

Some things off the top o' my head...

I've learned to make her coffee properly.
I've learned how to paint her nails.
I've helped her in the shower.
I've become a -very- willing model for her photos, even if the idea wasn't pleasant at all in the first place.
I'll massage her back when it needs it, even though my technique needs a little work.
I'll brush her hair once she's out of the shower.
I help her with cleaning whenever I can, and I especially enjoy vacuuming for her.
I write a journal for her.
I've learned to become very comfortable naked, which used to be completely outside of my comfort zone.
Also, I snuggle quite nicely. :-p

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RE: what have you done to please your Dom/me - 11/1/2007 4:00:25 AM

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Most of these things are a list of things you have changed about yourself to please your Dom/me which was not at all what I was expecting when I read the title...

Today when he seemed stressed I put my breast in his hand and told him to ahead and squeeze, pretend it was a stress ball. He was pleased

I please him most in two ways, being myself and obeying him. Things like grooming are done under his unstruction, as his coffee preparation, the way I kneel, etc. Of course these things please him, he has instructed me to do it. The one main thing I do of my own volition, and I do it for myself but it pleases him greatly, is blog/journal regularly. Oh and flirt with him, outrageously

He is still a man!

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RE: what have you done to please your Dom/me - 11/1/2007 2:25:49 PM

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Oops, meant to post elsewhere.

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RE: what have you done to please your Dom/me - 11/1/2007 2:36:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: batshalom

Let's see. Tons of stuff. Grew my hair, didn't get another tattoo, took karate, got in better shape, got more rest, did girlie stuff for myself (which I never did learn to enjoy), stopped drinking, saw a therapist, learned to answer questions directly (still have trouble with this sometimes). These are from the past.

For Aba ... mm. Learning to speak Hebrew with an Israeli accent. Learning to write and read Hebrew letters. Still learning to answer questions directly. Learning to ask questions without qualifying them (i.e. "If you don't want to answer, or if it's too personal then you don't have to answer, but ..."), trying to figure out how to stay in Israel longer than 90 days at a time, learning to l-o-v-e pain, learning that I am perfectly acceptable ... there's more but I sure am sleepy and am nodding off at my desk.

I think bettering yourself.. (therapist.. and re-learning how to answer and ask questions directly) as well as learning a whole new language, and going to a differnent country shows a great deal of devotion.

That is simply amazing.

You both are very lucky.

Gwyn

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RE: what have you done to please your Dom/me - 11/1/2007 4:20:35 PM

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Awww some of you did the most romantic things! I'm inspired...

I am in a very new situation so a lot of what I am doing, aside from what he directly asks me to do, involves rearranging my life so that I can be available to please him as much as possible. I cut down on unnecessary hours at my part time job (they really were unnecessary, trust me, I only took them on because of pressure from the boss ;)) so that I will not ever make him feel like I am fitting HIM into MY schedule, it should always be the other way around. I have been wearing my hair down every day because he likes that, and wearing skirts/dresses for his pleasure too. I am also working to overcome my natural shyness with him and others that I talk to, I still get really shy and bashful talking to him sometimes

. It is amazing how much it means to me to please him even at this early point.

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RE: what have you done to please your Dom/me - 11/1/2007 4:30:59 PM

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Took her unmentionables trick or treating.

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RE: what have you done to please your Dom/me - 11/1/2007 4:32:43 PM