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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 5:19:41 AM   
batshalom


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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

LOL no, it would not be unheard of. I think though that the OP did not mean it to sound like it did, which is why I asked for clarification


Nah, I think she hit it right on the head. I could be wrong, of course, but I think she's a new sub and is just now trying to get past all that societal ("being submissive is bad bad bad") training.

I remember it well. Mm. Kind of well. Ok ... so not really so well any more because I keep thinking I'm still 30 which just goes to show you how much ground my advanced decrepitude is gaining.

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 6:11:18 AM   
chellekitty


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Status: offline 		there was a Dom i was with for a short time...didn't work out for whatever reason, but....when we played it was close to the end of the scene when i would call him a "mean ,evil, saidistic, son of a bitch, bastard"....he tried to get me to add "heartless" in there...but i just couldn't...cause he was giving me what i needed...even when he was hurting me...and if it was ever too much he stopped...so, nope...he's not heartless...

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 7:24:06 AM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		Well, if he isn't allowing you to fully void, but only about half, then yes you are courting UTIs. If he's just playing with you but allows you to void fully, no harm done if it takes 5 minutes instead of 2.

I've been known to call him a rat, he just laughs. But I'm not allowed to call him a louse, he doesn't like that. To me they're about the same but to him there's a difference. Go figure.

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 7:36:19 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: SixFootMaster

Being called mean just makes me laugh evily. Mwhahahahaha!


Me too!


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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 7:45:03 AM   
CreativeDominant


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Status: offline 		Hmmmmmmm...mean would be one of the nicer things I've been called.

One submissive found numerous times to use the phrase "evil bastard".

My last submissive was fond of the phrase "wet dom" with the wet standing for Warped, Evil and Twisted. 



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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 8:19:06 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		It is rather similar when someone calls me a bitch. I just smile and say, "Why yes, yes I am." or maybe "You just now figured that out?!?! Kinda slow aren't you?"

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 8:44:09 AM   
amiciaN


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Status: offline 		I call NChaka "Ivol" (pronounced evil).    "Ivol French Master" "Ivol Master", "Ivol Man", "ivol Ivol IVOL Man"... you get the idea.  lol

For us, it's just playfulness and an important part of our relationship.  Master loves to tease me, especially since I'm chronically gullible.  At 47, I'll still fall for the 'spot on my shirt' gag at times.  (No, I'm not stupid, I just don't think that deviously most of the time, so I'm an easy target.)   I've never minded being playfully teased by those I care about and who care about me.  I actually rather enjoy it, because no harm is intended, everyone (including me) is laughing, and I'm getting the attention many of us submissive-types crave.  It's also a way for me to be playful without being 'bratty' or disrespectful.  How seriously can Master take me calling Him 'ivol' when I'm laughing?    Besides, He calls me His ivol lil devil, so it's all good. 

Perhaps the best thing to do in the OP's case would be to have an similar understanding regarding the word 'mean'.


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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 8:46:31 AM   
RRafe


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Status: offline 		Hmmm, I think it's just a tension release. For instance....one might have a girl in the shower. hands cuffed up over her hear-to a ring up by the shower head. She's naked,and has an enema nozzle up her as the warm water is running from the shower down her back. I'm right there by her-and the bag has almost finished emptying into her guts. I take out the nozzle-there is a tiny spurt of water.

She really really does not want to let go-feels inhibited in my close proximity. She scrunches up her face-fighting the water..her ass is probably clenching so hard that it aches. The cramps start. She manages to look at me with this distressed expression.........and whines "I really don;t think I like you very much right now-sir." And an instant later-loses the battle-I just wash the mess down the drain.

A bit later on-when I climb off of her back in the bedroom-done with using the asshole that I just cleaned out-she feels guilty about saying that. I just reply, "Perfectly understandable-it made me laugh-no worries."

"If I were in your postion at that momet *I*would have thought I was a bastard too!!!"

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 8:48:58 AM   
onesweetsubbie


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Status: offline 		Twat Monkey, thank you for making me smile with that name.  Been having a bad day and that lightened it up for me.

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

I call mine a fuckin' asshole, a twat monkey, and a bastard. He laughs and tells me to go his food already, and adds some pet names of his own. I don't think he would care about me telling him he is mean.

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 9:06:47 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		onesweetsubbie. It is the grape juice that is makeing you whine.

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 9:40:49 AM   
junecleaver


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Status: offline 		I call him mean all the time.  Sometimes, he'll push me harder in an attempt to make me scream and curse at him because he likes hearing it.


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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 11:53:10 AM   
subtee


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quote:

ORIGINAL: RRafe

Hmmm, I think it's just a tension release. For instance....one might have a girl in the shower. hands cuffed up over her hear-to a ring up by the shower head. She's naked,and has an enema nozzle up her as the warm water is running from the shower down her back. I'm right there by her-and the bag has almost finished emptying into her guts. I take out the nozzle-there is a tiny spurt of water.

She really really does not want to let go-feels inhibited in my close proximity. She scrunches up her face-fighting the water..her ass is probably clenching so hard that it aches. The cramps start. She manages to look at me with this distressed expression.........and whines "I really don;t think I like you very much right now-sir." And an instant later-loses the battle-I just wash the mess down the drain.

A bit later on-when I climb off of her back in the bedroom-done with using the asshole that I just cleaned out-she feels guilty about saying that. I just reply, "Perfectly understandable-it made me laugh-no worries."

"If I were in your postion at that momet *I*would have thought I was a bastard too!!!"


oh.my.god.

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 12:03:00 PM   
MasterDaveM


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Status: offline 		i dont get into the whole S&M thing. slave and S&M bottom are not the same thing.... s&m is a kink.. master/slave is the dynamic of the relationship

i am not a gentle guy by any stretch... i know this about myself... but i just wasnt one of those "set fire to kittens" kind of kid.

i think too many in the bdsm realm confuse the kink with the entire relationship. ooo that sounds like a thread i should start for discussion.....

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 12:08:31 PM   
chellekitty


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quote:

ORIGINAL: RRafe

Hmmm, I think it's just a tension release. For instance....one might have a girl in the shower. hands cuffed up over her hear-to a ring up by the shower head. She's naked,and has an enema nozzle up her as the warm water is running from the shower down her back. I'm right there by her-and the bag has almost finished emptying into her guts. I take out the nozzle-there is a tiny spurt of water.

She really really does not want to let go-feels inhibited in my close proximity. She scrunches up her face-fighting the water..her ass is probably clenching so hard that it aches. The cramps start. She manages to look at me with this distressed expression.........and whines "I really don;t think I like you very much right now-sir." And an instant later-loses the battle-I just wash the mess down the drain.

A bit later on-when I climb off of her back in the bedroom-done with using the asshole that I just cleaned out-she feels guilty about saying that. I just reply, "Perfectly understandable-it made me laugh-no worries."

"If I were in your postion at that momet *I*would have thought I was a bastard too!!!"


while appreciate the erotica mini-clips....could you go get laid and give my libido a rest....i don't need any help in being horny


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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 1:14:14 PM   
probablyknowme


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Status: offline 		Rafe, you are an evil, mean, sick, twisted, bad guy for turning on all of us subbie types

kat

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 1:15:02 PM   
laurell3


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quote:

ORIGINAL: chellekitty

quote:

ORIGINAL: RRafe

Hmmm, I think it's just a tension release. For instance....one might have a girl in the shower. hands cuffed up over her hear-to a ring up by the shower head. She's naked,and has an enema nozzle up her as the warm water is running from the shower down her back. I'm right there by her-and the bag has almost finished emptying into her guts. I take out the nozzle-there is a tiny spurt of water.

She really really does not want to let go-feels inhibited in my close proximity. She scrunches up her face-fighting the water..her ass is probably clenching so hard that it aches. The cramps start. She manages to look at me with this distressed expression.........and whines "I really don;t think I like you very much right now-sir." And an instant later-loses the battle-I just wash the mess down the drain.

A bit later on-when I climb off of her back in the bedroom-done with using the asshole that I just cleaned out-she feels guilty about saying that. I just reply, "Perfectly understandable-it made me laugh-no worries."

"If I were in your postion at that momet *I*would have thought I was a bastard too!!!"


while appreciate the erotica mini-clips....could you go get laid and give my libido a rest....i don't need any help in being horny



I second that, do us a favor and go get some Rrafe.

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 3:30:25 PM   
CreativeDominant


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Status: offline 		Hmmmmmm...did you ladies ever consider that RRafe just might be indulging his sadistic side by telling a tale such as he did?  Thereby proving that the mean is there all the time?

Now myself...sweet angelic sort that I am...would never talk about the time I used my Serpent's Bite toy ( a fun implement that I made.  For those who have not seen it described, there is a handle with two 26 in. long fiberglass rods set within and the rods are about a half inch apart.  Therefore when brought down on a bare piece of flesh, especially flesh with more substance, it "bites") on a bare ass about 6 hours before her flight took off...til said ass cheeks were marked and quivering and she was telling me about her parentage.  You know, I never knew that about my mom and dad.

Of course, the fact that I made her wear a thin dress and a thong on the 7 hour plane ride home...with her somewhat tender ass against the lovely texture of airline seats...added somewhat to her discomfiture and added to my pleasure is not relevant because as I said in the beginning --- I would never be mean and mention things like this.

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 3:36:56 PM   
LadyLynx


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Status: offline 		Umm, Dave, who is confusing the two? *looks at all the replies, and doesn't see it*

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 3:46:43 PM   
adoracat


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

It is rather similar when someone calls me a bitch. I just smile and say, "Why yes, yes I am." or maybe "You just now figured that out?!?! Kinda slow aren't you?"


miss satan always says "you say this like its a BAD thing" with such the confused look....

kitten, very proud of her grown kid

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 3:48:39 PM   
laurell3


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

Hmmmmmm...did you ladies ever consider that RRafe just might be indulging his sadistic side by telling a tale such as he did?  Thereby proving that the mean is there all the time?

Now myself...sweet angelic sort that I am...would never talk about the time I used my Serpent's Bite toy ( a fun implement that I made.  For those who have not seen it described, there is a handle with two 26 in. long fiberglass rods set within and the rods are about a half inch apart.  Therefore when brought down on a bare piece of flesh, especially flesh with more substance, it "bites") on a bare ass about 6 hours before her flight took off...til said ass cheeks were marked and quivering and she was telling me about her parentage.  You know, I never knew that about my mom and dad.

Of course, the fact that I made her wear a thin dress and a thong on the 7 hour plane ride home...with her somewhat tender ass against the lovely texture of airline seats...added somewhat to her discomfiture and added to my pleasure is not relevant because as I said in the beginning --- I would never be mean and mention things like this.


bet that made you frustrated too now didn't it?

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