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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 4:03:36 PM

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Twat Monkey, thank you for making me smile with that name. Been having a bad day and that lightened it up for me.

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I call mine a fuckin' asshole, a twat monkey, and a bastard. He laughs and tells me to go his food already, and adds some pet names of his own. I don't think he would care about me telling him he is mean.

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 7:14:01 PM

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Now myself...sweet angelic sort that I am...would never talk about the time I used my Serpent's Bite toy ( a fun implement that I made. For those who have not seen it described, there is a handle with two 26 in. long fiberglass rods set within and the rods are about a half inch apart. Therefore when brought down on a bare piece of flesh, especially flesh with more substance, it "bites") on a bare ass about 6 hours before her flight took off...til said ass cheeks were marked and quivering and she was telling me about her parentage. You know, I never knew that about my mom and dad.

Of course, the fact that I made her wear a thin dress and a thong on the 7 hour plane ride home...with her somewhat tender ass against the lovely texture of airline seats...added somewhat to her discomfiture and added to my pleasure is not relevant because as I said in the beginning --- I would never be mean and mention things like this.

Noooooooooo...You're not mean. I believe I have characterized You as "devilish." Ummm hmmmm.

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 7:20:09 PM

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Like previously stated ask him to be sure. He might like it, he might get off on it. He is testing you really to make sure that he can control you and that you are really willing to give up that control. Decide if he is too strict for you. I personally like his style ... I would never call him mean, but thats just me. Eventually your feelings of privacy will diminish if you allow them to.
Good luck and enjoy

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 7:27:53 PM

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as a true sub this slave would never call her Master mean, she is after all here for his pleasure and to serve him in any way he desires, Master brings slave to the edge of ecstacy and then tells her not to touch until he has time for her again for this slave it is torture but my Master needs to know he can trust girl to do exactly as he says and she will obey even in this the most frustrating of circumstances. a slave needs no privacy her Master is her being and should know all things about her at all times, this slave is glad she has found a good Master and wishes it could be so for all slaves. slave<subkitten55>

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 7:39:26 PM

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Hmmm, I think it's just a tension release. For instance....one might have a girl in the shower. hands cuffed up over her hear-to a ring up by the shower head. She's naked,and has an enema nozzle up her as the warm water is running from the shower down her back. I'm right there by her-and the bag has almost finished emptying into her guts. I take out the nozzle-there is a tiny spurt of water.

She really really does not want to let go-feels inhibited in my close proximity. She scrunches up her face-fighting the water..her ass is probably clenching so hard that it aches. The cramps start. She manages to look at me with this distressed expression.........and whines "I really don;t think I like you very much right now-sir." And an instant later-loses the battle-I just wash the mess down the drain.

A bit later on-when I climb off of her back in the bedroom-done with using the asshole that I just cleaned out-she feels guilty about saying that. I just reply, "Perfectly understandable-it made me laugh-no worries."

"If I were in your postion at that momet *I*would have thought I was a bastard too!!!"

while appreciate the erotica mini-clips....could you go get laid and give my libido a rest....i don't need any help in being horny

I second that, do us a favor and go get some Rrafe.

I get worse-not better.

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 8:19:38 PM

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It's like me touching my brother's trick flash light knowing that turning it on would shock me. I was willing to do it cause once in a while I will be a willing fool to a joke for people I care about.

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I've never minded being playfully teased by those I care about and who care about me. I actually rather enjoy it, because no harm is intended, everyone (including me) is laughing,

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 8:33:44 PM

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Every time I call my Master mean, He just smiles and says "I know it."....lol

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 9:32:52 PM

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I get called mean a lot. I just laugh and say "Damn straight!". Being an older brother I had lots and lots of practice at being mean

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 9:46:22 PM

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Thank you to everyone who has responded. You have made me smile, laugh, think and most importantly made me realize it is okay to call him mean. i did ask him about it and he doesnt mind it at all for he knows that i am truly enjoying myself and calling him mean is just part of me enjoying it. Besides it is the worse thing I could call him since i don't swear, but perhaps i can think of some of the other names people used here

Again thank you everyone i appreciate the responses.

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/29/2007 11:27:49 PM

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It sort of takes the pressure off of admitting you enjoyed it

This sentence is the crux of the post, in my opinion, and would make a much more interesting question to ask yourself. WHY can you not give yourself permission to enjoy what it is that you enjoy, if it harms no one?

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/30/2007 9:03:09 AM

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Yes you are right MasterFireMaam that the question is a more intresting one to ask myself and i wish i could sit here and say i do not know the answer, but honestly if i thought about it i do know the answer.

On the surface it is very simple, i personally think it is cute to call him mean and it is sort of like teasing him, without really pushing any limit of teasing or crossing any lines. On a deeper level calling Sir mean is like a security blanket. Yes i enjoy it and if asked point blank i will admit to enjoying it, but it is easier to call him mean.

It is easier because i still hold onto fears from the past when i was pushed too far and ended up hurt on many levels. i use to be with someone and because i liked something it was lets push it to see how far you can take it. i wanted to please him so i allowed myself to be pushed too far and i do take responsiblity for that. It took time to heal from it and for years I kept my submissiveness hidden and behind walls for i feared i again would not be able to stop myself and pull back if it got to be too much. i had to relearn to trust myself and learn how to find my voice and being comfortable in stopping something if it gets too be too much. It is something i continue to work on now, but at least i am learning to let my walls down and be what is natural to me and not fight what i am.

so i guess in the end the calling Sir mean gives me soemthing to hang on to, for now, that allows me to adjust to become more comfortable and to let some of the insecurities and fears down.

Probably way more personal then should be on the boards, but i was not sure of any other way to answer the question besides ignore it.

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/30/2007 9:20:53 AM

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When I got told I was mean during the little scene I was outlining-I was pushing her bondaries-very hard. And I was being a total bastard-because I'm like that. I like forcing a sub to surrender control to me. I like watching the confusion and struggle-as thier options dwindle to only one-mine.

I was playing with her cunt and nipples while she was trying to keep from humiliating herself.

Totally fucking with her ability to concentrate on keeping her prescious control to herself. The things I was whispering to her while I ran my hands over her wet-writhing body-were not nice.

That resistance was futile-and I was really going to enjoy what was about to happen-at any moment. That's when she said what she did. I think she would have just burst into tears totherwise-which would have been the final straw for her. It let her hold on to the last shred of dignity in that situation.

So did I mind? Of course not.

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/30/2007 9:26:29 AM

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there's times when i say something like "you like being mean to me, or your so mean to me" but its in the playful sense and my Owner just laughs because He knows it......it's like another little way of saying i luv you to Him but in my own little way....

~meticulous~

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/30/2007 9:29:31 AM

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Hmmmmmm...did you ladies ever consider that RRafe just might be indulging his sadistic side by telling a tale such as he did? Thereby proving that the mean is there all the time?

Hehehehehehhhhhhhh. Man, ya just gotta love thought sadists.

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/30/2007 9:37:54 AM

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Hmmmmmm...did you ladies ever consider that RRafe just might be indulging his sadistic side by telling a tale such as he did? Thereby proving that the mean is there all the time?

Hehehehehehhhhhhhh. Man, ya just gotta love thought sadists.

Damn, I hate it when they catch on. I hope the Tops of all of the bitchers have been reading this.

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/30/2007 9:53:24 AM

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~big grin~

I hope mine has, at any rate. He'll thank you for making me so ... mm ... responsive. ~rummaging through the medicine cabinet~

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/30/2007 10:03:47 AM

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And by the way? The scene was real. And I'd do it again, with just as much satisfaction.

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/30/2007 10:08:51 AM

subtee

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Oh, oh, oh. That's all I got...oh!

~goes to take a shower, finds it's now a paradox!~

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/30/2007 10:10:31 AM

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Oh, oh, oh. That's all I got...oh!

~goes to take a shower, finds it's now a paradox!~

It all washes down.

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RE: Calling Sir or Master mean - 10/30/2007 10:12:40 AM

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I'm thinking even a cold shower is going to be um, impotent, for its intended purpose, now.

god, you're mean...

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