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ORIGINAL: BrokenSaint

Totally agree there. Most people would be pretty antsy about calling someone right away. Phone numbers can give you a line on their address, which can provide a whole big mess more of information about someone. That and the potential for social engineering other information out of someone is always there.

Though I do agree to a certain extent that voice to voice communication is a better way to get to know someone. Having done my fair share of online gaming, you simply don't get to know someone as well without it. A voice adds a bit of personable contact that furthers a relationship a bit more I feel. I would suggest that you invest in broadband and a microphone, and advise people looking to contact you to do the same. This way you can still get voice communication over the net through ymess, aim, ventrilo, teamspeak or something similar, without the concerns of unwittingly divulging other personal information.

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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

honestly, you mostly questioned a lot and presented nothing worthwhile that woudn't stop me from passing by your profile.

good luck, junior

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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

yes it's mundane - nothing about you attracted me (even if i was looking).

for someone who is a young dominant, what do you have to really offer a submissive/slave who is my age?  what if she has UMs ...munchkins? some of us older submissives are single but come with attachments - something you should seriously think about.

if you don't care about height/weight, then why even mention you want height/weight proportioned? i would automatically exclude you just for that (besides your age)

and lastly, mentioning you're not looking for a commitment earns you an automatic block from someone like me because from my pov you're only here to chase skirts. most older submissives are looking for someone who's about their age or older and seeks something more than a one-nighter.

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ORIGINAL: Celeste43

That whole emphasis on a picture is a turn off. There are a great many people, male and female, who won't send out pics until it looks like there's enough of a connection to meet. You may not have anything to lose by being outed, but others do. Teachers, single parents, Girl Scout Troop leaders.

And myself, I find it odd that you're seeking a play partner only yet without a relationship beyond that, you also think you have the right to give her orders and demand service. For me, play only is fine, but I reserve submission for my dominant who is not just a play partner. I get the feeling you want all of the priveleges and none of the responsibilities that come with the job.