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URASSISMINE85 -> HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/30/2007 1:58:13 PM)

I am new to this lifestyle, still learning the ropes you could say. Always willing to learn from persons with more experience!Any advice is welcomed!



mnottertail -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/30/2007 1:59:33 PM)

Lose the caps.......it aint gonna help you any.

Ron



MDTopCouple -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/30/2007 2:06:19 PM)

1. Welcome to the Collarme and BDSM community.
2. I agree about the caps.  It makes it appear as though you are SHOUTING!
3.  The last sentence in your profile can be seen as negative and possibly aggressive.  I would suggest changing it.  Also, the word is spelled "benefit"
 
Happy searching,
Daisy



URASSISMINE85 -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/30/2007 2:40:58 PM)

Thanks, didn't look at it that way.



Estring -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/30/2007 6:45:19 PM)

Not real knocked out by your profile name either.



Squeakers -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/30/2007 6:48:27 PM)

Loved the picture [:)]    You like Jazz and there is something definately right with Jazz lovers.      A very non arrogant profile, that works.    If I weren't so old and were seeking---I'd put the profile on the top ten list.  



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/30/2007 7:02:02 PM)

honestly, you mostly questioned a lot and presented nothing worthwhile that woudn't stop me from passing by your profile.

good luck, junior



MistressHolly71 -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/30/2007 7:13:17 PM)

In your journal, you say "After 1st message, send a phone number and best time to call. I've found this the best way to get to who I want. If you can't do that MOVE ON!"  Most women that I know would not be comfortable with under any circumstance.  It's too easy to use a phone number to get other information like an address. You might be scaring off a lot of potential slaves.



BrokenSaint -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/30/2007 7:42:25 PM)

Totally agree there. Most people would be pretty antsy about calling someone right away. Phone numbers can give you a line on their address, which can provide a whole big mess more of information about someone. That and the potential for social engineering other information out of someone is always there.

Though I do agree to a certain extent that voice to voice communication is a better way to get to know someone. Having done my fair share of online gaming, you simply don't get to know someone as well without it. A voice adds a bit of personable contact that furthers a relationship a bit more I feel. I would suggest that you invest in broadband and a microphone, and advise people looking to contact you to do the same. This way you can still get voice communication over the net through ymess, aim, ventrilo, teamspeak or something similar, without the concerns of unwittingly divulging other personal information.



URASSISMINE85 -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/31/2007 3:19:17 AM)

hmm, thanks!



URASSISMINE85 -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/31/2007 3:22:56 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BrokenSaint

Totally agree there. Most people would be pretty antsy about calling someone right away. Phone numbers can give you a line on their address, which can provide a whole big mess more of information about someone. That and the potential for social engineering other information out of someone is always there.

Though I do agree to a certain extent that voice to voice communication is a better way to get to know someone. Having done my fair share of online gaming, you simply don't get to know someone as well without it. A voice adds a bit of personable contact that furthers a relationship a bit more I feel. I would suggest that you invest in broadband and a microphone, and advise people looking to contact you to do the same. This way you can still get voice communication over the net through ymess, aim, ventrilo, teamspeak or something similar, without the concerns of unwittingly divulging other personal information.


I'll have to look into that, it sounds promising



MissMagnolia -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/31/2007 3:24:08 AM)

common certicy........................common courtesy?  Apart from that, you've obviously changed some things and it looks ok.

Good luck[:)]



URASSISMINE85 -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/31/2007 3:31:23 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

honestly, you mostly questioned a lot and presented nothing worthwhile that woudn't stop me from passing by your profile.

good luck, junior



hmm, so your saying my profile is mundane? what kind of things would catch a person like yourself's eye i wounder?



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/31/2007 5:00:15 AM)

yes it's mundane - nothing about you attracted me (even if i was looking).

for someone who is a young dominant, what do you have to really offer a submissive/slave who is my age?  what if she has UMs ...munchkins? some of us older submissives are single but come with attachments - something you should seriously think about.

if you don't care about height/weight, then why even mention you want height/weight proportioned? i would automatically exclude you just for that (besides your age)

and lastly, mentioning you're not looking for a commitment earns you an automatic block from someone like me because from my pov you're only here to chase skirts. most older submissives are looking for someone who's about their age or older and seeks something more than a one-nighter.





Celeste43 -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/31/2007 6:01:00 AM)

That whole emphasis on a picture is a turn off. There are a great many people, male and female, who won't send out pics until it looks like there's enough of a connection to meet. You may not have anything to lose by being outed, but others do. Teachers, single parents, Girl Scout Troop leaders.

And myself, I find it odd that you're seeking a play partner only yet without a relationship beyond that, you also think you have the right to give her orders and demand service. For me, play only is fine, but I reserve submission for my dominant who is not just a play partner. I get the feeling you want all of the priveleges and none of the responsibilities that come with the job.



URASSISMINE85 -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/31/2007 6:07:34 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

yes it's mundane - nothing about you attracted me (even if i was looking).

for someone who is a young dominant, what do you have to really offer a submissive/slave who is my age?  what if she has UMs ...munchkins? some of us older submissives are single but come with attachments - something you should seriously think about.

if you don't care about height/weight, then why even mention you want height/weight proportioned? i would automatically exclude you just for that (besides your age)

and lastly, mentioning you're not looking for a commitment earns you an automatic block from someone like me because from my pov you're only here to chase skirts. most older submissives are looking for someone who's about their age or older and seeks something more than a one-nighter.





hmm, thanks for that insite.. your very helpful, cause i am truly interested in exploring this lifestyle and no i never was looking for a one night stand, i'm a athlete dont need to be on here for that. I'm here to understand this side of myself because i've been interested in the whole concept of the lifestyle not just the sexual.



URASSISMINE85 -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/31/2007 6:19:42 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Celeste43

That whole emphasis on a picture is a turn off. There are a great many people, male and female, who won't send out pics until it looks like there's enough of a connection to meet. You may not have anything to lose by being outed, but others do. Teachers, single parents, Girl Scout Troop leaders.

And myself, I find it odd that you're seeking a play partner only yet without a relationship beyond that, you also think you have the right to give her orders and demand service. For me, play only is fine, but I reserve submission for my dominant who is not just a play partner. I get the feeling you want all of the priveleges and none of the responsibilities that come with the job.


i completely understand that fact about the pics, and have no problem with that...but would'nt you like to know who your dealing with? if you dont feel like i'm trustworthy then we could put that off until you do, but im not meeting up with anyone, whom i can't even see what they look like! 



biracalsub4wmDom -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/31/2007 6:23:58 AM)

I'd do you!  lol



batshalom -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/31/2007 6:44:29 AM)

Hey! Great profile!! ~smiling~ And handsome to boot. Well. Ladies, we may just get to sit back and watch the girlies fight over this one.



laurell3 -> RE: HOW'S MY PROFILE? (10/31/2007 6:57:50 AM)

Honestly your demand for pictures and phone numbers is somewhat ignorant of how volitile and potentially dangerous having an ad on these sites can be.  I won't give you a pic for quite awhile, I don't know you from Adam and my profession demands that I remain discrete and yes, for those of you constantly flaming me for it, hidden.  I sure as hell am not going to give you my phone number after talking to you once any more than I would some vanilla guy I met at the grocery store.  Does that make me any less "real"?  No, it makes me protective of myself and my life.  Sorry, you really are going to have to take the time to get to know people before having expectations and demands of them, that's just how it works.


Other than that, I like your profile and great pic!  Welcome to the wacky world of CM.
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