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RE: Under consideration... - 10/31/2007 5:47:16 PM

susie

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ORIGINAL: tootsiepop

xaria,

Thank you... perfectly said and in a supportive way. I appreciate that more than even the advice. But mostly, yes, it is what W/we think that matters.

As for some points from others... I have learned that looks don't matter to me. Yes, it's true. There are some of us that know such things are not so important as what is on the inside. As for 'owned' the TSR doesn't have an option for under consideration (options were stated above)... so how else to pull Yourself out of the loop and still be available to friends? How else to make clear that You are not available so that even the dimwits can understand? Trust me... owned was not enough. And for some collared wouldn't do it, I'm sure. Dead might stop them but not ALL of them.

Again, thank you all for your support... and others for their 2 cents. But for me, I'm done with this one.

The question is why use TSR at all at this point. Were you already registered there or have you registered since "meeting" this Dom?

I think there are a lot of people would agree that looks are not as important as what is inside but there still needs to be a connection with someone for relationships to work. I chatted to a number of people when I was searching and there were a couple that I got on with really well online and on the phone. When we met for the first time there was just no "spark".
Agreeing to be owned by someone before even meeting them is a little "cart before the horse"

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RE: Under consideration... - 10/31/2007 6:02:11 PM

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Agreeing to be owned by someone before even meeting them is a little "cart before the horse"

Well there is the possibility he stinks and is a lousy kisser. Can't tell that on-line.

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RE: Under consideration... - 10/31/2007 9:11:19 PM

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For instance, with my Dom, no i'm not going to put his name or nic on my profile and vice versa with him. It's just not something we're comfortable with, or at least i'm not.
But i would talk with him and see what he has to say. Best of luck

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RE: Under consideration... - 10/31/2007 9:43:00 PM

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Sticking to the original question....I don't think it's odd at all to not mention each other by name in your profiles. You are both individuals, your profiles are expressions of your selves. To me it seems sufficient to state that you are owned or unavailable or however you decide to phrase it.

The committing to ownership before actually meeting, well that's a different conversation.

I wish you the best.

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RE: Under consideration... - 11/1/2007 4:12:42 AM

xaria

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Greetings tootsiepop,

You are most welcome. :) i am pleased that i could be of help. i do understand about the options thing. i go there, too. i have not met my Master yet, but most wouldn't understand my relationship. It's not their place to do so. i believe fully in "each to their own" and hope that it catches on more than it has. i have plans on meeting my Master, but money and other circumstances haven't allowed for the trip. Once those are sorted, i will be able to be at His feet.

He and i just can't help that we're so far away and just happened to fall madly for each other. i also can't help that my sister-slave and i are eager to get to see each other, not to mention gang up on Master playfully (obviously for as long as He allows *peeks around and smiles sweetly to Him*). Hehe...ahems...He sees all, i better be good! Anyway, good luck with everything. :)

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RE: Under consideration... - 11/1/2007 9:57:00 AM

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I only had one submissive ever use my name on her profile. That was because of the HGN mail she was recieving. Why worry about using his name if your in a non commited relationship.

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