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RE: Flipped your.. Switch? - 2/10/2008 2:03:29 PM

chamberqueen

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I have been a Mistress and found that I simply wasn't sexually stimulated by my subs. I took a good look deep inside and started looking for a Dom. I found one that is a perfect match for me. He loves that he has a Mistress slave, and I love how he makes me feel. I continue being a Mistress, but He is the one that makes me truly feel alive.

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RE: Flipped your.. Switch? - 2/11/2008 4:12:13 PM

Dmon

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ORIGINAL: arayofsunshine55

I consider myself human. I really don't fit into anyone's buckets. This isn't about my personality. For me it's all more nuanced. And no I don't consider switch to be a "demotion". And don't give a fuck about others who do. the world is too full of narrow-minded box fillers for me to care about their perception of my life and choices.

There is somthing to be said about this. I don't like to fit my personality into any one role either. More like I have a life that consists of many roles, both out of necessity and choice. I really think that the only true requirement to being able to call your self a Switch, is that you don't claim any one role. Outside of that, it's different for everyone.

Yes I've met many who call a Switch "confused" or that it is a "Demotion". I've also found out that too many people are inscure in there own role to believe that anyone could be without a role.

But there are those who are excepting of something they might not understand. Those who are willing to look outside of the box. Tanya, the very fact that you have been topped and enjoyed it, makes you a switch in your own way. If you can wear that tittle with pride, go ahead. If not, stick to calling your self a Domme. It really doesn't matter how many you dom or how many you sub to. In the end, being a switch it different for everyone.

Hope my 2 cents helped

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