jadedserendipity
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Joined: 10/12/2007 Status: offline
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Assuming this is just a man in general I think all the things I seek in a dom kinda apply so here we go....... Someone who will teach me, care for me, love me unconditionally, I do not seek a pushover as I am bratty and willfull at times and know that I need someone who will not be afraid to stand up to me and let me know when I have crossed the line, but will also know that once it is over, it is over I do not wish someone who shall hold my mistakes and faults over my head..... I seek a peaceful simplistic man not one who screams or freaks out.... I tend to shut down when yelled at.... I want someone who realizes that my submission to him is a gift and it is not required it is something I wish him to have..... I would like anyone looking at me as a potential submissive to understand that I am not, nor do I ever intend to be a doormat.... I have opinions and thoughts of my own and I want a Dom who realizes this.... I am not saying that what I say should be how it goes etc, however I want a Dom who will take my feelings into consideration.... I hope to find a Dom who does not think that I am to be his punching bag or His enemy for that matter..... I do not wish to find a man who desires someone to beat just because I am a masochist.... I want someone who is interested in a 24/7 relationship, I would be overjoyed to find a life partner I suppose that is in fact what I seek, and in the end I want a TPE relationship I want to know what is expected of me I want consistency. I need to know what to expect from my Dom, to know that he will not disappear just because I am not perfect.... And above all I suppose I need him to know that I am not perfect but that I try my very best to be exactly what he wants..... Okay so I still threw in Dom rather than man or any other idiom mostly because in a man I seek a dom....... Okay so I suppose I am all done now, maybe this will help you delve deeper into the psyche's of women......
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-:Anias Nin:- I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.
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