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Prinsexx -> RE: Why do leather Masters/Daddies always want multiple partners? & more questions sure to upset!!!! (11/3/2007 12:41:45 PM)

In reply to Houdini

I am not a leatherman. I am not a man. But I so admire Jack Rinella: for me he is a Master writer, an extraordinary activist and such a clear thinker that I read him to help me with my growth as a female switch.
I found this and I am amazed at it's clarity; (There are writings on just about everything I have pondered on. So much for my post-modern feminism.
http://www.leatherviews.com/aboutJack/jacksad2.htm  

EXPECTATIONS and REGULATIONS
Concerning
VOLUNTARY SERVITUDE

This document sets out the ramifications of surrendering one's life to Mastery. After reading it you will have a fairly good sense of what to expect. It doesn't mean you shouldn't ask questions and get clarification.
PREREQUISITES
The onset of slavery begins once several conditions have been met. As shown here, they are sine qua non, that is without them, Voluntary Servitude can not proceed.
The slave will demonstrate full knowledge of the ramifications of surrender and will accept the conditions of such without reservation or hesitation. It must be perfectly clear to both parties that it is a free, informed, and adult choice to enter into the relationship of voluntary servitude (henceforth referred to as "slavery").

Submission to this lifestyle under the dominance and control of a Master must be a free choice entered into by the slave without coercion or deceit.
The Master will do his best to clarify the meaning, implications, and impact of slavery. On the slave's part, he must be willing to allow full knowledge of his person to his Master. This demands an open-openness and intimacy on the slave's part so that control over him can be complete, informed, and in the best interests of the Master.There needs to be a trial period of slavery to insure full understanding of the Master's conditions, requirements, and expectations. The Master will use this trial time to evaluate at close range the slave's appropriateness, motivations, and attitude.Throughout the slave's subjugation, he will demonstrate the following characteristics:

-- an eagerness to learn what is expected of him as slave and to fulfill those expectations.
-- an attitude that demonstrates the need and desire to be dominated.
-- a response to the Master's commands, suggestions, and desires that proves his desire to please, serve, and live in a way that will meet the Master's conditions.
The Master will provide for the slave's needs out of the slave's present and future resources and income. This provision will be according to the Master's allocation, not the slave's.

GENERAL PRINCIPLES
The rules of service may be summarized by four core statements defining the slave's position:
Respect at all times.Surrender of physical control over all parts of the slave's body.The acceptance of discipline willingly.The attitude of thankfulness for whatever attention is bestowed by the Master. The following pages expand these rules and apply them to the definition of a complete lifestyle. First, though, you should know what to expect from me.

THE MASTER'S RESPONSIBILITIES


1.      He will respect the slave's need to fulfill certain obligations inherent in life, e.g., issues of health, nutrition, family obligations, occupation, finances, etc. Once slavery is begun, decisions in matters such as these will be made by the Master, not by the slave. For obvious reasons they may have the appearance of being the slave's decisions.

Since the slave has chosen to be controlled, the Master's decisions will be the slave's decisions in a very real (albeit indirect) way. As necessary, the Master may include the slave in the decision making process, but only with the recognition that the slave's role will be one of advice, not direction, nor will it involve the slave in reclaiming decision-making authority for himself, except when specifically granted by the Master.


2.      Once the slave is the Master's property, the Master will be responsible to keep him as healthy as possible. The Master will want to keep his property at full value and so will not command or treat the slave in a way that jeopardizes or diminishes his value. A healthy slave is a valuable one.
 




WillowRain -> RE: Why do leather Masters/Daddies always want multiple partners? & more questions sure to upset!!!! (11/3/2007 1:33:34 PM)

Houdini, thank the Gods, you only have to find one person to be your Daddy, and amongst all of those that don't suit you or match to you, there will be some who will, and you only need one of those.

Good luck. It's not an easy quest for anyone, on either side of the dynamic.




HOUDINI1961 -> RE: Why do leather Masters/Daddies always want multiple partners? & more questions sure to upset!!!! (11/3/2007 3:17:52 PM)

hmmmmm, you know, you are kind of right about that. it's the freaky guys covered in tats, pierced bodyparts and skinheads that make my "willie" quiver. so i know it is even harder to find that on the exterior and the more mannered, responsible on the interior.

i've have met though over the years, guys with of tats that were really nice guys inside.

as far as dressing up to meet a "classier" guy, not sure about that one. i live in florida, everyone is pretty casual but yes, i do "clean up" rather well. i'm just really a kid at heart, hence the need for guidance and control from a leather Daddy/MASTER.

i do have another whole issue along those lines but i'll save that for another subject post.




HOUDINI1961 -> RE: Why do leather Masters/Daddies always want multiple partners? & more questions sure to upset!!!! (11/3/2007 3:25:54 PM)

wow, very nice post PAIROFDIMES. yes you are right have to avoid being resentful.

i did fall in love with a vanilla guy and yes his perception of me turned into something else when he found out about the things i was into. he accused me of being a liar(maybe so, i tried to hide the other kinky side of me), of being addicted to porn(because i beat off online to guys in bondage, etc.?), accused me of "probably" being a slut who goes to the baths(totally far off base on that oneeee).

so just like in the beginning post i talked about trailer parks, he already had a preconceived notion of leather/kink guys being sluts. so i do know what the other side of the coin feels like.

i  am already thinking i may have to adjust the monogamy preference to find what i am looking for. i just have the need to be the #1 special guy, #1 slave or #1 boy.




HOUDINI1961 -> RE: Why do leather Masters/Daddies always want multiple partners? & more questions sure to upset!!!! (11/3/2007 7:25:29 PM)

thanks Prinsexx, very interesting reading, i will read it over again so i can be sure i know what i'm getting myself into.




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