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WantCuck4BBW2Use -> RE: Need advice about a subs vanilla family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 1:59:29 PM)

Wow Gwyn good I am not the only evil bitch in the world when it comes to family :)

True..I just was shocked by the whole thing. Yes I want to go rescue..but I dont even know how to go about that one so I cant..seems like they have him at there house..as of yesterday said he kept crying and screaming that he wanted to be with me. Part of me thinks is this all a lie and some game..the other part thinks I can see where someones overbearing family would think they were insane to move so fast.

Christie



Rover -> RE: Need advice about a subs vanilla family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 2:01:10 PM)

Christie, I'm having a problem taking the entirety of this story very seriously.  Aren't you?
 
John



WantCuck4BBW2Use -> RE: Need advice about a subs vanilla family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 2:02:51 PM)

Yes I am..I wanted to think he was real..but I know it could be someone playing a game.

Christie



toservez -> RE: Need advice about a subs family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 2:04:36 PM)

Does he have your phone number? If they are doing something extreme like this situation I somehow do not think they would just Email you but want to hear the voice of the devil and talk to you.

The more I think about it the more I am willing to bet money this is his way to get out of what he has agreed to. Email seems a little too convenient.



LaTigresse -> RE: Need advice about a subs vanilla family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 2:10:59 PM)

I have to agree with Rover and whomever else said something similar. I am calling bullshit on this story. I give the person weaving it an E for effort and another big nod for creativity, it's definately got a few new twists I've never heard before, but still.....definately bullshit.

The first clue.......he says he is going to move before you have even met?? And if true, scary.

Either way, drop him like the creep/freak he is and move on.



wisteriaV -> RE: Need advice about a subs family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 2:12:20 PM)

Sorry sounds like you got played big time! Master and I know the feeling as well have been through that with other females here on collar me.



grlneedstolearn -> RE: Need advice about a subs family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 2:36:03 PM)

i thought David would be old enough to tell his parents that he wants to move out and what he does isn't so much their business. My parents thought what i did was wrong and unjustified, so i don't talk with them about it anymore. David should be old enough to make his own decisions instead of relying on family. Sure it can be helpful to rely on family, but not in this lifestyle.



MissMagnolia -> RE: Need advice about a subs vanilla family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 2:37:04 PM)

Yes but who told the parents he was into D/s? The cousin told them that he was moving, but did the guy also tell the cousin that he was moving in with a Domme? Why did he need to tell him that bit?

I still maintain it was Professor Plum, in the library, with the candlestick.



WantCuck4BBW2Use -> RE: Need advice about a subs vanilla family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 2:52:06 PM)

He had been staying with various friends this week since the cousin had such a fit. From what I gather they went into his computer and read all the emails and chat logs on yahoo thus finding out about the lifestyle.



ameha21 -> RE: Need advice about a subs family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 3:00:04 PM)

i'm betting he's from the midwest or southeast USA.... He is a grown man, if he wants this, it's HIS business, not theirs. He's in a loving and caring relationship with a woman that he has strong feelings for . My parents too tried to get me to go to church and such when they discovered that i enjoy this lifestyle. But i made it clear to them that i'm a grown man and can and should be able to do what i want. They haven't accepted this lifestyle but they've stopped trying to push me to go to church. If he's not willing to stand up to his family to be with you, then your friends are right, its not worth the hassle. Just move on. Best of luck. 



Squeakers -> RE: Need advice about a subs family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 3:08:48 PM)

    I agree with those who said his story just doesn't sound right.   My advice, send him an email and tell him that you won an award on CM for the best drama post of the month and maybe you can ask the name of the church that allows people to hold family members hostage.   
   Seriously, I  sincerely hope you find some wisdom in the responses you are given and good luck to you.



Puppy4goodHome -> RE: Need advice about a subs vanilla family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 3:15:33 PM)

He needs to make his own decisions and it may be hard for him if his family might not let him ever come home agian could be thinking that might happen but he needs to decide



MissMagnolia -> RE: Need advice about a subs vanilla family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 3:19:27 PM)

OP, from your added post about "the baddies" getting into his computer, it's all bullshit.

Don't you think it's all a little too convenient? And all right before he was going to meet you? Amazing.[8|]



Missokyst -> RE: Need advice about a subs family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 3:21:36 PM)

My only suggestion is that you try to refrain from making a committment until you meet them in person.  Caring.. I do care about my online buddies but it wouldn't bug me to see them go.  I am not emotionally involved.  This guy is not mature enough to handle standing up to his family and definitely not mature enough to meet a love interest he finds online.
Kyst
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ORIGINAL: WantCuck4BBW2Use
 I am at a loss..I cant just move but I want to be with him. My vanilla friends all say let it go..not worth the hassle..but its not that easy once you care about someone. Thoughts or suggestions would be appreciated.

Christie




WantCuck4BBW2Use -> RE: Need advice about a subs vanilla family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 3:23:35 PM)

Yes I know it seems that way..but I also think that someones family is capible of doing something crazy like this. Like I said before I know it could just be someone playing..just wanted others imput. I will just have to leave it alone and see if he contacts me.



MissMagnolia -> RE: Need advice about a subs vanilla family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 3:42:33 PM)

So you're going to wait around for a sub to contact you/not contact you?

If the drama is this bad now, do you think it's going to get any better? You think his alledged family problems will stop?

Hmmmmmmmmm............................[&:]



LadyLynx -> RE: Need advice about a subs vanilla family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 4:11:48 PM)

If he is just playing a game, I wouldn't put it past him to milk the sitution for all it is worth.  Good grief! there is more then enough drama going on, why do people have to create it?



batshalom -> RE: Need advice about a subs vanilla family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 4:38:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: WantCuck4BBW2Use

He had been staying with various friends this week since the cousin had such a fit. From what I gather they went into his computer and read all the emails and chat logs on yahoo thus finding out about the lifestyle.



Ok, now I gotta ~scream~ BS!!! It's all far too convenient, not very original and not even approaching creative.



Hergirl0824 -> RE: Need advice about a subs family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 5:40:54 PM)

ok i am going to have to go with the majority here...reeks of BS....and although i do know of some families and "churches" who would and have done this sort of thing, it is rare...and with the new info you have provided i believe you are looking at a scared little boy who suddenly realized he couldn't handle a real time relationship and is using this as a easy way out...cut your losses hun...you are a Domme...and there are plenty of other fish in the sea



RumpusParable -> RE: Need advice about a subs family and the issues they are causing (11/2/2007 6:06:29 PM)

At this point I'm stating firmly that his entire story is bullshit.  And frankly, from your posts here I'm starting to wonder about yours.



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