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RE: Interested in hypnosis with BDSM, ideas? - 7/26/2009 10:17:48 AM

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As you will only hypnotise women because of your heterosexual nature.... would i be correct in assuming you are more likely to hypnotise women you are quite attracted to rather than the ones you are not? and more likely to hypnotise submissive women than Dommes?

I would be more aroused in so doing and would likely jump at the chance more, but as long as I like their personality and enjoy talking with them, I'll likely very much enjoy hypnotizing that woman, even if I find her less attractive. Although attractiveness does help immensely in letting me get into it, that's for sure. I don't think I'd enjoy hypnotizing a sub more than a Domme, or vice versa, as long as we have an understanding first and they go with that understanding. My hypnosis does NOT have to be D/s driven for me to enjoy it, but a Domme does have to be willing to give up control for that short time if she wishes to be entertained and enjoy the session fully. If something goes against what you're willing to do, take back control, that's fine, as that'd be a part of any agreement I make with a subject. But as long as things stay well within your limits, you give up control for that time. I may enjoy a Domme because she has some hidden desire to submit, which does happen, or I may get annoyed by a Domme because she just can't give up control. Thing is, that happens with subs just as much.

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Submissive women naturally like to please... if a handsome sexy man would like to hypnotise me i might very nicely like to go along with that... yes, if i read sexy books or do cyber i can get into that sex-mind-space... i also ride in my mind the orgasm of my partner... i am open to suggestion...

Then you have a good idea of what I'm talking about. And at that point, the difference in what was asked earlier doesn't matter much, either.

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orgasm from a count 3 to 0 just reminds me of when Harry met Sally... with Meg Ryan doing her famous scene... and i have fooled men so too when it was important for them to make me cum... i faked... yes, it was still some sort of trip... their desire to have me cum so strong i would give them the 'goods' so to speak... but eventually it left me confused... as it was NOT real and not as thoroughly satisfying as a proper physical orgasm feels.

Of course i speak only for myself...

It's a fair point to make. Sometimes you may be right. I also once had a sub who found an orgasm through hypnosis to be amazing, but one from physical contact was better to her. Another didn't notice any difference between one with no contact but suggested contact, and real, full contact. Then there's always the possibility of a woman in person willing to mix the two together...

Finally, over phone/mic, one may never know... although why beg to do it again if it didn't do much for her lol. It happens. Ones I've seen on cam or in person, while it could be possible one is faking, all the stuff that is extremely difficult to act out, like changing your complexion, the intensity of various spasms without over acting (I'm sorry, most either leave those out or overacts them dramatically, in my experience and second-hand knowledge from other stories told to me).

And that scene with Meg Ryan was sexy as hell, even though it was obviously her faking given the context.

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RE: Interested in hypnosis with BDSM, ideas? - 7/26/2009 11:29:54 AM

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ORIGINAL: AmHypnotic

Finally, over phone/mic, one may never know... although why beg to do it again if it didn't do much for her lol. It happens. Ones I've seen on cam or in person, while it could be possible one is faking, all the stuff that is extremely difficult to act out, like changing your complexion, the intensity of various spasms without over acting (I'm sorry, most either leave those out or overacts them dramatically, in my experience and second-hand knowledge from other stories told to me).

And that scene with Meg Ryan was sexy as hell, even though it was obviously her faking given the context.

Some women might come back for more because it is a thrill to engage with a man who desires her so... and that might be what 'does' it for her; the being desired being the main stimulant, acting in a way that will turn you on. Submissives like to please... behave in a way that the Dominant or hypnotist likes to see... having the power to turn another on is sexy on both sides of the coin Sir.

Faking orgasms is not difficult at all... especially not when a woman does it for a man who does not know her intimately and when the man does not have his fingers in her pussy he can not really tell at all. Colour change does not happen with all females and is easily faked as well by straining a bit... and producing cum fluid is not always a given either.
All women are different when they cum as all men are although it is by far not as easy for a guy to fake even though a man can orgasm without ejaculating, it is not usual.

The danger with faking it is that when a lady has started down this route it can be extremely difficult to break the cycle and eventually the faking will not be satisfactory for the woman...
I was in a situation like this for 3 years... needles to say i felt a cheat... and trapped as i could not tell him because that would have been devastating for him... obviously and thankfully eventually our bond was broken and i found a better match... a man who had no problems getting me there for real; the difference is huge no matter how well one can imagine.

I immensely dislike the idea of setting about to make anybody cum on command without any other stimulation... to me is is a very unethical way to go about things and asking for- or creating problems.

In my opinion hypnotism might be used to help a person to relax be more intune and feel their own body more so reaching an orgasm might become easier for them... it should NOT be used to try and force someone to orgasm from 3 to 0... i think that is bad practise.

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