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RE: Does male sub's low sex drive make you feel less do... - 11/9/2007 11:22:05 AM

crxmale

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It's possible that he is intimidated by the power of your Dominance and cannot achieve an erection in your presence .

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RE: Does male sub's low sex drive make you feel less do... - 11/18/2007 8:28:06 PM

foxxgrape

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i crave being submisive with a woman and Her having her way with me; when i go into this sub space, i also seem to turn off my arousal/erection; its not that i dont gain pleasure from submitting, orally serving or anything else she asks but i guess in my mind i equate submission with suspending my male sexuality;
hence i stay soft during most times serving

when im home alone in bed afterwards, i easily obtain erection sometimes with just memory of the session; i cant explain it; it just happens

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RE: Does male sub's low sex drive make you feel less do... - 11/18/2007 8:36:38 PM

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To the OP: With me it's the total control of the person...now I do love to control orgasms as a divine way to torture....lol, but it's a sideline really.

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RE: Does male sub's low sex drive make you feel less do... - 11/19/2007 2:20:39 AM

Aswad

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ORIGINAL: Alecto

Isn't the male sub's sex drive one of the sources of a femdom's power?

Neither a male sub, nor a femdom, but I'll chime in.
His sex drive does not, has not, will not, confer power on you.
His lack of one does not, and cannot, deprive you of any measure of power.
Otherwise, you're just the person who feeds his craving, not the person in charge of him.

Health,
al-Aswad.

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RE: Does male sub's low sex drive make you feel less do... - 11/19/2007 5:59:01 AM

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men are slaves to their libido and women rule men because they have what men build monuments for: vaginas. Men know it and women ::giggles:: know it as well. If men all of a sudden had no sex drive, they wouldnt seek out women as much but they would still crave a woman for her nurture and hugs and support.

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RE: Does male sub's low sex drive make you feel less do... - 12/8/2007 5:21:09 AM

GoddessTeaze

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Hell No, grinz.

I don't need a sub/slave with a hardon to make Me feel more Dominant. I'm Dominant because I'm.

I've had a sub who was 51, and always hard when he spoke to Me.(he was married too) It depends on the sub.

Although I don't want any married subs anymore, because talking about restriction, which makes the subs more submissive, is often ruiend by them having a sexlife with thier wifes. So I'm not going there anymore.

It's always good to have more then one sub *chucklz*

Have a good weekend.

Warm Greetingz

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RE: Does male sub's low sex drive make you feel less do... - 12/8/2007 11:55:13 AM

SylionBinkx

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All the males in my life have high sex drives, but if they had a low sex drive I would not feel a bit less Dom. As long as the male slave is willing to do what I tell him to then the sex drive does not matter to me. I prefer to play then to have sex, but that is just me.

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