Gwynvyd
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I used to watch a show called Queer as Folks, and I thought that show was very popular.
The men on that show always called themselves names like: queer, etc.
Is it that big a deal?
Honestly the word Queer is being reclaimed... I personaly dont like using it with people outside of the GLBT community. It is akin to the N word. It was used in hateful contexts for so long.. and while a good many of us got our heads bashed in.. so yeah some of us are touchy about it.. even some enlightened non GLBT people reconize it is one of those words you really dont use. Now hanging with my mates in a gay bar.. sucking down drinks Instead of calling my ex girlfriend "Megan" I might say.. and I have in the past said " ya big ol dyke, get your ass over here!"
Would that be acceptable for me to do it in Wal-mart no. Would it be acceptable for anyone else to do it who didnt have a really personal relationship with her? Hells no. Just like I would not walk up to a rapper and say "Yo whats up my N" They would think I was out of step.. and rightfuly wanna kick my ass. I think Miss Kittty could have done a hell of a better job at posing her question. Some people want answers.. some like to stir the shit pot.
Here is the diff. of Queer:
The word queer has traditionally meant "strange" or "unusual," but its use in reference to LGBT (gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, intersex, asexual, etc.) communities as well as those perceived to be members of those communities has replaced the traditional definition and application. Its usage is considered controversial and underwent substantial changes over the course of the 20th century with some LGBT re-claiming the term as a means of self-empowerment. The term is still considered by some to be offensive and derisive, and by others as a re-appropriated term used to describe a sexual orientation and/or gender identity or gender expression that does not conform to heteronormative society.
Subsequently, for most of the 20th century, 'queer' was frequently used as a derogatory term for effeminate and/or gay males, and others exhibiting untraditional gender behavior.
Even some Straight people can be concidered Queer.
In contemporary usage, some use queer as an inclusive, unifying sociopolitical umbrella term for people who are gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered, transsexual, intersexual, genderqueer, or of any other non-heterosexual sexuality, sexual anatomy, or gender identity. It can also include asexual and autosexual people, as well as gender normative heterosexuals whose sexual orientations or activities place them outside the heterosexual-defined mainstream (e.g. BDSM practitioners, or polyamorous persons). Queer in this sense (depending on how broadly it is defined) is commonly used as a synonym for such terms as LGBT.
Because of the context in which it was reclaimed, queer has sociopolitical connotations, and is often preferred by those who are activists, by those who strongly reject traditional gender identities, by those who reject distinct sexual identities such as gay, lesbian, bisexual and straight, and by those who see themselves as oppressed by the heteronormativity of the larger culture. In this usage it retains the historical connotation of "outside the bounds of normal society" and can be construed as "breaking the rules for sex and gender." It can be preferred because of its ambiguity, which allows "queer" identifying people to avoid the sometimes strict boundaries that surround other labels. In this context, "queer" is not a synonym for LGBT as it creates a space for "queer" heterosexuals as well as "non-queer" (straight-acting, conformist) homosexuals.
For some queer-identified people, part of the point of the term 'queer' is that it simultaneously builds up and tears down boundaries of identity. For instance, among genderqueer people, who do not solidly identify with one particular gender, once solid gender roles have been torn down, it becomes difficult to situate sexual identity. For some people, the non-specificity of the term is liberating. Queerness becomes a way to simultaneously make a political move against heteronormativity while simultaneously refusing to engage in traditional essentialist identity politics.
Several television shows, including Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, the cartoon Queer Duck and the British and American versions of Queer as Folk, have also used the term in their titles to reinforce their positive self-identification message. This commonplace usage has, especially in the American colloquial culture, has recently led to the more hip and iconic abbreviation "Q".
The term is sometimes capitalized when referring to an identity or community, rather than merely a sexual fact (cf. the capitalized use of Deaf).
Queers Without Borders, a network of queer activists that opposes border regimes while supporting those people oppressed by them.
Queer Mutiny North, a D-I-Y non-hierarchical collective that aims to create politically motivated queer alternatives to the commercial and non-representative gay scene in the north of England.
Cardiff Queer Mutiny, A not-for-profit collective inspired by queer activism/philosophy, DIY punk ethics, creativity, and political activist movements. (These groups put on much more regular activity but are smaller in size.)
So with all of this back ground info and resources posted here....
How many of the folks here.. GLBT or Straight associate themselves as being part of the "Queer community or movement"
Personaly I am an activist.. got my HRC bumper sticker on my ride.. do house parties for them.. and did a launch party for LOGO when they came out ( pun intended) when I was still a Media Whore. I even did speeches for the Florida Gay Caucus. However I have never identified myself as a Queer.. *shrugs*
I guess if one needs labels *sighs*
I am an equal opertunistic pansexual, poly, Domme who is both a Saddist and a Masocist. Artist, mother, costumer, swordswoman, & Total hand slut on the side... ( Love being touched and massages.. rub me.. and I turn to mush. ) ex Media Whore looking for a new way to make a living. Sick of working for The Man... but cant get out from under his yoke because of the benis.
What about you guyz?
Gwyn
< Message edited by Gwynvyd -- 11/4/2007 3:01:50 PM >
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