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RE: A question for all - Mellissande - 11/7/2007 10:58:27 AM

velvetears

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i appreciate your candidness about your relationships and hope that being able to live life openly has brought you more peace between you and your mother. i had an awful relationship with mine, i chose to leave when i was 17 - she didn't agree with or support anything i wanted, ever. She went to her grave resenting me and holding grudges.

What happened to unconditional love... i think i have it for my kids, it's been tested

. i can't think of anything they would do that would. turn me against them.

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RE: A question for all - Mellissande - 11/7/2007 5:52:39 PM

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Unconditional love isn't the same as unconditional relationships.

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RE: A question for all - 11/7/2007 7:55:41 PM

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At 22 I was dating a man who was 42, I was closer to his child's age than his; a few years later I was dating a man in his early/mid 50s [his grandchild was older than my munchkin and his daughters were older than I was]; I told my family, and they were supportive, I got the, 'as long as you are happy and in a healthy relationship we support you,' speach. Even now I still prefer men who are older; men in their late 40s and mid 50s are very attreactive, some men get better with age it seems. Age isn't a big deal, most families in my experience are very supportive as long as YOU are happy; don't make a big deal about the age gap.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/agegap/
http://www.agegap.com

I have been a member of both for years, very supportive, vanilla sites, but still supportive and friendly. They helped me get through a few things I never knew I could. Email me on the other side if you want to talk privately.

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