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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 2:04:07 PM

azropedntied

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Ignore time is the best punishment ! Although if you wish to inflict a painful punsihment kneeling on legos , or a course wecome mat also works . More would be getting tacks or staples and making some vampire foot insoles for her to wear as a reminder .Not enough to stab way into the flesh but more to irritate like tiny pebbles in ones shoes .Diet restrictions also work well , Like the only think you may have to drink is water .If this person is a pure pain slut then get sensual with her instead use nothing but restraint and the ocasional feather then be done .I guess it all depends on the offence , allow the punishment to fit the offence as it were .

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 2:16:24 PM

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As others have mentioned I would have a discussion with her or him to find out if there is a deeper problem. IF there is not deeper mental issue then I would simply place them in a cage and have them watch me play wth another submissive who is also a pain lover. I have no tolerance for bratty subs or topping from the bottom. Ignoring someone is quite an effective punishment if done correctly.

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 2:19:56 PM

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I agree with ignoring her. It sucks to be ignored by someone I love so much...

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 2:23:41 PM

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My suggestion would be to make her read all the threads on young Dom's that don't get any respect.

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 2:37:49 PM

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ouch, SAFEWORD
i knew it would come in handy one day

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 3:22:56 PM

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I have my boy hold his arms stright out holding weights and repeat XX times. I disappointed my Daddy my doing xxxxxxx, I will not do that again.

Mike

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 4:13:02 PM

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just take their toys away lol that always works

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 4:30:44 PM

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Whilst I appreciate some may view this as being fickle over definitions of wording, I do view punishment and correction as two seperate actions....
I define punishment as having no useful outcome on its own........,but; coupled with the use of correction to aim for a positive learning curve any handing out of punishment would involve the punishment either fitting the wrongdoing of the sub/slave or a punishment which exhibited the dangers or negative results of her/his actions and in turn the punishment becomes a positve learning experience for both Dom/me and sub/slave ....rather than just an opportunity to punish because it makes the Dom/me feel better inside.

I agree wholeheartedly with previous comments of talking to try to understand why the negative behaviour was exhibited in the first place but I do feel that random punishment is pointless unless a postive outcome can be achieved other than the principle that punishment will be given if the sub/slave repeats the action....a tad too pavlovian in my mind .

ps.......Apologies for butting in without introduction...Ive been reading these boards for a few months now and just joined to add to this post, would just like to say how much i enjoy the thoughts shared here ....wanders off back to his shy corner

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 5:15:33 PM

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Prinsexx - Didn't mean to scare you there!!! LOL

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 5:44:57 PM

RRafe

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Take away all of her shoes, but the one sensible pair.

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 6:02:37 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RRafe

Take away all of her shoes, but the one sensible pair.

Since all i have are sensible shoes, that wouldn't work for me. But, my Master does take away my prosthetic leg sometimes, not to punish me but, to make me stay put.

It works. i can't crawl or hop very fast or far.

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 6:20:08 PM

Maverick21

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I have ponderded this before, my responce is make sure it is seperate from normal play, and employ psycological punishment. 1) Take away favorite toys, 2) make her hold a pingpong ball against the wall, 3) make her lay down in the middle of a vacant room and leave her there. I find that punishments that do not inflict any feeling at all is the best alternative. Most pain sluts need it as a constant reminder.

The old joke best serves here. When a masochist begs to be hurt. the Sadist says "no"

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 6:22:21 PM

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On the rare occasion that Sir feels a need to punish me, he forbids me to read my books. I LOVE to read so that's an awful punishment.

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 7:03:31 PM

Tacs

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How do you punish a masochist? A new twist on an old theme.

The question you need to ask yourself is; is she an auto-masochist? In other words, she may be a masochist, but does she enjoy inflicting pain upon herself? If the answer is no, then you have your solution. Hand her a rubber slapper and have her beat her own inner thighs with it until they're cherry red.

Some people really like pain, but few enjoy inflicting it on themselves.

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 7:51:18 PM

RRafe

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FR

Make her watch you giving someone else a baeting instead.

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 7:52:49 PM

MistressMie

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I never give punishment unless it necessary, if you think it is, some of my gavorites include kneeling on rice which I find most maso slaves dont like, or corner time, one of my all time favs is dont give them any pain for a week. If your slave loves pain take it away from heror him. Have your slave please you and dont let her or him have any. Just my suggestions

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 7:58:05 PM

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Fast Reply

Must.........

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reading......

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 8:01:36 PM

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Greetings
The trick of course is finding something that punishes her while not punishing yourself at the same time. If you like giving pain and she likes receiving and you withhold such then who is getting punished more? If you like sexual contact and touching and you forego that...well then...you go without as well. To My mind the simple disapproving glance, or phrase "I do not like what you are doing and that disappoints Me...want to try again?"...or "What you have done brings no honor to yourself or to Me"...anything that gets across the point. And there is indeed a difference between good pain and bad pain...I have yet to find it though. heh heh.

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 8:02:38 PM

azropedntied

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Rrafe . Ouch thats harsh , musta been a aweful deed .And joy that is a first for me , talk about your no rope retraints .

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RE: How to punish a masochist ? - 11/4/2007 10:21:32 PM

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Dear Winnowing99, Ladies and Gentlemen;

Few favorites of mine are; hours and hours of having to listen to the Barney's Friend Song; Teletubbies giggles and baby talk.

Having them clean my whips, canes, single tails and other favorite toys of theirs. The touching but no use of them gives them food for thought.

I have also hung all the whips on racks and they have to hold a flat mirror and look backwards. This can be where a dime is held against the wall and a hanging mirror is so they can see the toys hanging but not one is used on them. Extra would be using something greasy on the wall and dime and having only their nose to hold it in a designated circle.

Squat unsupported, barefoot on gravel or fish tank gravel, uncooked rice and or bird seed for approximately 10 minutes so when they stand they are cramped.

Watching another scene, while squatting with weight on their shoulders and thighs, barefoot on bird seed, uncooked rice, fist tank gravel or gravel from the street after washing and boiling.
Extra would be extended arms having to hold buckets and add weight that way; by pouring water in the bucket, adding sand or any other weight source.

Just some thoughts.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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