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deine -> Humiliation (11/6/2007 11:01:58 AM)
What is the appeal of humiliation for you?

slavemaia -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 11:07:18 AM)
It pleases Him.

submittous -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 11:14:44 AM)
Watching her melt down into "slavespace"

MasterMataeo -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 11:14:57 AM)
ummmm.. depends,, on me at the time i gues, lets see,, to humiliate for me ,, bring the knowadge that she is getting something that she secretly desires,, to treat like less than ones worth ,, as nothing or less,, to bring to the surface degridation , a discipline,, a reward,, depends on the slave,, ifyou will i can use it in many ways ,,, and thus the appeal MM

treehugger42 -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 11:24:36 AM)
Because I have a twisted, warped little soul.

batshalom -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 11:38:14 AM)
Turning my head off, doing instead of thinking.

RRafe -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 11:43:14 AM)
Because I like tearing off masks-and seeing what is hiding behind them.

dvart -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 12:18:17 PM)
Because in a vanilla relationship there are often layers and layers of distance, misunderstanding and pretence. But when you are pissing over your slave, that is a kind of reality and closeness.

astarri -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 12:22:18 PM)
Someone opening me up and exposing all the dark little recesses

oreogirl -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 12:24:03 PM)
Because it tears off the masks I hide behind and bares my soul for the world to see.

CreativeDominant -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 12:42:22 PM)
The appeal of humiliation to me comes in many forms...the bringing out of the darkness of her inner self those aspects of her that she has always wanted to indulge and offering her a safe way to do so. The control in the situation. The symbolism of the trust and mental connection...and sometimes emotional connection...that has been built that is expressed in being able to humiliate her and have her enjoy it at a deeper level because of the trust and connection. And, as has been noted before, the way it serves to emphasize the positions within the dynamic. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- There is equality within the inequality...and inequality within the equality

toservez -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 12:43:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: batshalom Turning my head off, doing instead of thinking. Add that plus seeing the enjoyment it brings my Master and it is Yummy big time! A little more serious, humiliation is more mental then say impact play. For me this brings a more active participation to the power manifestation which again for me deepens the reaction within myself and the power manifestation is my number one by a long shot fetish.

bostontwo -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 1:42:06 PM)
Not having anything hidden from my dominant; reinforcing the level of mental control my dominant has over me; experiencing cathartic emotional pain as opposed to cathartic physical pain; generally, it's a more playful interaction with a dominant, good for easing the tension in the middle of scenes. I'm sure there's more, but those are the ones that occur to me immediately.

chellekitty -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 2:02:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submittous Watching her melt down into "slavespace" there is nothing dark or secret or hidden...it is where i no longer have to think about everything else in the world, only about what pleases him and what i can do to continue pleasing him...

DarkDaddyZ -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 2:26:06 PM)
It pops my toaster and it's a sexual fix.

RRafe -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 2:29:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chellekitty quote: ORIGINAL: submittous Watching her melt down into "slavespace" there is nothing dark or secret or hidden...it is where i no longer have to think about everything else in the world, only about what pleases him and what i can do to continue pleasing him... Why did that give me thos horrible vision of a "wicked witch of the west" from the wizard of oz........only the dom is peeing on the sub........"I'm melting, melting, meltinggggggggggggggg...AAAAAAAaaaaaaaa............"

bandit25 -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 2:33:51 PM)
No appeal at all.

CollegeConundrum -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 2:42:24 PM)
The assertion of her dominance and pleasure from my position.

wisteriaV -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 3:04:42 PM)
Appeal of humiliation? If it floats your boat then have at it. To me its nothing more then a negative energy power trip...and it is not for me at all.

junecleaver -> RE: Humiliation (11/6/2007 3:13:32 PM)
I'm not even sure. It's very high energy, which I like. It usually involves a lot of attentionon me, which I definitely like. It also makes me feel very close and 'obsessed' with my Dominant. Like after he's humiliated me, all I want to do is curl up with him and tell him I love him.

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