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Does first being a sub make you a better Dom/Domme?And ... - 7/2/2004 10:27:51 PM   
UrMan


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RE: Does first being a sub make you a better Dom/Domme?... - 7/3/2004 1:20:32 AM   
Estring


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Status: offline 		Since when is compassion considered submissive? I consider myself to be compassionate but not at all submissive.
Maybe you are just becoming a nicer person as you get older. A bit confused still, but nicer.

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RE: Does first being a sub make you a better Dom/Domme?... - 7/7/2004 5:45:04 PM   
UrMan


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Status: offline 		Since when is it considered not ?

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RE: Does first being a sub make you a better Dom/Domme?... - 7/12/2004 2:26:55 PM   
Kiaban


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Status: offline 		I would say definately not.
The bdsm/submissive experience is different for everyone .
an example some like way play or blades or other stuff, and when you factor into that the enjoyment of different kinks...
some perhaps enjoy a "thudding" flogger while others a more "stinging".
so the first part of the argument here is just because something happens to you first and you "feel" a certain way about it doesn't mean its going to effect another person in the same way you have to be intune with them.

I think this is particularly true if we are talking about dom and sub vrs top and bottom.
I for one am going to hate having my hair pulled [well no hair now but you know what I mean] and lots of this I am looking at from a Dominant perspective are not going to effect me they way they will a sub.

Just my 2 cents
Kiaban

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