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sirguym -> RE: Thank you (11/20/2007 2:24:03 AM)
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I believe that I able to claim some real achievements in the real-world BDSM role-play field, having run events here in the UK with my wife that have involved many hundreds or more probably thousands of people in day or days-long 'adult school', 'pony and pet-play', maid, Mistress and slave relationships, over 20 years of activity in the scene, pre-dating the internet.
I still get called a fake and a wannabe, by people for whom I decline to fit the stereotype of the person they are seeking. Or, though I have wide and deep experience in many fields, think that because I don't know as much about their little corner of expertise, I know nothing.
Most of the time, most of the people in this community will be 'on your side'. Certainly the majority on here, who have a life, who are in one or more long-lasting relationships and are secure in themselves. But they won't feel the need to say as much.
But you have to realise that most of the people seeking relationships on this board are failures themselves; either newbies who've not yet succeeded, those who've tried really hard and bnever succeeded, many who've had lots of relationships that never lasted long and so on.
Usually the reasons for not succeeding are pretty obvious to everyone but the person concerned.Failure hurts, it eats into a body. And the last thing many of these people will want to do is to look at themselves, analyse and realise why they're failing and do something about it.
It is much easier to blame others, to turn around and lay the responsibility for their own failures on those other people, because accepting responsibility for themselves and their own failings is really, really gonig to hurt.
So pay them no heed. Be polite and firm in telling them to go away. Then block them.
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