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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

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Diane

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ORIGINAL: CollegeConundrum

I won't come right out and say my interests do not match a woman's, whom I'm trying to contact.  Considering I'm submissive and about pleasing the woman, why should my interests come into play at all?  Yes, there are things I like and if she asks I'll tell her but the core of my satisfaction comes from her satisfaction.

I'm not going to turn-away a woman, who may not be into strapons or forced femme whereas I am, because who knows what I'm turning away?  The woman of my dreams, maybe?  An ultimately compatible woman, who will completely dominate me and own me and I would never have a clue if I didn't bother to email her or answer her email just because she isn't into strapons/

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ORIGINAL: MystressDream
Not that you will care, or that it matters one way or the other, but this is the first post you have made that I am really impressed with.  I wish more men out there would grasp what you have just written.

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ORIGINAL: oreogirl

I've read some of the posts here, and being a sub, I can offer this:  sometimes there is one minor thing that  we don't match with  on a Dom/mes page.  If its just one thing, then that could be something overlookied.  I generally describe myself as a short thick sub who is flirty, devoted, and more interested in Daddy Doms than sadists.  However, if I read a profile, and the Dom has a thing fo maso subs, I contact them. Sometimes  it's just to comment ontheir profile, sometimes its to ask what is the least level of pain they've inflicted.  Generally, when we subs contact Doms, and recognize that we arent a perfect match, it's because we fit 95% and would like to show that maybe, just maybe, that last 5% can be brought out one day.

Just my penny

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cloudboy wrote: Why get so irritated with men trying to find some common ground with you?

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ORIGINAL: beeble

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cloudboy wrote: Why get so irritated with men trying to find some common ground with you?

Because, in general, they're not trying to find any common ground beyond, `You're looking for a sub; I'm a sub.'

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ORIGINAL: AllforFun

Werent you the Domme that posted about being so irritated (I dont remember your exact words besides the scolding) when a sub did exactly what your doing now? Posting about your emails on the message board? As I recall you went off on a rant about how you found that displeasing and undesireable, etc. yet here you are doing the exact same thing. I usually wouldnt say anything and would just quietly observe but I have noticed the hypocritical behavior in your posts for quite some time even though I maybe painting a big red bullseye on my ass,  I feel I should point this out. I understad that as a Domme you feel you have more lattitude with such things and I actually agree with this, it is afterall an S&M board. But I feel that it is a little beyond arrogant to slam someone else for this and then turn around and blatatenly do it yourself a month or so later.

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

The title of this thread has been the recurrent theme in my inbox these past few days.

Each author had their own "exception" to my rules -- age, marital status, what they were seeking.

Each letter clearly acknowledged that the writer was clear on what I wanted, chose to disregard it and air his own needs.  What was more distressing is that the author went on, in each of these missives (all from different individuals) to tell me that they were sure that once I talked to them that I'd surely want them serving me!

Presumptuous?  Rude?  Brazen?  Selfish?  Disrespectful?

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Folks are constantly complaining that they don't get responses to their emails here on CM.  So here's a request -- what could possibly be said to these folks who write emails like this?  Does it make any sense to even bother to respond?  Do they deserve it back with both barrels of the shotgun, or do they need the firm hand of redirection telling them where they erred? 

For the guys -- can you give me some insight as to why this happens?  Why would you write to someone and waste their time if you know full well that you don't qualify for what they seek?  Are you just looking for jollies or is there some hidden "thing" in your sending this sort of email?

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

Why get so irritated with men trying to find some common ground with you?

Any guy with intestinal fortitude will try to overcome a woman's initial objections. As long as they are tactful, I think their efforts are laudable.

Next, how much effort does it take for you to say "no thank you."

I don't get why you feel so put out and put off.