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RE: Collarme classifications - 11/12/2007 3:21:18 PM   
GoddessMine


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RE: Collarme classifications - 11/12/2007 3:21:28 PM   
ItzKat


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Status: offline 		Dear great communicator... your first post here leave tons to be desired.

Be careful what you wish for... you just might get it.... and find yourself rated out and blacklisted. 

I have got to agree with everyone else on your profile.  While listing yourself as a beginner if fine, but get real about what you are looking for.  What makes thinks that 18 year old hotties are looking for an old guy.  But hey, fantisies are fun eh? 

Also, T said it well.  You may be a dom... but that doesn't mean everyone sub is yours.  And just because a sub is looking, doesn't mean she is looking for you.  When I first posted my profile, I posted that I was only looking for friends and that I was collared, but that didn't stop the bombardment.  Evedently just posting as a sub means lots of attention.  I finally went back and made the profile a bit more off putting and made it very clear that I am not looking to replace my Dom.  Now I get no messages.  oh well. 

I used to help host dungeon parties at a local B&B (Bed and Bondage).  While I was in the kitchen making snacks and lots of people milling about, a Dom walked up to me and said..."I will allow you to ask me three questions to learn about me."  I had never even seen this guy before and I had no idea what he was on about.  He had to be in his late 50's, he was close to 350lbs and I was wearing a collar.  Finally I said... "ok, what is it about you that makes you think I want to learn anything about you?"  He sputtered a bit and finally said, "well you are a sub and I am a Dom."  As if that explained everything.  My only reply was, "Yes, I am a sub... I am his sub (pointing to my Dom who watched this from the other side of the room), not yours."  The guy looked completely confused.  He then spent five minutes telling my Dom how rude I was and how I should be punished for speaking to him without respect.  We all had a good laugh after he walked out of the room.  Still makes it giggle a little thinking about that look on his face.  Sort of wish I could see Chicagoguy's when he reads these responses. 

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RE: Collarme classifications - 11/12/2007 3:34:42 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


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Status: offline 		Wow!  You are 56 years old, 5'11" and weigh in a 300 pounds.
You have written in your profile that you have specific parameters for potential slave girls as:

quote:

The slave I seek should be petite and preferably between the ages of 18-35. I am open to older slaves if they are petite and can comfortably appear in public in short skirts and heels.

 
You go  on to state that she should be comfortable with PDA.  You are divorced and still seeking a relationship that could lead to marriage and children.
 
I appreciate your honesty in listing every single BDSM acitivty you checked off as "Beginner", except the 1950's Household, in which you are an "Expert".
You have been a member of this site for about 6 weeks.      I should leave it at "Yeah, he can't get a date"...
But honey!  This screams of "I need a trophy on my arm, and this is a great way to get it!"
And now you are also qualified to dictate who is a fake and how you should be able to publicly blacklist anyone you please?   It is all a matter of judgement and what is a fake to you, is someone else's perfect slave!
Who is going to decide what behavior or preference rates a bad attitude star? 
Oops...was I just meaner than kc?

< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 11/12/2007 3:52:13 PM >

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RE: Collarme classifications - 11/12/2007 4:27:07 PM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		LOL, yes you were and I'm damn proud of you, it took everything I had not to be meaner, and I damn sure didn't edit this time!!!  Kisses to you diva, am so glad you found a boy!!

To the OP...see? Some of us actually find people on here, lol.....let's see if you learn as well as you would like to teach.

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RE: Collarme classifications - 11/12/2007 5:11:58 PM   
dawntreader


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Status: offline 		chicago,
 
i have just perused your profile and skimmed your journals. There is alot of negative energy coming from your profile. i would suggest deleting your journals...they WILL NOT attract the age group you seek. Also i would encourage you to start taking better care of yourself if you wish to attract the type girl you describe on your profile. At the ancient age of 45, i find you and your lifestyle "too old" for me - i can only imagine what an 18 yr old would think.
 
i would suggest doing less negative journaling and more research into what women of that age group are looking for and the older men who are successful in "capturing" there interest. Then perhaps you can emulate those behaviors and maybe achieve success.
 
Termyn8or has a great post of advice...i suggest after the amount of time you have been on CM with no success, not even a playdate, that you take his advice to heart.
 
pax et lumina,
      j
(whose ass is tighter than most 20 yr olds)

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RE: Collarme classifications - 11/12/2007 5:49:56 PM   
kc692


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dawntreader

chicago,
 
i have just perused your profile and skimmed your journals. There is alot of negative energy coming from your profile. i would suggest deleting your journals...they WILL NOT attract the age group you seek. Also i would encourage you to start taking better care of yourself if you wish to attract the type girl you describe on your profile. At the ancient age of 45, i find you and your lifestyle "too old" for me - i can only imagine what an 18 yr old would think.
 
i would suggest doing less negative journaling and more research into what women of that age group are looking for and the older men who are successful in "capturing" there interest. Then perhaps you can emulate those behaviors and maybe achieve success.
 
Termyn8or has a great post of advice...i suggest after the amount of time you have been on CM with no success, not even a playdate, that you take his advice to heart.
 
pax et lumina,
      j
(whose ass is tighter than most 20 yr olds)


I have seen that ass, (and even though you are straight) I must say....yummmmmmmm.  Anyway, don't help him babes, let him keep that stuff there, will be an indication to subs what he is like inside, and then maybe the right 20 year old will find him, knowing it all, (yeah....right) anyway, lol.  It seems from one poster here, I am guessing she has had communications with him, and therefore let the rest know from his own mouth.  Just my opinion, lol. 

To the OP: Even though you are a beginner on your profile, most doms do come back to the scene of the crime and reply.  Having a backbone and responding to shots in the dark like you did is part of being a dom.........let's see if you come back and show us what you got.

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RE: Collarme classifications - 11/12/2007 6:03:14 PM   
dawntreader


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Status: offline 		Thankyou Lady Katherine :-) i was bold writing that last line and now i am blushing!LOL!
 
As to helping the poor codger, well he is probably not the type to listen to advice from a mere submissive anyway~
 
peace to You and Yours,
             j
p.s. i promise i am coming back down!

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RE: Collarme classifications - 11/12/2007 6:03:59 PM   
pinksugarsub


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Status: offline 		What about the search function classifications: dominant, submissive, switch, and slave.  Many times i have come into contact with a member who really doesn't fit neatly into one (or only one) classification.
 
The possible addditional classifications are probably infinite though, and i know that certainly isn't feasible.
 
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RE: Collarme classifications - 11/12/2007 7:25:05 PM   
kc692


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quote:

ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub

What about the search function classifications: dominant, submissive, switch, and slave.  Many times i have come into contact with a member who really doesn't fit neatly into one (or only one) classification.
 
The possible addditional classifications are probably infinite though, and i know that certainly isn't feasible.
 
pinksugarsub


You do understand the OP was asking for a way to let others know that he thought someone was a fake, and that he should be allowed to respond to a member even if he had been blocked?

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RE: Collarme classifications - 11/12/2007 7:27:07 PM   
kc692


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dawntreader

Thankyou Lady Katherine :-) i was bold writing that last line and now i am blushing!LOL!
 
As to helping the poor codger, well he is probably not the type to listen to advice from a mere submissive anyway~
 
peace to You and Yours,
             j
p.s. i promise i am coming back down!


Cant help it, I call tight asses as I seem em, and well again, yummmm, lol.  We are waiting for you to set a date, you are welcome in My household as often and long as you would like.

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RE: Collarme classifications - 11/12/2007 7:31:40 PM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		OP if you actually read the admin posts they explain rather well why there is not classification for "fakes" (as if there is such a thing).  You can and should report scams from other countries and they encourage it.  They'd probably have to actually pay the Mods tons o money to kick every jerk off, but you know, how sad you don't get to respond to their rudeness with more rudeness? lol (wait actually I enjoy that too, but should the Mods/Admins have to deal with sorting out that bs, of course not).  However, your profile gives some real clues as to why you might be blocked.

I do agree it would be nice to have more categories for profiles, but hell I don't run the place and it's way better than the other personal sites in my opinion.

< Message edited by laurell3 -- 11/12/2007 7:34:28 PM >

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RE: Collarme classifications - 11/12/2007 8:04:20 PM   
dawntreader


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Status: offline 		Thankyou Lady Katherine,
 
i will be checking dates
            j

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RE: Collarme classifications - 11/12/2007 8:31:34 PM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		I am looking forward to it very much!!

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This is only MY opinion. If it's not yours, let's agree in advance to agree to disagree, OR, you can just get the fuck over what I had to say:)

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RE: Collarme classifications - 11/15/2007 11:01:55 AM   
ItalianSMistress


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quote:

ORIGINAL: chicagoguy1



    What I would like added ( each person only can vote once for each topic)

    - Is a rating system like positive or negative – for issues like attitudes, be littling people, or failure to respond.
    - Is a fake indicator (more responses more likely fake)  - game players, people seeking money for services, sales of other web services like web dating, pay for web cams, or Individuals who misrepresent themselves men posing as females, individuals who say they are from the US but are from Africa. When they reach a certain level they are terminated from collarme.
    - An indicator if they have blocked you from sending email – reason in my case contact an individual. They  responded with a no so nice response then shut you down from responding before you can make a reply.





      I could say more, but this is the only part that I am going to comment on.  Do you not realize how many of the Dommes would be terminated on a daily basis for no reason if CM did something like this?  Most of us get buried in messages and not only do we not have time to respond to ones that are clearly not what we are looking for and did not take the time to read the profile in detail to know that, or could not take the time to write a proper message, the ones the clearly cut and paste a novel into each Dommes inbox, or are rude.  I am sure that most of those sad little boys would hit that "fake" button just out of revenge for every Domme that would not give them the time of day.  And a rating system for who has a bad attitude or does not respond? are you kidding us? Why should I be nice or even respond to messages like the ones listed above?

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